hottest ex wife ever!

mandag9008
mandag9008 Posts: 182 Member
hi i am back. I am determined to be the hottest ex wife anyone has ever had. I recently divorced and am back with a boost:) all help is welcomed .

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  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    I thought this said "The hottest sex wife ever!" I was just thinking this was a pretty cool goal to have.


    EDIT: Seriously, don't define yourself with a label like "ex wife". Just be the hottest woman ever.
  • mandag9008
    mandag9008 Posts: 182 Member
    ha silly. its modivation. from a man who said i was never good enough. nope. :)
  • pastybuns
    pastybuns Posts: 81
    Best introduce yourself topic title ever.
    Your determination is awesome. If it ever fails you, let the amazing MFP community be your crutch. Some seriously motivating people here.
  • mandag9008
    mandag9008 Posts: 182 Member
    thank you! i thought so too. i started out here like 2years ago. i lost 25 lbs and now i have about 30 left.
  • Embooya
    Embooya Posts: 222 Member
    What man would say your not good enough ? what a *kitten*...Best of luck in all you do darling !
  • mandag9008
    mandag9008 Posts: 182 Member
    thank you!!!
  • mfp2014mfp
    mfp2014mfp Posts: 689 Member
    I dont see anything wrong with using that emotional energy and turning it around!
    Good luck!
  • Sreneesa
    Sreneesa Posts: 1,170 Member
    Get'em girl!

    Go beast mode!

    Congrats on the first day of the rest of your beautiful and positive life!
  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,280 Member
    ha silly. its motivation. from a man who said i was never good enough. nope. :)

    That shows what a moron he is...on several levels.

    You GO, girl!!
  • PlayBall5
    PlayBall5 Posts: 125
    That's the best title ever. Looking at your profile pic he didn't know what he was talking about. I'm soon to be the hottest ex husband because my wife says the same thing. Good luck to you!
  • AlainaKayy
    AlainaKayy Posts: 206 Member
    You go girl! Love the motivation.
  • hearthwood
    hearthwood Posts: 794 Member
    You lost a lot more than 20 pounds when you got rid of him-lol. Anyway congrats on your new life, it looks like you're well on your way.
  • Aoiusagi121
    Aoiusagi121 Posts: 14 Member
    You are awesome!!! GL im sure you can do it :*!!!
  • TRIX5884
    TRIX5884 Posts: 318 Member
    Get it girl! Show him what an *kitten* he is and what he is going to miss!!!!
  • runnergirl0721
    runnergirl0721 Posts: 2,289 Member
    similar story...keep your head up and he will be kicking his own *kitten* and you will be a lot happier :)
  • catb58
    catb58 Posts: 239 Member
    ha silly. its modivation. from a man who said i was never good enough. nope. :)

    I understand that completely. Everything he said I could never accomplish, I just smiled and said "watch me."

    Eventually that feeling goes away and you'll do it just for you...but whatever it takes to get you started, go for it. :drinker:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    This might make you mad. But do it for you.

    YOU should be enough motivation. Forget your ex. He's not worth your thought.
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    This might make you mad. But do it for you.

    YOU should be enough motivation. Forget your ex. He's not worth your thought.

    THIS^^^

    EDIT: OP, he said you weren't good enough??? Never fear, some men are just blind AND stupid. :wink: :flowerforyou:
  • juleszephyr
    juleszephyr Posts: 442 Member
    Get in line... My ex actually got told 'Wow your ex-wife is really hot' in front of his new girlfriend!! Best compliment I ever got... Keeps me going when I feel like eating anything and everything in my house, including the furniture sometimes!!!
  • luv_lea
    luv_lea Posts: 1,094 Member
    This might make you mad. But do it for you.

    YOU should be enough motivation. Forget your ex. He's not worth your thought.

    THIS^^^

    EDIT: OP, he said you weren't good enough??? Never fear, some men are just blind AND stupid. :wink: :flowerforyou:

    I'm going to 'third' this. Do it for you! F* that guy!
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    Sounds like you have a good start, you have already gotten rid of about 200 lbs of dead weight already with your divorce :-)

    Friend Request Sent
  • roanokejoe49
    roanokejoe49 Posts: 820 Member
    ha silly. its modivation. from a man who said i was never good enough. nope. :)

    This schwantz actually said that to you? What a jagoff. Here's what you do: Reach your level of hotness. Run into him accidentally somewhere. Show him he's a total douche, and then kick him in the nads. Total vengeance.
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    hi i am back. I am determined to be the hottest ex wife anyone has ever had. I recently divorced and am back with a boost:) all help is welcomed .

    Whatever motivation keeps you on track is great! Just make sure that you have other goals, because once you get to goal and you are still the ex and he's still with someone else, you don't want to lose the motivation you'll need for maintenance.
  • YAAAAY!!! Go for it
  • srslybritt
    srslybritt Posts: 1,618 Member
    Props to you for not letting it get you down!

    But agreed that you should define yourself, not let your marital status do it for you.

    I'm sure you're lots of other things besides an ex-wife that would make you super freaking awesome.

    Jussayin'.

    :flowerforyou:
  • RINat612
    RINat612 Posts: 251 Member
    ha silly. its modivation. from a man who said i was never good enough. nope. :)

    This schwantz actually said that to you? What a jagoff. Here's what you do: Reach your level of hotness. Run into him accidentally somewhere. Show him he's a total douche, and then kick him in the nads. Total vengeance.

    Although I can't really condone nad-kicking... I agree with most of this.

    Get where you want to be and just let him be envious. Do it for you, but feel free to use him as the starting motivation.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,988 Member
    Eh. Don't think of yourself as EX WIFE. Just be hot because you're a female. IMO, tagging that moniker along can get people thinking thoughts like "I wonder why you're an ex wife?"

    It's a past and the future is here. Leave it behind.

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