Dating

scode83
scode83 Posts: 42
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Anyone else find it difficult to date? Or to put it anther way, find it difficult to approach anyone because you're not confident your dedication to fitness will be all that appealing to another person? I can't help but think it would be ideal if MFP had their own dating service, as then you wouldn't need to bother explaining your lifestyle to someone.
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  • Ferrous_Female_Dog
    Ferrous_Female_Dog Posts: 221 Member
    What do you mean if?
  • lngbrd
    lngbrd Posts: 279 Member
    What do you mean if?




    This
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Yeah man, dating is hard with my gf always c-blocking me and telling me I cant go on dates.

    It is BS man
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  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.
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  • dropdeadgreggie_
    dropdeadgreggie_ Posts: 166 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    I imported mine from Miami.
  • dropdeadgreggie_
    dropdeadgreggie_ Posts: 166 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    I think MFPlentyOfFish works better, but points to you for creativity.


    AND HEY! I'm in your backyard!!

    and your backdoor... *knock knock knock* are you gonna let him in?
  • _Pseudonymous_
    _Pseudonymous_ Posts: 1,671 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    This!

    Also, dating is rough. It can be awkward or you can try and make it fun. Even if you have a terrible dating pool you can try and make the most of it. At least walk away with some great stories... even if they were painful when they were happening.
  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    Saw something about your backyard. Go on...
  • ink_b1tch
    ink_b1tch Posts: 101
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    I think MFPlentyOfFish works better, but points to you for creativity.


    AND HEY! I'm in your backyard!!

    and your backdoor... *knock knock knock* are you gonna let him in?

    Depends if he swings that way!
  • Escloflowne
    Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
    I've dated 3 women from MFPfetlife
  • LolBroScience
    LolBroScience Posts: 4,537 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.
  • _Pseudonymous_
    _Pseudonymous_ Posts: 1,671 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

    ... I think I need an xanax after reading that...
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    FITNESS ONLY!!! No one is allowed to have fun here!
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    I think MFPlentyOfFish works better, but points to you for creativity.


    AND HEY! I'm in your backyard!!

    See, OP!? This is what I'm talking about!
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    I managed to find one two hours away. Perfect.:love: And several others that would involve plane tickets:cry:
  • KseRz
    KseRz Posts: 980 Member
    Anyone else find it difficult to date? Or to put it anther way, find it difficult to approach anyone because you're not confident your dedication to fitness will be all that appealing to another person? I can't help but think it would be ideal if MFP had their own dating service, as then you wouldn't need to bother explaining your lifestyle to someone.

    What does confidence in one's dedication to fitness have to do with dating another person??
  • PMA140
    PMA140 Posts: 60
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

    Quote from Wedding Crashers?
  • _Pseudonymous_
    _Pseudonymous_ Posts: 1,671 Member
    FITNESS ONLY!!! No one is allowed to have fun here!

    That's not what you said last night when you showed me your ankle!...
  • SemperAnticus1643
    SemperAnticus1643 Posts: 703 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

    lol!!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • LolBroScience
    LolBroScience Posts: 4,537 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

    Quote from Wedding Crashers?

    Yes. It quite nicely sums up my exact feelings on dating though.
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

    This is why we should just go on a date.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    But every now and then the one you want is right down the road :)
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

    This is why we should just go on a date.

    Can I go along? Or just watch from the bushes?
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

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  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that *kitten*-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your *kitten* sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

    This is why we should just go on a date.

    Can I go along? Or just watch from the bushes?

    Yes you can! Bring Jason and we can have a double date.
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    FITNESS ONLY!!! No one is allowed to have fun here!

    That's not what you said last night when you showed me your ankle!...

    You promised you wouldn't tell!!!!!!! :sad: My reputation is forever besmirched!!!
  • Christineclendaniel
    Christineclendaniel Posts: 367 Member


    ... I think I need an xanax after reading that...

    This just made me choke on my coffee, thanks for that laugh....hahaha
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    The problem with MFPCupid is that people you want are too far and people you don't want are in your backyard.

    I said that I was sorry...you didn't have to have me arrested for stalking and trespassing!

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