is it wrong to want someone in pain to give them prospective

canbecanbe

the weekend was **** there was not food for me that i could eat so i went and bought food to have the other girls like it too and eat it on me, that dident bother me to bad.

My sister has trouble with her gallbladder i have had a lot of trouble and i had mine out due to acute pain that led to some nasty Big C talk and that is why i have to be careful what i eat they took some of my liver now i am a non drinker non smoker non red meat non flour I DO NOT eat cream milk cheeses my sister is non compliant when it comes to her diet she had heavy cream dinner and alcohol a lot alcohol lots of crap chips lollies junk food

What do you know she had pain not much because she was not crying and was not rolling around on the floor and if it is bad that is the least of what you do. I screamed at staff at my poor hospital to kill me over and over until they knocked me out with gas until the they got a line in and could give me morphine which did not help as much as you would think.

Anyway she umed and ared about packing up the holiday early to take her to the hospital to get pain meds (and i am telling you they can tell if you are in pain) she waited until i had packed up 5 large tables of scrapbooking crap to tell us she was felling better and not to ""worry about"" packing up

GGGGRrrrrrrrrr is it bad to ask for her to have one really bad bout of pain just so she can stop telling me it is just my pain tolerance that had me on the floor with it she is so smug

Holton

It sounds like you and your sister need to spend time apart or in counseling together to work through this. Folks do have different pain tolerance levels, but I agree, I don't have much patience for people who abuse their own body and put it into that state. Take care of yourself. Work at "letting go" of the sister issues (easier said than done I know). You can only change yourself and you can only control your own thoughts and actions. Focus on what you can do to make yourself better everyday.

NYIceQueen

No. I wanted my husband in labor for all 21 hrs of my labor with my first daughter :-)

RoadDog

Yep. It's wrong.

canbecanbe

Yep. It's wrong.

an obvious reaction to some one that has never met her