Am I eating enough?!?! Help

Hello you lovely people. I am trying to lose weight but appear to have lost my appetite lately... I was really happy with today but I don't know if it's good or not.

My calorie goal is 1200
My food was 938
My exercise was -528
Remaining calories 790
And net 410

Please help... :/:(
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  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    Your target is probably a lot lower than it should be, judging by your profile picture. It would help if you gave your stats (height, weight, age, etc)

    And, yes, a net of 410 is entirely too low. Regardless of your current weight, you need to eat enough to fuel your body. From the looks of your picture, you're probably already within a healthy weight range or pretty damn close, so you should change your MFP goals so you're losing 1/2 lb per week. Additionally, you should eat back a percentage of your exercise calories.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1080242-a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants

    Read this.
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    Eat more food. You should be NETTING 1200 at least.

    Read the sexy pants link and this one.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1235566-so-you-re-new-here?hl=so+you're+new+here

    Change your goals. You have only 21 lbs to lose

    If you have 15 -25 lbs to lose 0.5 to 1.0 lbs/week is ideal
    If you have less than 15 lbs to lose 0.5 lbs/week is ideal
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    MFP already factors in the fact that you're trying to lose weight and sets you at a deficit. You could lose weight just by eating at said deficit. Any calories you burn other than the deficit are fair game to eat more. You will still lose.
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    Organs need calories to keep us alive. The body needs adequate fuel to do what we ask of it. Hunger is not always a great sign of when to eat because it's controlled by hormones. If you aren't eating properly your hormones will be off...
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    I think it looks fine. I see NO reason why you should eat back the calories you worked so hard to burn off. Also if you are not hungry then you don't need to eat. If you get hungry then eat

    Hunger is probably the worst indicator that someone is getting enough to eat. The hormones that control our hunger signals can be affected by too many things, including prolonged undereating or exercise. You have to look at the bigger picture and take into account things like energy levels, mood, concentration, as well as physical cues like healthy skin and nails.

    A day here and there below your calorie levels isn't a problem, but if you're having a hard time eating enough then consider adding some calorie dense foods into your day. Things like nuts, nut butter, avocado, full fat dairy, olive oil, coconut oil, butter, ice cream, protein shakes & smoothies, etc. can add a lot of calories without adding a lot of food to your dat.
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    Thanks for the advice guys... Exactly what I needed!
    I currently weight 69kg/152lbs
    My height is 5ft 7in
    I am 18
  • rm33064
    rm33064 Posts: 270 Member
    You need way more calories than 400. At that level your body is going to go into starvation mode and resist losing weight. You're actually going to lose less weight than you would if you were near your target deficit. Try your best to end up with your 1200 calorie goal each day. Have a candy bar or something really high calorie if you really aren't hungry and need to make up the calories.
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    Thanks for the advice guys... Exactly what I needed!
    I currently weight 69kg/152lbs
    My height is 5ft 7in
    I am 18

    You should probably raise your calories to lose about a half pound a week. And I agree with adding in more high calorie foods.
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,431 MFP Moderator
    What is your workout routine? And how active are you outside of exercise? If it makes you feel better the average woman I know eat 1700 to 2100 calories a day. Usually on the higher end when as young as you.
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    I just feel terrible... I did a great workout today and then had some cheese and crackers to make it up to what it is now. I HATE eating high calorie foods after. Workout!! Plus, it's 22:18 at night where I am... I just feel so low
  • buzybev
    buzybev Posts: 199 Member
    I'm waffling between 156-157, but I'm your height (and 5 years older) and eat around 1700-1800 a day. Did you set your goal to 2lbs/week? That might be your fist issue. Too aggressive of a goal for the amount of weight you are trying to lose. .5lbs/week would probably be better and more safe/sustainable.

    tl;dr: EAT MOAR! Oh and make sure you weigh/measure everything that goes into your mouth.
  • ccf_trainer
    ccf_trainer Posts: 86 Member
    Not nearly enough.
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    Well I walk a lot, and I live up a hill and it's a night mare to climb! Haha.
    I usually do bikes and cross trainer when I go to the gym and that burns between 200 and 300 calories, depending how I feel.
    I do upper body too, but that's not a concern for me.
    Lots of ab work too.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    I just feel terrible... I did a great workout today and then had some cheese and crackers to make it up to what it is now. I HATE eating high calorie foods after. Workout!! Plus, it's 22:18 at night where I am... I just feel so low

    Eating late at night won't hurt your progress. Eating high calorie foods won't hurt your progress. As long as you're meeting your calorie and nutritional goals, it doesn't make much difference how you space those calories out. The cheese and crackers sounds like a good thing to me!
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    I just feel terrible... I did a great workout today and then had some cheese and crackers to make it up to what it is now. I HATE eating high calorie foods after. Workout!! Plus, it's 22:18 at night where I am... I just feel so low

    Not all high calorie foods are bad! Actually, I go by the philosophy that no foods are bad. I eat anything I want within my calorie restrictions and have no problems losing weight.

