Motivation and support

hi, my names mike, i'm 26 and i have been around here for a while but always struggled with my weight loss goals motivation and such, i don't see myself as fat, but i'm my honest opininion, i can stand to lose a few pounds, for my own self confidence and self esteem, at one point i let my gF(ex now:() use my MFP it instead of me, after the break up,less than a 3 weeks ago well i guess you can say it galvanised me to just stop making excuses and start making results, it's been a little lonely and quite hard, and i'm looking to make some friends, get some motivation and have fun along the way, if anyone would like to add me, that would be appreciated :)
thanks