I SUCK at putting food in my mouth!

I absolutely SUCK at putting food in my mouth. I just don't have the time to eat. I want to gain a 0.5 lb of muscle per week but I can't consume 3000 calories . . . on a good day, maybe I'll eat 2,000 calories.

I'm 5' 10" @ 145lbs with 7% BF

I understand that I can consume protein drinks and powdered supplements from any vendor, but I'd like to actually eat real food. I'm not lazy by any means; I'm just crazy busy and a bit ADD :)

I know some answers to my challenge, so this is more of a rant, but it's the most challenging aspect of my health path. I can pre cook and freeze or pack food for trips . . . I get it, pre plan your menu and start feeding your muscles.

BUT - if I'm missing something then please let me know. Or maybe you can relate?
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  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Peanut butter....
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    In addition to peanut butter as the previous poster said, you can incorporate:
    avocados,
    olives,
    walnuts,
    cashews,
    almonds,
    salmon,
    tuna,
    olive oil.

    healthy fats...
  • allaboutthecake
    allaboutthecake Posts: 1,535 Member
    I'd eat steak-n-eggs every morning for breakfast:love: Thank gawd I don't have to cook for your whiney a**:laugh: :laugh:
  • Will_Thrust_For_Candy
    Will_Thrust_For_Candy Posts: 6,109 Member
    This is a problem I DO NOT have.

    Have you tried a gainer shake? From my understanding you can get some that are like 1200 calories for one shake. Maybe that would be something to try?
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    i have an alarm clock set to noon b'c when i get busy that's my most common time of the day to forget to eat.

    Think about your life, how many alarms do you have. Set one for each meal/snack time and carry portable foods you can eat when you need them, like snack bars, nuts, pnut butter packets, honey packets, sugar packets, dry oatmeal packets to mix with hot water from any starbucks, things like that.

    Set your cell phone, your bedside alarm, your watch alarm, your work clock alarm, every alarm you have for the different times you need to eat. ADD does not sound easy but your ears still work and hopefully this can help.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Excuse me..let me go grab a tissue so I can cry for you. :)

    i feel like these types of comments are NOT helpful. OP did after all post in a "gain weight" thread and so thusly deserves no smairly comments from the ppl trying to lose weight peanuts gallery.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Wish I had this problem...lol

    this one too, (strikeout)
  • geebusuk
    geebusuk Posts: 3,348 Member
    Eat calorie dense food.

    Icecream is a favourite of many on here.

    If you've got time to workout, you've got time to eat.

    Hell, better to have a shorter workout and take some of that time eating.

    I had 1000 calories worth of pizza BETWEEN SETS earlier.
    True story, too! :)

    (The hanging leg raises I chucked in as a bit of additional abs work after, not quite so good - by that point I'd polished off the rest of the 750 calorie 'ice cream log' I'd started earlier (117 carbs, 23 fat, 10g protein - tasty way to get the energy in.)

    Overall today I've eaten 4225 calories and none of it took a massive amount of time - though I do have the benefit of having my own weights, so can do stuff between sets.
  • dwilks42
    dwilks42 Posts: 18
    It's really not entirely different than the millions of people that struggle with the exact opposite problem (putting TOO much food in their mouths). Just like you might be skipping meals (consciously or subconsciously), those trying to "diet"/cut/lose weight might choose to (consciously or subconsciously) have one too many treats and exceed their caloric intake.

    Either way, it comes down to REALLY wanting to achieve the desired result. If people want a leaner physique, they're going to make the sacrifice to move more & eat less. Just like them, you might have to sacrifice a bit and make eating a priority, if bulking is truly your desired result.

    Combine making it a priority with some of the calorie-dense foods previous posters have suggested and you'll be well on your way.

    Best of luck with the gainz!
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    It's really not entirely different than the millions of people that struggle with the exact opposite problem (putting TOO much food in their mouths). Just like you might be skipping meals (consciously or subconsciously), those trying to "diet"/cut/lose weight might choose to (consciously or subconsciously) have one too many treats and exceed their caloric intake.

    Either way, it comes down to REALLY wanting to achieve the desired result. If people want a leaner physique, they're going to make the sacrifice to move more & eat less. Just like them, you might have to sacrifice a bit and make eating a priority, if bulking is truly your desired result.

    Combine making it a priority with some of the calorie-dense foods previous posters have suggested and you'll be well on your way.

    Best of luck with the gainz!

