Should I eat back my workout cals

brianpperkins

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

Was my post really an attack? I was sincerely trying to help the poster, not correct her. I certainly wasn't attacking her.

No it wasn't.

jofjltncb6

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

Are you serious? Did you actually read the thread from the beginning to see how there was absolutely zero nastiness in the responses?

Someone cleared up some ambiguity to *help* OP.

I'm sincerely speechless.

PeanutButterByTheSpoon

set your goals to lightly active and don't log exercise...........don't eat your calories back.................or use the calorie goal you want and don't log exercise calories or log it as 1 calorie............do not eat your calories back...........you really don't know how much you burn anyways...........and don't kill yourself at the gym........

Thats what i do! I do exercise I just don"t log it! Besides logging exrcise is a pain in the butt! I don"t care too much about net calories.

brianpperkins

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

You only hurt yourself if you need help and don't ask.

MzKym1981

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

This is why I don't answering posts asking for help anymore. Even the most benign stuff is construed as rude by somebody! Why even bother?

I'm done!! Thanks guys! Being overweight is already hard enough...I can't deal! This is my third time re-joining mfp! I'll just have keep myself motivated & look for help outside of mfp!!

cwolfman13

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

Was my post really an attack? I was sincerely trying to help the poster, not correct her. I certainly wasn't attacking her.

You're fine...this is largely why I just avoid newbs and these kinds of questions these days...you try to actually help and get called "mean" or whatever.

UnkulMunki

I don't think there was an attack.

It seems to me that the correction was unwelcome and then the barrage of people defending the response created a backlash of can only be called TROLL POSTING from brianpperkins, as he tried to bring an argument to life...

Thanks for the Question MsKym32

She got her answer and people tried to be helpful. So, Breath people.

jofjltncb6

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

This is why I don't answering posts asking for help anymore. Even the most benign stuff is construed as rude by somebody! Why even bother?

I'm done!! Thanks guys! Being overweight is already hard enough...I can't deal! This is my third time re-joining mfp! I'll just have keep myself motivated & look for help outside of mfp!!

If you found negativity in the responses in this thread, I'm afraid you're going to have issues with the responses you get outside of MFP too.

And I mean this sincerely and with no malice whatsoever.

Perhaps you could get a small group of like-minded friends and focus your MFP time on your wall and not the general forums? (I'm still not saying that the responders are the problem here...but nonetheless, perhaps this might be a solution for you?)

jofjltncb6

I don't think there was an attack.

It seems to me that the correction was unwelcome and then the barrage of people defending the response created a backlash of can only be called TROLL POSTING from brianpperkins, as he tried to bring an argument to life...

Thanks for the Question MsKym32

She got her answer and people tried to be helpful. So, Breath people.

Your first post in three years is to level an accusation of TROLL POSTING at an MFP member by name because he made a battery joke in reference to negativity?!?



I just...

I can't...

I just can't.

I do not understand people. At all.

PikaKnight

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

This is why I don't answering posts asking for help anymore. Even the most benign stuff is construed as rude by somebody! Why even bother?

*nod nod*

brianpperkins

I don't think there was an attack.

It seems to me that the correction was unwelcome and then the barrage of people defending the response created a backlash of can only be called TROLL POSTING from brianpperkins, as he tried to bring an argument to life...

Thanks for the Question MsKym32

She got her answer and people tried to be helpful. So, Breath people.

Your first post in three years is to level an accusation of TROLL POSTING at an MFP member by name because he made a battery joke in reference to negativity?!?



I just...

I can't...

I just can't.

I do not understand people. At all.

A person making a by name attack in a thread where they claimed "I don't think there was an attack. " Sometimes things are absolutely priceless for their irony.

cmcollins001

This thread could have gone a few ways, but so far this pretty much sums it up:

MzKym1981

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

This is why I don't answering posts asking for help anymore. Even the most benign stuff is construed as rude by somebody! Why even bother?

I'm done!! Thanks guys! Being overweight is already hard enough...I can't deal! This is my third time re-joining mfp! I'll just have keep myself motivated & look for help outside of mfp!!

If you found negativity in the responses in this thread, I'm afraid you're going to have issues with the responses you get outside of MFP too.

And I mean this sincerely and with no malice whatsoever.

Perhaps you could get a small group of like-minded friends and focus your MFP time on your wall and not the general forums? (I'm still not saying that the responders are the problem here...but nonetheless, perhaps this might be a solution for you?)

You didn't help any...so why does it matter to you? You worry about YOU & I'll cover myself thanks!! Everybody has an opinion but they are not always helpful. I posted this topic looking for help...sorry if ppl found it confusing. I could not go back and change it. I wanted info on both questions. I didn't need anyone to clarify me. Maybe I was wrong thinking that it was being negative but that's how I felt...so I'll admit that!! And by reading the above post there are some neg ppl responding just b/c & not trying to be helpful but that's them. I really don't understand why ppl are still adding neg things that don't have anything to do with the topic. Some ppl can be so rude and mean at times. If you don't want to help me that's ok. I don't care!! But thanks to those who understood or kinda understood what I was asking. I'm sorry for being rude...I did get a little upset but hey I'm not perfect!! Hope you all can enjoy the rest of your day!! B/c I sure will!!

