when your spouse is skinny and your fat

dontgiveup709

Is this a issue for anybody else?

knitapeace

I can talk about it from the other side of the coin: I'm finally taking control of my weight and health and my husband has ongoing health and weight issues. And I can tell you this: I love him just the same no matter what. So if you're having issues at home (as long as your partner isn't abusing you in some way) then try to assume that they love you and care for you, and that they don't judge you. They're probably proud of you for being on this site and starting to take control!

clareyoung80

I'll be happy when I weigh less than him!

sweetcurlz67

oh don't get me started on this topic!!!

my ex was fat and I was fat. at one point I worked and went to school, then I worked two jobs. at one point, he didn't work and he still doesn't. yet he called me fat and lazy! efff him! HE was/is the lazy one! to this day he's trying to get ME to pay HIM alimony! :explode: April 14th (ten days) is the court date, let's hope the judge sees past his bs and doesn't make me pay!

dlockhart1955

I have a weight issue and have for many years. I am up and down on the scale. Right now I need to lose about 35 - 40 lbs.

My husband and I have been married 20 years now and the most he ever weighed is 125. He is 5'10 or 11 and eats like a horse.
It makes me sick. He eats ice cream, chips, junk, and doesn't gain.

But right now he has health issues due to his smoking and I think he may weigh less than 120 which is not healthy.

dontgiveup709

My wife is such a trooper, but i know there are times when she is embarrassed of my weight, hence the the reason i need to start this journey and not give up. I would take all the support i can get, hopping my wife will be my biggest cheerleader, I believe she will.