    I feel like "REALLY wanting" is no match for OP's busy or his ADD.
  • dwilks42
    dwilks42 Posts: 18
    It's really not entirely different than the millions of people that struggle with the exact opposite problem (putting TOO much food in their mouths). Just like you might be skipping meals (consciously or subconsciously), those trying to "diet"/cut/lose weight might choose to (consciously or subconsciously) have one too many treats and exceed their caloric intake.

    Either way, it comes down to REALLY wanting to achieve the desired result. If people want a leaner physique, they're going to make the sacrifice to move more & eat less. Just like them, you might have to sacrifice a bit and make eating a priority, if bulking is truly your desired result.

    Combine making it a priority with some of the calorie-dense foods previous posters have suggested and you'll be well on your way.

    Best of luck with the gainz!

    I feel like "REALLY wanting" is no match for OP's busy or his ADD.

    That just goes back to my point that there has to be sacrifice. Whether it's gaining or losing, there is always going to be some obstacle in the way isn't there? Then the only question is whether it becomes an excuse not to do it, or an obstacle you overcome so that you can do it.
  • Oi_Sunshine
    Oi_Sunshine Posts: 819 Member
    Excuse me..let me go grab a tissue so I can cry for you. :)
    Wish I had this problem...lol
    Wonder how comments like these would be received on the 'Losing Weight' boards if those of us trying to gain posted them?

    Clearly, you are the devil, and would be labelled as such. Hold still while i grab my torch and pitchfork...


    OP, try boiling a dozen eggs, and keep them in the fridge so you can grab a couple at a time for a quick food, or mash it up with some mayo for egg salad sandwiches when you have a bit more time. Bananas are an easy bring along food. Either buy or make up a bunch of individually wrapped burger patties, or sausages that you can fry up for quick dinners. Bagels instead of bread for sandwiches
  • SuperstarDJ
    SuperstarDJ Posts: 441 Member
    Excuse me..let me go grab a tissue so I can cry for you. :)
    Wish I had this problem...lol
    Wonder how comments like these would be received on the 'Losing Weight' boards if those of us trying to gain posted them?

    Clearly, you are the devil, and would be labelled as such. Hold still while i grab my torch and pitchfork...
    ???
  • geebusuk
    geebusuk Posts: 3,348 Member
    Oh and chocolate milk too - 75 calories / 100ml or so, so 750 calories a litre.

    Similar macros to 'bulking' powders.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    It's really not entirely different than the millions of people that struggle with the exact opposite problem (putting TOO much food in their mouths). Just like you might be skipping meals (consciously or subconsciously), those trying to "diet"/cut/lose weight might choose to (consciously or subconsciously) have one too many treats and exceed their caloric intake.

    Either way, it comes down to REALLY wanting to achieve the desired result. If people want a leaner physique, they're going to make the sacrifice to move more & eat less. Just like them, you might have to sacrifice a bit and make eating a priority, if bulking is truly your desired result.

    Combine making it a priority with some of the calorie-dense foods previous posters have suggested and you'll be well on your way.

    Best of luck with the gainz!

    I feel like "REALLY wanting" is no match for OP's busy or his ADD.

    That just goes back to my point that there has to be sacrifice. Whether it's gaining or losing, there is always going to be some obstacle in the way isn't there? Then the only question is whether it becomes an excuse not to do it, or an obstacle you overcome so that you can do it.

    I guess I don't know enough about ADD to know if actual SPECIFIC tools might be more useful to the OP or just some BUCK UP kinds of advice. IDK. Just overall reading his OP the "busy" and "ADD" stuck out in my mind as the top obstacles to be overcome for his success. I in NO way meant those to be excuses but just the points to focus on ironing out to look forward to success.

    Sorry if it seemed like I was excusing him for anything, I'm fairly certain he seems to want to work out whatevers in his way of getting his cals up. At least that's how his tone came across.
  • rm33064
    rm33064 Posts: 270 Member
    Don't eat as clean as humanly possible. That's usually the problem for people in your lucky little boat, they want to eat 3000 calories but can't figure out how to put down that much broccoli. Your body just needs the calories, it doesn't care where they come from. Have a few doughnuts for breakfast and eat clean the rest of day. No time? Have a couple candy bars for lunch. It's not going the be unhealthy for you as long as most of your diet comes from healthy sources which I'm sure it does.
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    What kinds of foods are you eating now? Your diary is blank.
  • Oi_Sunshine
    Oi_Sunshine Posts: 819 Member
    Excuse me..let me go grab a tissue so I can cry for you. :)
    Wish I had this problem...lol
    Wonder how comments like these would be received on the 'Losing Weight' boards if those of us trying to gain posted them?

    Clearly, you are the devil, and would be labelled as such. Hold still while i grab my torch and pitchfork...
    ???

