Male Selfies, Gay or Ok?

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  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol
  • _Stardust_
    _Stardust_ Posts: 124 Member
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    Ya'll are OK people. You know that?
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
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    if you're taking a selfie to put up on grindr - gay AND ok

    if you're taking a selfie to put up on tindr - not gay, STILL ok

    if you're taking a selfie for any other reason - could be gay, could not be gay depending on sexual preference of the person taking the selfie and would STILL be ok.

    judging sexuality on behaviors that have nothing to do with sexuality - NOT OK

    acting as though any one sexuality is not ok - also NOT OK.


    i hope this cleared a few things up for you.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
  • verymissk
    verymissk Posts: 262 Member
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    You kiss your mother with that bigoted mouth?
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amiga.
    Edit: (I sees you female, I edits).
  • BurntCoffee
    BurntCoffee Posts: 234 Member
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    Do you mean is it weird for men to take selfies? I think it's fine to take body shots of yourself because you're really into working out and want to post them here or on fitness sites. But if you post them to things like Facebook you run the risk of running people away that think it's self centered. One of my oldest friends on FB drives me crazy with his crossfit selfies. Nobody cares! Go post those to a fitness website!
  • MysteriousMerlin
    MysteriousMerlin Posts: 2,270 Member
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    I love gay male selfies :blushing:
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,129 Member
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    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amigo.

    I like the cut of your jib.
  • pettychia
    pettychia Posts: 109 Member
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  • LazyBearGrrr
    LazyBearGrrr Posts: 35 Member
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    I think you pretty much summed it up here...
    if you're taking a selfie to put up on grindr - gay AND ok

    if you're taking a selfie to put up on tindr - not gay, STILL ok

    if you're taking a selfie for any other reason - could be gay, could not be gay depending on sexual preference of the person taking the selfie and would STILL be ok.

    judging sexuality on behaviors that have nothing to do with sexuality - NOT OK

    acting as though any one sexuality is not ok - also NOT OK.


    i hope this cleared a few things up for you.
  • Onderwoman
    Onderwoman Posts: 130
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    On a fitness site or fitness profile, OK.

    Anywhere else....please don't.

    Why not elsewhere? And why are you aspiring to be a condom by your username if you are the determinant of what is not "gay"?
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
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    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amigo.

    I like the cut of your jib.

    should you be staring at her jib like that?
  • boontarkas
    boontarkas Posts: 11
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    We work on our outside so we feel better on the inside. The inside is paramount, and as long as you remember that ...its all good.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amiga.
    Edit: (I sees you female, I edits).

    Me neither, but you know.
  • EvanKeel
    EvanKeel Posts: 1,904 Member
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    As to the question stated in the thread title, I'm going to go with...both. At least when it comes to the selfie I took of my husband kissing me over a package of oreos.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
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    I thought people were born that way??
    Never knew it was the camera all along!
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  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,129 Member
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    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amigo.

    I like the cut of your jib.

    should you be staring at her jib like that?

    Oh I'm sorry, I thought this was AMERICA!
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,642 Member
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    I only like selfies where the guys are flexing so hard it looks like their poop face...
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,129 Member
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    As to the question stated in the thread title, I'm going to go with...both. At least when it comes to the selfie I took of my husband kissing me over a package of oreos.

    That's some serious self restraint. Oreos are the ****.
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