Looking for someone like me for motivation

Hey! I'm a 6' tall female with a large frame, currently 243 lbs. I've been searching for people like me for motivation and a little bit of guidance. I'm getting really discouraged, especially since my UGW is like 190 (being so tall with such a large frame, I don't think I could maintain any lower), and for so many people this is their fat weight. I haven't found any pictures of people with similar builds to be able to get an idea of what my UGW will look like, and just to see someone in the same situation as me. At 190, my BMI is still considered overweight... But according to online body fat calculators, even now I'm almost normal (28-30% they told me I was), which makes no sense with this stomach and thighs I'm carrying around.
I guess what I'm saying is I'm feeling really alone right now on my weight loss journey and am looking for someone with a similar body type to compare with, instead of so many of these smaller girls.