Achrya

Um. OP= Original Poster. So. I think you called yourself a 'butt whole'

jofjltncb6

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

This is why I don't answering posts asking for help anymore. Even the most benign stuff is construed as rude by somebody! Why even bother?

I'm done!! Thanks guys! Being overweight is already hard enough...I can't deal! This is my third time re-joining mfp! I'll just have keep myself motivated & look for help outside of mfp!!

If you found negativity in the responses in this thread, I'm afraid you're going to have issues with the responses you get outside of MFP too.

And I mean this sincerely and with no malice whatsoever.

Perhaps you could get a small group of like-minded friends and focus your MFP time on your wall and not the general forums? (I'm still not saying that the responders are the problem here...but nonetheless, perhaps this might be a solution for you?)

You didn't help any...so why does it matter to you? You worry about YOU & I'll cover myself thanks!! OP are like butt wholes...everybody has one!! I posted this topic looking for help...sorry if ppl found it confusing. I could not go back and change it. I wanted info on both questions. I didn't need anyone to clarify me. Maybe I was wrong thinking that it was being negative but that's how I felt...so I'be admitted that!! And by reading the above post there are some neg ppl responding just b/c & not trying to be helpful but that's them. I really don't understand why ppl are still adding neg things that don't have anything to do with the topic. And for the guy who said that's why he doesn't respond to newbies...good for YOU!!! Some ppl can be so rude and mean at times. If you don't want to help me that's ok. I don't care!! But thanks to those who understood or kinda understood what I was asking. I'm sorry for being rude...I did get a little upset but hey I'm not perfect!! Hope you all can enjoy the rest of your day!! B/c I sure will!!

To be clear, sometimes the help you receive in a thread isn't even the help you thought you wanted when you made the post...

...and sometimes you don't even realize how helpful a particular response is until some point in the future.

I hope you eventually realize it.



Meanwhile, perhaps someone just reading this thread will find my comments helpful.

Perhaps.

andythecurefan

MzKym1981

Um. OP= Original Poster. So. I think you called yourself a 'butt whole'

Thanks! I'm not a butt whole! But some ppl may think I am but hey that's their opinion...like I said everyone has one!!!

Achrya

Um. OP= Original Poster. So. I think you called yourself a 'butt whole'

Thanks! I'm not a butt whole! But some ppl may think I am but hey that's their opinion...like I said everyone has one!!!

I don't know that anyone here thinks you're a butt whole.


Edit: cause lol phone keyboard

MzKym1981

Um. OP= Original Poster. So. I think you called yourself a 'butt whole'

Thanks! I'm not a butt whole! But some ppl may think I am but hey that's their opinion...like I said everyone has one!!!

I don't know that anyone here things you're a butt whole.

Ok thanks!!

cmcollins001

My goodness! I just recently rejoined mfp and thought this would be an interesting topic. The nasty comments that went back and forth have definitely helped me make the decision NOT to ask for any support on the board. For some of us, opening up and asking for help is difficult enough without having to worry about whether I will be attacked about the wording of my question.

This is why I don't answering posts asking for help anymore. Even the most benign stuff is construed as rude by somebody! Why even bother?

I'm done!! Thanks guys! Being overweight is already hard enough...I can't deal! This is my third time re-joining mfp! I'll just have keep myself motivated & look for help outside of mfp!!

If you found negativity in the responses in this thread, I'm afraid you're going to have issues with the responses you get outside of MFP too.

And I mean this sincerely and with no malice whatsoever.

Perhaps you could get a small group of like-minded friends and focus your MFP time on your wall and not the general forums? (I'm still not saying that the responders are the problem here...but nonetheless, perhaps this might be a solution for you?)

You didn't help any...so why does it matter to you? You worry about YOU & I'll cover myself thanks!! Everybody has an opinion but they are not always helpful. I posted this topic looking for help...sorry if ppl found it confusing. I could not go back and change it. I wanted info on both questions. I didn't need anyone to clarify me. Maybe I was wrong thinking that it was being negative but that's how I felt...so I'll admit that!! And by reading the above post there are some neg ppl responding just b/c & not trying to be helpful but that's them. I really don't understand why ppl are still adding neg things that don't have anything to do with the topic. Some ppl can be so rude and mean at times. If you don't want to help me that's ok. I don't care!! But thanks to those who understood or kinda understood what I was asking. I'm sorry for being rude...I did get a little upset but hey I'm not perfect!! Hope you all can enjoy the rest of your day!! B/c I sure will!!

If you don't care, and you are not worried about anyone else, and people can be so rude and mean, why do you keep coming back to this thread?

Was your question not answered? Are you wishing for more information?

I only ask because if your question was already answered, and the other posts are not helping you or they are bothering you, it would seem to me that the simple solution is to take the good information and be done with the thread.