Random things

PeacefulBalance

So tonight I was told a few times that I need to gain back some weight (which is what I've been hearing too much recently) but here is the messed up thing. Those comments help me feel good enough/feel small enough because with out them I'd be losing to seek them. I feel so messed up.

Anyone else have any messed up things like this?

Oi_Sunshine

I looked at your profile and because you have been battling an eating disorder, I would recommend asking one or two trusted friends to take a look at you and your food diary, and to ask you weekly how it's going, and some pre-determined direct questions. You don't need everyone making comments but I think a little accountability team would be a good idea. That way, you can tell the well meaning but nosy people that you have someone advising you.

PeacefulBalance

Thank you, that's a good idea!

Oi_Sunshine

Youre very welcome.

I forgot to add, the friends should be face to face, not the ones in your computer. Its easier to notice things in person than by photograph.