Losing motivation-Help?

singmyheartout4you
singmyheartout4you Posts: 245
in Motivation and Support
Ive really been debating posting this, but Im hoping to find someone this might have happened to or they might know the answer.

GUYS BE WARNED! This is a post about girl stuff. Avert ye eyes if easily offended by girl parts talk. Ye have been warned.


So heres the thing, I lost a wholeee lot of motivation because Ive lost over a cup size while losing weight (im not very gifted in this area) and its nearly killed my motivation. Ive always been proportional in regards to chest and body size, but now that Ive lost some weight, it seems to have all come from my shoulders, chest, and front of my stomach but not my sides and it makes me feel and look (imo) awkward. So Im trying to keep going with the hopes that it will even out when I hit my end goal but Im not sure. Advice please?! Has anyone had this, kept going and ended up with a balanced looking body again?

P.S., no offense is meant by this post. Im really not sure how to proceed because part of me wants to just gain 5 lbs back, hope it goes back to my chest and call it good and the other keeps saying "Keep going, youre so close!" All I really care about is looking proportional and being happy with my body but a little there would be nice.

Anyway, thanks for reading and hope to find someone who has the knowledge I seek :)

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  • weatheredcheese
    weatheredcheese Posts: 112 Member
    From my point of view this is something you need to decide.
    Boobs aren't everything and from you pic your looking fit and healthy, so it all depends on what you think of yourself.

    You either want to be curvy and have a bigger chest, or be slim and have a smaller chest.
  • MegE_N
    MegE_N Posts: 245 Member
    Have you gained/lost before? I've noticed, with me, that I will start loosing in certain areas right from the start. Face and chest for me. But after that initial loss, I start losing from other places instead. The real problem places - arms and tummy, begone! From what I've heard around here, a lot of people start loosing from a certain spot when they first start dropping the weight, but the loss spreads out as you keep going. Just food for thought!
  • Lizzy622
    Lizzy622 Posts: 3,705 Member
    Just remember , fit is beautiful and it comes in many shapes and sizes.

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