    I was giving an example of the reception he would receive in the scenario described.

    I dont actually want to torch or pitchfork him. Although that makes me think of bbq...

    ETA: the quote I had responded to was deleted, so now i just sound like a crazy lady muttering to herself. Story of my life.
  • lookin4gains
    lookin4gains Posts: 1,761 Member
    I absolutely SUCK at putting food in my mouth. I just don't have the time to eat. I want to gain a 0.5 lb of muscle per week but I can't consume 3000 calories . . . on a good day, maybe I'll eat 2,000 calories.

    I'm 5' 10" @ 145lbs with 7% BF

    I understand that I can consume protein drinks and powdered supplements from any vendor, but I'd like to actually eat real food. I'm not lazy by any means; I'm just crazy busy and a bit ADD :)

    I know some answers to my challenge, so this is more of a rant, but it's the most challenging aspect of my health path. I can pre cook and freeze or pack food for trips . . . I get it, pre plan your menu and start feeding your muscles.

    BUT - if I'm missing something then please let me know. Or maybe you can relate?





    I can relate, its a pain in the *kitten* eating all the time. I refuse to eat crappy food. Only thing I can recommend is a mass gainer. I have been drinking three shakes a day from GNC Beyond Raw Mass Gainer. On top of that power foods will help. Avacado, Peanut butter, nuts, fruits and veggies. The mass gainer alone will add 870 calories a day. I've put on about 10 lbs. in a couple weeks. All I can say is just keep snacks with you and constantly snack on them throughout the whole day.
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    OP, think of it this way: your body needs a certain amount of vitamins and minerals and amino acids in order to run. The amount of each of those things is not a percentage of your total intake, it is just a flat number.

    For example if you normally eat 2000 calories to maintain and get 60mg of vitamin C per day, when bulking at 3000 calories you DO NOT suddenly need 90 mg of vitamin C. So if you eat your maintenance consisting of all of the foods you normally eat to maintain, this will get you your required micronutrients. The rest do not need to contain any micronutrients, so even if you were add all the extra calories in the form of 100% pure sugar/fat/protein molecules, you would still get the nutrition your body needs to be healthy.
  • trojan_bb
    trojan_bb Posts: 699 Member
    Blend it. Blend it all.

    I have the same problem. I don't enjoy eating at home. I can gorge myself at a restaurant, but I hate eating/prepping/putting food in my mouth at home. much easier to drink the calories.
  • shannahendren
    shannahendren Posts: 1 Member
    Check out Apetamin on you tube. It really helps.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Don't eat as clean as humanly possible. That's usually the problem for people in your lucky little boat, they want to eat 3000 calories but can't figure out how to put down that much broccoli. Your body just needs the calories, it doesn't care where they come from. Have a few doughnuts for breakfast and eat clean the rest of day. No time? Have a couple candy bars for lunch. It's not going the be unhealthy for you as long as most of your diet comes from healthy sources which I'm sure it does.
    OP, think of it this way: your body needs a certain amount of vitamins and minerals and amino acids in order to run. The amount of each of those things is not a percentage of your total intake, it is just a flat number.

    For example if you normally eat 2000 calories to maintain and get 60mg of vitamin C per day, when bulking at 3000 calories you DO NOT suddenly need 90 mg of vitamin C. So if you eat your maintenance consisting of all of the foods you normally eat to maintain, this will get you your required micronutrients. The rest do not need to contain any micronutrients, so even if you were add all the extra calories in the form of 100% pure sugar/fat/protein molecules, you would still get the nutrition your body needs to be healthy.

    TL;DR Get Dirty

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  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    Ice cream.

    That was my finisher for my bulking days (3500+) when I didn't get there from "normal" food during the day. That said, it isn't *that* hard to get there with regular food...just look for opportunities to add cheese, butter, etc....but I understand how it can turn into a real grind, especially if you're not disciplined to front-load your day with calories.

    ETA: Ah, yes, chocolate milk. I forgot about the cups of that I would have post-workout/whenever. Good call, geebusuk.
  • dwilks42
    dwilks42 Posts: 18
    It's really not entirely different than the millions of people that struggle with the exact opposite problem (putting TOO much food in their mouths). Just like you might be skipping meals (consciously or subconsciously), those trying to "diet"/cut/lose weight might choose to (consciously or subconsciously) have one too many treats and exceed their caloric intake.

    Either way, it comes down to REALLY wanting to achieve the desired result. If people want a leaner physique, they're going to make the sacrifice to move more & eat less. Just like them, you might have to sacrifice a bit and make eating a priority, if bulking is truly your desired result.

