heart aches, pain, & emotional destruction!

CHANGES4ME

:sad: I AM NOT SURE WHERE 2 START! EVERY THING WAS SO RITE EARLIER! I WAS AT WORK; I WAS RUNNIN AROUND LIKE A CRAZY WOMAN BUT I WAS OK. I HAVE GAURDIANSHIP OF 2 OF MY GRKIDS. 11, & 13. ( BOY, & GIRL ) THE MAN IN MY LIFE, & I HAVE BEEN 2GATHER FOR 6 YRS NOW. THERE HAVE BEEN SO MANY PROBS WITH MY KIDS, & GRKIDS.... HE IS A VERY HEAD STRONG PARENT. BUT HIS 1 PROBLEM THAT HE HAS IS HE SPANKS! BOTH OF US COME FROM ABUSIVE PARENTS.. & WHEN I CAME HOME 2NITE WE ARGUED, OH DID WE ARGUE.... CUZ I DONT BELIEVE IN SPANKIN.TAKE THIER CELLS, AWAY. U CANT GO 2 THE HOLLOWEEN DANCE, U R ON RESTRICTION, THERE R SO MANY WAYS 2 DISAPLINE A CHILD WITH OUT HAVIN 2 HIT.... HE IS TELLIN ME THAT HE HAS HAD IT, THEY ARENT HIS KIDS, HE DOESNT WANT 2 HAVE ANYTHING 2 DO WITH THEM... I CAN UNDERSTAND HIM BEIN UPSET. WHAT SET HIM OFF 2 NITE WAS THAT MY GRDAUGHTER ASKED 2 GO ON THE PORCH, WHEN HE WENT OUT ON THE PORCH SHE WAS NOT THERE OKKK, I TOLD HIM, SHE BROKE THE RULES, AS I TOLD HIM, THERE IS RESTRICTION, TAKE THE CELLS, I DONT BELIEVE U HAVE 2 SPANK..... HE DONT SEE IT THAT WAY.. WHEN IT COMES 2 DISAPLINE, IT IS HIS WAY OR NO WAY... IT SEEMS; THERE IS NO WORKIN A PLAN 2GATHER... I DONT WANT 2 LOSE HIM, BUT IF HE LEAVES, I WOULD UNDERSTAND, I HOPE HE DOESNT. BUT I WILL SEE I GUESS... I AM NOT SURE WHY I AM WRITIN ALL THIS 4 THE WORLD 2 SEE, I JUS KNOW I NEEDED 2 VENT MY SOUL.....

gentlebreeze2

My heart goes out to you. Wrting your thoughts sometimes helps to deal with issues that are painful. When things get heated, it's hard to discuss them. When everyone is calm, maybe you can discuss options to discipline. What about writing them down, sort of as a guide. With teenagers, there will be frustrating moments, but if you have definite plans in place on how to deal with them, it seems to work better. I wish you luck. I will pray for you all.