Really upset right now

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  • spirytwynd
    spirytwynd Posts: 141 Member
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    OP, please allow me to make a few statements.
    If this is real, please get help.
    If this is bogus, please go be bogus elsewhere. Not saying you are an internet troll but there are some out there.
    That said:

    No. You did not deserve this.
    No. You are not wrong to feel angry, hurt or violated.
    No. You are not a bad person.
    No. You are not ugly.
    No. You are not unworthy.
    No. You were not dressed wrong.
    No. You were not asking for it.

    Yes, you have value.
    Yes, you are important.
    Yes, you are worthwhile.
    Yes, you are special and unique.
    Please find help.

    If Taiwan can't get you someone to talk to, use one of the other numbers to call. Check with a church, a hospital, a relief organization such as the Red Cross. Call back to the US or Skype if necessary.
    Rape and sexual assault is not about penetration, though that can be part of it. It is about victimization, terror, someone feeling power and control over someone else, and a number of other unwelcome things. If it was unwelcome by you, it was wrong.
  • mactaffy84
    mactaffy84 Posts: 398 Member
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    Without trying to be rude, what on earth has this got to do with fitness and exercise?...

    Don't you have any compassion? This may not be the best place, but is it so difficult to put yourself into another person's shoes and not be so self-absorbed?

    OP, I have no idea how to help, but maybe go on line to find a counselor. Good luck!

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