    However, if you like to eat healthier, I would suggest nuts or peanut butter to fill some calories. I don't think cheese is bad either, it's not super nutritious, but it's not empty calories by any means.

    And don't worry about tonight. Tomorrow is a new day. Try eating higher calorie foods throughout the day so you don't feel like you have to eat them all at night and just let today go. One day isn't going to hurt you.
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    Yeah, I did set it to lose 2lbs per week
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    I just feel terrible... I did a great workout today and then had some cheese and crackers to make it up to what it is now. I HATE eating high calorie foods after. Workout!! Plus, it's 22:18 at night where I am... I just feel so low

    Eating late at night won't hurt your progress. Eating high calorie foods won't hurt your progress. As long as you're meeting your calorie and nutritional goals, it doesn't make much difference how you space those calories out. The cheese and crackers sounds like a good thing to me!

    ^^This
  • wonderwoman234
    wonderwoman234 Posts: 551 Member
    First of all, you are a lovely young woman. :)

    I am also 5'7 and 46 years old. I eat 1600-1800 calories per day and I also work out 5 days a week, doing both cardio and weight lifting. I am losing 1 lb. per week doing that.

    Given your young age, your metabolism is probably faster than a 46 year old woman. So I would imagine you should be eating AT LEAST what I am eating and you will still be able to lose weight.
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    Yeah, I did set it to lose 2lbs per week

    You should probably set your goals to a half pound a week.
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    The last thing I want is for my body to go into starvation mode... I just see so many Instagram profiles of beautifully skinny girls and want it so bad :(
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    It just seems so lame... I know, I'm too impatient
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    The last thing I want is for my body to go into starvation mode... I just see so many Instagram profiles of beautifully skinny girls and want it so bad :(

    Sweetie, you shouldn't base your goals on people who are likely photoshopped. I think you look good in your profile picture and I understand that you probably want to lose a bit more to be healthy. However, SO MANY pictures on the internet are not realistic goals. You should do some research for what a healthy weight would be for your height and check out mybodygallery.com to see what you find attractive in the women on here. I find that some of the pictures on there are photoshopped but they're not nearly as bad as other places on the webz.
  • knra_grl
    knra_grl Posts: 1,566 Member
    I just feel terrible... I did a great workout today and then had some cheese and crackers to make it up to what it is now. I HATE eating high calorie foods after. Workout!! Plus, it's 22:18 at night where I am... I just feel so low

    Eating late at night won't hurt your progress. Eating high calorie foods won't hurt your progress. As long as you're meeting your calorie and nutritional goals, it doesn't make much difference how you space those calories out. The cheese and crackers sounds like a good thing to me!

    +1
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    You're all so helpful - thank you!! I don't have much of an idea really, it's frustrating. I think I'm just too ambitious and not patient enough
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    You're all so helpful - thank you!! I don't have much of an idea really, it's frustrating. I think I'm just too ambitious and not patient enough

    I get you there. My first try at losing weight, I ate around 800 thinking I would lose quicker and be happier. I was just moodier and tired all the time. I rebounded and gained back most of what I lose. Then, I did some research and stalked the MFP forums and got great advice and I'm now eating around 1600-1800 and losing a pound a week. It's not the quickest weight loss, but it's HEALTHY! Which is what truly matters.
  • Apocalypz
    Apocalypz Posts: 155 Member
    You're all so helpful - thank you!! I don't have much of an idea really, it's frustrating. I think I'm just too ambitious and not patient enough
    There's your lesson learned then, yea? If you deprive your body, then it will fight back and you won't like those results. Based on your most recent post, it appears that patience is what needs to be accomplished more so than weight loss, right? Let's start there.
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    I think it's literally about getting my head around that concept.. I hate the idea of eating a lot of calories. I think it's definitely clear that I need to do some research - that's why I posted on here. It's nice to hear others opinions
  • cloemillerpicton1
    cloemillerpicton1 Posts: 21 Member
    Yeah, definitely. The whole net calorie thing really confuses me and the last thing I want is to be starving my body
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    I think it's literally about getting my head around that concept.. I hate the idea of eating a lot of calories. I think it's definitely clear that I need to do some research - that's why I posted on here. It's nice to hear others opinions

    Look up the group Eat, Train, Progress. Sarasf2uk is an awesome example of women who look good and eat plenty. She and Sidesteel have awesome advice and are probably the best people on MFP to follow.
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    I workout so I can eat more food!!!

    I lift all the heavy things and walk.

    I'm 5'5' and eat around 1900 calories a day.