Dear Me......

IowaPrincess
IowaPrincess Posts: 274 Member
in Motivation and Support
Dear Me,

You're chubby, loud, you talk too much, you over analyze,
and sometimes you're down right lazy.
You have let people try to change you.
You have let yourself down mentally and physically.
You cry over people that don't deserve your tears.
You eat your emotions.
You have withdrawn from life in so many ways from being hurt.
You arent YOU anymore.

But dont you worry, I am here and we are going to get thru this together.
We are going to eat right, exercise, and throw on some damn makeup.
Did you lose your curling iron... GO find it!
We are going to remember that woman that you were and by God we are getting her back.
Remember her???
She was beautiful and funny... she was like a candle that people were drawn to.
She loved every part of life and never felt less or insecure.
Dont worry, she will come back... because no one loved her more than we did.

Love you,
:heart:
Me
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  • ShellF415
    ShellF415 Posts: 182 Member
    You got this :)
  • JustSomeEm
    JustSomeEm Posts: 20,288 MFP Moderator
    Good for you! :flowerforyou:
  • oedipa_maas
    oedipa_maas Posts: 577 Member
    Now that's the way we should talk to ourselves. Self love can be very hard, but always worth it. Healing the mind, building the body. It's a crucial intersection.

    To wit: Go, honey go!
  • hdacmom
    hdacmom Posts: 39 Member
    Amazing! Good for you...and I so needed that right at this moment!!! Thanks so much!
  • rebeccaplatt21
    rebeccaplatt21 Posts: 175
    nice!
  • low_esteem23
    low_esteem23 Posts: 31 Member
    Dear Me,

    You're chubby, loud, you talk too much, you over analyze,
    and sometimes you're down right lazy.
    You have let people try to change you.
    You have let yourself down mentally and physically.
    You cry over people that don't deserve your tears.
    You eat your emotions.
    You have withdrawn from life in so many ways from being hurt.
    You arent YOU anymore.

    But dont you worry, I am here and we are going to get thru this together.
    We are going to eat right, exercise, and throw on some damn makeup.
    Did you lose your curling iron... GO find it!
    We are going to remember that woman that you were and by God we are getting her back.
    Remember her???
    She was beautiful and funny... she was like a candle that people were drawn to.
    She loved every part of life and never felt less or insecure.
    Dont worry, she will come back... because no one loved her more than we did.

    Love you,
    :heart:
    Me

    This sounds just like me. And really helped. Thanks :smile:
  • goaliema
    goaliema Posts: 150 Member
    I love this!! Your letter speaks with wonderful attitude!! You can do this :)

    Like you...finding "me" again..is something many of us long for!!
    May we all find our "me's" and keep them apart of our everyday priorities!!

    All the best!!
    Goaliema
  • jennyfromtheblocko
    jennyfromtheblocko Posts: 79
    This is fantastic!
  • s_bialek
    s_bialek Posts: 1
    Where is the like button?:smile:
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
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  • IowaPrincess
    IowaPrincess Posts: 274 Member
    LOL, love the video!!!


    THANK YOU LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!! :heart:
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    :flowerforyou: :drinker:
  • dulceproductions
    dulceproductions Posts: 19 Member
    It's as if I had written it to myself. :smile:
  • luv_lea
    luv_lea Posts: 1,094 Member
    I went through the WORST kind of breakup at the beginning of this year.

    I can relate to that so much it's like I wrote that.
  • katiedoo82
    katiedoo82 Posts: 277 Member
    Oh my God.... I just love your posts.... and totally can relate to everything your saying. this post hit a nerve... the old me has been lost amongst all the extra layers... but slowly I will peel them back bit by bit... thank you for your honesty... don't think I could have wrote it the way you did... but you hit every thought ive had over the past few weeks.... thank you for sharing and good lock on your journey.... p.s. I just tried on my jeans this morning.... eeeek!!! need to roll back a few more layers hehe
  • edenburnin
    edenburnin Posts: 11 Member
    So perfect. Thank you for opening yourself up enough to let other people be inspired... :)
  • IowaPrincess
    IowaPrincess Posts: 274 Member
    Oh my God.... I just love your posts.... and totally can relate to everything your saying. this post hit a nerve... the old me has been lost amongst all the extra layers... but slowly I will peel them back bit by bit... thank you for your honesty... don't think I could have wrote it the way you did... but you hit every thought ive had over the past few weeks.... thank you for sharing and good lock on your journey.... p.s. I just tried on my jeans this morning.... eeeek!!! need to roll back a few more layers hehe

    Awe Thank you!!!! :heart:
  • gitnfit2
    gitnfit2 Posts: 203 Member
    All I can say is that this is extremely powerful message and you are an amazing woman to take the control back of your life. You will no doubt get back to who you truly are and I expect you will find a more powerful you at the end.
  • verptwerp
    verptwerp Posts: 3,628 Member
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    Best thing I've read all day ....... thanks for sharing :drinker:
  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    :drinker: :heart:
  • MindyM80
    MindyM80 Posts: 41 Member
    love it . totally can relate.
    LOL! hope you find your curling iron!
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Wow! That could have easily been titled Dear Everyoneintheuniverse.

    Thank you for hitting on universal truths and for being kinder to yourself starting today.

    BTW check your overnight bag for your curling iron, that's where mine usually turns up.
  • geekishgirl
    geekishgirl Posts: 117 Member
    This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing.
  • runforestrun35
    runforestrun35 Posts: 480 Member
    Love this! Thank you for sharing!!
  • IowaPrincess
    IowaPrincess Posts: 274 Member
    thanks everyone!!!! :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • ShantesNaturalVanity
    ShantesNaturalVanity Posts: 49 Member
    LOVE IT!
  • Ginnia1970
    Ginnia1970 Posts: 1
    Wow, This is beautiful! A wonderful, supportive pep talk. This is the what I should tell myself everyday! Thanks, I'm going to try pep talking myself the way a would a dear friend, what a wonderful idea!!! :happy:
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    I just re-read the awesomeness of this.

    It's funny the timing of this, because this is the first week I've been wearing makeup every day to work, dresses and heels also. Yesterday I wrote a blog here about an NSV - and how I looked in the mirror and for the first time ever I thought/felt and believed I was pretty.

    I feel like lifting heavy has really helped me and pushed me to feel more confident and baeutiful.
  • UnicornAmanda
    UnicornAmanda Posts: 294 Member
    I could've written this myself! :/
    we will get there eventually :)
  • getitamb
    getitamb Posts: 2,019 Member
    Great job!!

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