rejection

yopeeps025

I am making this post because this issues has upset me in the past and I feel like it might also upset a lot of people also. Has anyone ever felt like you were rejected by man/female you were attractive to because of your weight?

ShibaEars

If they are rejecting you for such a shallow reason, than you are much better off without them! I'm sure most people realize this, but the rejection still hurts. Remind yourself that you are an amazing person, and that rejection just means someone better is out there, waiting for you.

(I have to keep reminding myself of this fact too :laugh: )

sfsoccermom2

Definitely. I even had that rejection from my ex husband. It's sad how many people are so shallow.

CrusaderSam

Oh no not this one again!

Well all I can say is what happened to me once. I had a female friend that wanted to get in to shape so I said I would show her what to do at the gym. I was showing her how deadlift and squat and her being a gym noob, didnt know I was looking at her with the mirrors. Its hard to catch women but you can tell when they get that look. Ok so here was a person I got along with, I was being very nice to (an hour worth of training most people would have to dish out 60 bucks for) and she was physically attracted to me. I though she was just being shy so I would make the first move, bam rejected! Sometimes its not about you at all, other people are the messed up ones ,and you dont want them in your life.