    Combine making it a priority with some of the calorie-dense foods previous posters have suggested and you'll be well on your way.

    Best of luck with the gainz!

    I feel like "REALLY wanting" is no match for OP's busy or his ADD.

    That just goes back to my point that there has to be sacrifice. Whether it's gaining or losing, there is always going to be some obstacle in the way isn't there? Then the only question is whether it becomes an excuse not to do it, or an obstacle you overcome so that you can do it.

    I guess I don't know enough about ADD to know if actual SPECIFIC tools might be more useful to the OP or just some BUCK UP kinds of advice. IDK. Just overall reading his OP the "busy" and "ADD" stuck out in my mind as the top obstacles to be overcome for his success. I in NO way meant those to be excuses but just the points to focus on ironing out to look forward to success.

    Sorry if it seemed like I was excusing him for anything, I'm fairly certain he seems to want to work out whatevers in his way of getting his cals up. At least that's how his tone came across.

    Agreed. I also did not think you were excusing him. In fact, I thought I'd just give some "buck up" advice since some pretty good specific ideas were already covered by you and other previous posters. Getting dirty (with food choices), setting reminders/alarms, bringing portable foods, etc. would all be great at addressing his particular noted obstacles.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    It's really not entirely different than the millions of people that struggle with the exact opposite problem (putting TOO much food in their mouths). Just like you might be skipping meals (consciously or subconsciously), those trying to "diet"/cut/lose weight might choose to (consciously or subconsciously) have one too many treats and exceed their caloric intake.

    Either way, it comes down to REALLY wanting to achieve the desired result. If people want a leaner physique, they're going to make the sacrifice to move more & eat less. Just like them, you might have to sacrifice a bit and make eating a priority, if bulking is truly your desired result.

    Combine making it a priority with some of the calorie-dense foods previous posters have suggested and you'll be well on your way.

    Best of luck with the gainz!

    I feel like "REALLY wanting" is no match for OP's busy or his ADD.

    That just goes back to my point that there has to be sacrifice. Whether it's gaining or losing, there is always going to be some obstacle in the way isn't there? Then the only question is whether it becomes an excuse not to do it, or an obstacle you overcome so that you can do it.

    I guess I don't know enough about ADD to know if actual SPECIFIC tools might be more useful to the OP or just some BUCK UP kinds of advice. IDK. Just overall reading his OP the "busy" and "ADD" stuck out in my mind as the top obstacles to be overcome for his success. I in NO way meant those to be excuses but just the points to focus on ironing out to look forward to success.

    Sorry if it seemed like I was excusing him for anything, I'm fairly certain he seems to want to work out whatevers in his way of getting his cals up. At least that's how his tone came across.

    Agreed. I also did not think you were excusing him. In fact, I thought I'd just give some "buck up" advice since some pretty good specific ideas were already covered by you and other previous posters. Getting dirty (with food choices), setting reminders/alarms, bringing portable foods, etc. would all be great at addressing his particular noted obstacles.
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  • AliceDark
    AliceDark Posts: 3,886 Member
    OP, I'm with you. I forgot to eat today and am trying to make up 1300 calories between dinner, chocolate milk and probably some ice cream. I didn't think this was humanly possible, but I'm totally sick of ice cream. Try to ease up on the idea of eating clean -- you'll never hit your calories that way! Do the best you can, and then make up the rest with whatever you can stand to eat at the end of the day.
  • dwilks42
    dwilks42 Posts: 18
    Lmao! That gif killed me
  • lovelyMYlovely
    lovelyMYlovely Posts: 1,066 Member
    I don't blame ya... on high days for me ill eat 2100 calories... but ill be soooo full by that time... I cant imagine 3000 calories a day... idk maybe eat a chipotle burrito a day

    I get =
    chicken or steak
    cheese
    pico (the diced tomatoes n onions)
    guacamole
    brown rice
    pinto beans

    that alone is seriously 1000 calories for me!! maybe it'll help u haha... or just pick up drinking! haha beer has a lot of calories!! im jk don't pick up drinking :)
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    It occurred to me this morning to ask if lots of water was being consumed IN ADDITION to other fluids. There is a myth out there that one needs "8 glasses of water" to stay properly hydrated. That fluid intake does not need to be water alone. Almost any other liquid except those containing alcohol or excessive caffeine can count as well.

    DISCLAIMER: This is NOT a match thrown into a trash can. PLEASE do not turn this thread into a dumpster fire. I sincerely beleive it is possible our health minded OP could be walking around with a bottle of water in his hand all day long AND still drinking large drinks with his meals and also consuming all the liquid that is in smoothies or protein drinks etc.