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odusgolp
odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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My BF and I met online 9 months ago. I've changed my status on FB to "in a relationship" several times now, but he won't update it on his end to show everyone. What should I do?







Also, peer pressure. TIA.
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  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    First!
  • Behxo
    Behxo Posts: 1,190 Member
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    first to say break up
  • srslybritt
    srslybritt Posts: 1,618 Member
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    Ugh, I totally know how this is. My boyfriend is exactly the same way. Something about his girlfriend seeing it or some crap... totally frustrating.

    Have you gone through his messages yet?? That would be my next course of action.
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,642 Member
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    wait, so you guys have broken up and gotten back together several times in 9 months?

    I'd be leery of changing my FB status back to "in a relationship" too.

    You two sound like basket cases who deserve each other....
  • DBoone85
    DBoone85 Posts: 916 Member
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    Post up his noodz on your wall so other girls will know you two are serious....
  • jacques57
    jacques57 Posts: 2,129 Member
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    My take? He is still playing the field and not interested in commitment. I only say that because that is how I thought when I was in my 20s. Took me a while to grow up and recognize the joys of maturing and committing to a relationship. Now I just flirt on MFP.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    wait, so you guys have broken up and gotten back together several times in 9 months?

    I'd be leery of changing my FB status back to "in a relationship" too.

    You two sound like basket cases who deserve each other....

    No, we've been together the whole time, but denies the request or something, so I just keep re-sending.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    Post up his noodz on your wall so other girls will know you two are serious....

    LOL Well, I do post pictures of the two of us together, but he doesn't.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,324 Member
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    obviously he doesn't even know you guys are together.

    you need to up your game so he knows for sure.

    cater to his every need. sandwiches, cleaning, a beej every morning....

    sooner or later he'll get comfortable enough with you around that he'll leave his FB logged in.
    then you can go in and change it yourself.
  • DBoone85
    DBoone85 Posts: 916 Member
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    Ugh, I totally know how this is. My boyfriend is exactly the same way. Something about his girlfriend seeing it or some crap... totally frustrating.

    Have you gone through his messages yet?? That would be my next course of action.

    I told him it was ok if he wanted to update his profile to say he was with you. I don't mind sharing him.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    first to say break up

    Why didn't I think of that? :grumble:
  • cheekym7
    cheekym7 Posts: 570 Member
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    Ugh, I totally know how this is. My boyfriend is exactly the same way. Something about his girlfriend seeing it or some crap... totally frustrating.

    Bahaha! Always my luck
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
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    My BF and I met online 9 months ago. I've changed my status on FB to "in a relationship" several times now, but he won't update it on his end to show everyone. What should I do?







    Also, peer pressure. TIA.

    Take his cocaine out of the fridge, and put it in his rectum where it belongs.

    Oh. Were you talking about his fb status?
    I just make mine say I am "In a relationship" because there is some form of relationship with everyone, friends, enemy, non-existent....
  • KseRz
    KseRz Posts: 980 Member
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    Ask him ....

    whats+up+with+that.gif
  • capnrus789
    capnrus789 Posts: 2,731 Member
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    obviously he doesn't even know you guys are together.

    you need to up your game so he knows for sure.

    cater to his every need. sandwiches, cleaning, a beej every morning....

    sooner or later he'll get comfortable enough with you around that he'll leave his FB logged in.
    then you can go in and change it yourself.
    You should listen to this man. He's a bloody GENIUS!
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
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    Have you told him that you created a facebook account for him yet? He may not even know how to facebook.
  • Barbellarella_
    Barbellarella_ Posts: 454 Member
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    Maybe he has a secret girlfriend and he doesn't want her to see the update!
  • WestCoastPhoenix
    WestCoastPhoenix Posts: 802 Member
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    Check his text messages, he is cheating on you. You're welcome. :drinker:
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
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    why is your status public in the first place?

    I never changed mine because mine's not public and I can't be bothered- I'd probably have declined/ignored the status update as well if I were him. It's such a trivial matter. move on and live in the actual present- and stop trying to live your life on facebook.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,324 Member
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    obviously he doesn't even know you guys are together.

    you need to up your game so he knows for sure.

    cater to his every need. sandwiches, cleaning, a beej every morning....

    sooner or later he'll get comfortable enough with you around that he'll leave his FB logged in.
    then you can go in and change it yourself.
    You should listen to this man. He's a bloody GENIUS!

    oh rus, you gentleman.
    now stop making me blush and come get your sandwich and beej.

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