Is this weird ?

charmedparis07
charmedparis07 Posts: 8
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I just wanted to see if I am weird , normal , or what from my following statement.
I have never liked anyone. Yes I have kissed guys and made out so I have some experience, and I am no rush or think I am behind for my age in experience. I have even had a boyfriend ( I was forced by a friend to date , lasted 2 month relationship no kissing) but I have never been " I like this guy" or anything like that. I am 19 years old and my question would be is that weird or am I lacking some kind of emotional piece to me. Just a thought that came into my head, but I feel like I am fine and in no rush, but still what is ya'll s take on this topic?

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  • cowbellsandcoffee
    cowbellsandcoffee Posts: 2,975 Member
    No rush is cool. It will happen when it happens. Don't worry about it. :smile:
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  • uconnwinsnc
    uconnwinsnc Posts: 1,054 Member
    You're introverted. If this "whatever" feeling spreads across family and friends you might have schizoid personality disorder. I have never meet someone almost 20 that hasn't had any crush or attractions to someone.
  • jdad1
    jdad1 Posts: 1,899 Member
    your not weird but you you need to be pampered.
  • feedmedonuts
    feedmedonuts Posts: 241 Member
    Pfft. Heck no. I'm introverted myself and found myself to be annoyed by most guys in my dating years. I thought I'd like them and then we'd date and out of nowhere it was like his name made me cringe. I might just be a heartless wench. But there's a happy ending. I knew my husband was "the one" because I liked him enough to keep him around even after a couple of years. Of course now he annoys me but I annoy him too and we love each other and going on 6+ys now ;) I was the same my dear, didn't even have my first boyfriend or kiss until 21 and again he was annoying bahahahahaha!
  • xsmilexforxmex
    xsmilexforxmex Posts: 1,216 Member
    What is normal?

    Could be you just haven't found the right person, could be an emotional detachment, could be asexual(lack of sexual orientation), could be overthinking.

    Have you found people attractive? What about personalities? Males or females... Just something to consider. Most teens hormones drive our 'first crush' but it's not unheard of to have someone first date in their 20's. I would said you are not weird, and if you eventually "like" someone, cool. If not? No big. If it concerns you, maybe do some inward exploration, date around, or even sexual exploration (safely) and see if you discover anything about yourself.

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