do you find anyone jealous of your success?

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  • mizmaxwil
    mizmaxwil Posts: 7 Member
    Well, having your partner be jealous is definitely something you have to talk through. Jealousy is almost always due to insecurity. My sister joked that I looked like a *kitten* when she saw me Mother's day, and it hurt my feelings. But I realize she's jealous, and I just need to let it go.

    (Please don't get outraged, lesbians reading this. I have lesbian friends who would be hurt by the same thing!)
  • Branstin
    Branstin Posts: 2,320 Member
    I have learned a long time ago not to waste my time with stupid people. By stupid I mean condescending idiots, not those who tell me the truth even if I don't want to hear it. I only had to deal with 2 people like that in my life. I point blank told them they were jealous, to mind their damn business, and go screw off. Insecurity is exactly what it is in my opinion.
  • ashley11scott
    ashley11scott Posts: 63 Member
    Thats to bad you should just show him you are not looking for another mate after a year it will pass once he relizes this is just ur new lifestyle now.and hitns still together....maybe try to inclued him!

    I have helped a close friend lose weight last year by tracking and exersice YET we are at a party some girl comments on how "tiny" i am and its b/c i dont have kids. I said oh no I am a proud mama and my friend whom i helped lose weight jumps in and says oh she(me) is "just naturaly skinny and always has been"! I kept my mouth closed but that hurt since she knows how much work and time goes into tracking, making good choices and working out is. It still buggs me and hurts me to this day.

    Since this is ur man you better exsplain to him how to makes you feel when he is not supportive and listen to him on why he feels the way he does. good luck!

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