Seeing ex tomorrow - and have lost 28lbs!

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  • DawnMichelle68
    DawnMichelle68 Posts: 38 Member
    work it!!!!!
  • Kath712
    Kath712 Posts: 1,263 Member
    you worked hard for the 28lb !! be proud of yourself
    I hope you have a great outfit picked out?
    have fun tomorrow :)

    Big ditto!! :laugh: :bigsmile:
  • TaraMaria
    TaraMaria Posts: 1,975
    Sooo how'd it go??? :o) :o) :o)
  • 2Young4This
    2Young4This Posts: 172 Member
    Hey girls...

    I feel really bad for not posting but it is a little shameful. Ok here's the truth...
    So I walked in and he gave me the biggest hug and kiss and told me he had missed me. We did the boring tax stuff and then he cracked open some fizz. I said I was driving, he asked me to stay, we went out for dinner and it was lovely. I did stay at his and we had a really nice time ;-) . It was great to end it on really good terms.

    He also said I had lost loads of weight and that I looked great. He even said "I don't care about what you weigh, I always fancied you and thought you were sexy... I still do". And that, ladies, is why I loved him!!

    I know I was supposed to stay strong but I had the best time and I feel stronger than ever.

    2Y4T xxx

    PS Loving the girl power on this thread
    PPS @HealthyChanges2 I guess I just want him to see what he is missing. I reckon a load of girls on here would love to run in to their ex when they are feeling confident and looking good!
  • Kath712
    Kath712 Posts: 1,263 Member
    Hey girls...

    I feel really bad for not posting but it is a little shameful. Ok here's the truth...
    So I walked in and he gave me the biggest hug and kiss and told me he had missed me. We did the boring tax stuff and then he cracked open some fizz. I said I was driving, he asked me to stay, we went out for dinner and it was lovely. I did stay at his and we had a really nice time ;-) . It was great to end it on really good terms.

    He also said I had lost loads of weight and that I looked great. He even said "I don't care about what you weigh, I always fancied you and thought you were sexy... I still do". And that, ladies, is why I loved him!!

    I know I was supposed to stay strong but I had the best time and I feel stronger than ever.

    2Y4T xxx

    PS Loving the girl power on this thread
    PPS @HealthyChanges2 I guess I just want him to see what he is missing. I reckon a load of girls on here would love to run in to their ex when they are feeling confident and looking good!

    I see nothing shameful about it! I'm glad you had a good time. And the important thing is how you feel about yourself! :flowerforyou:
  • Wiitabax
    Wiitabax Posts: 284
    Excellent!!!

    AND - just to rub it in I would SO do this to him...

    No doubt he'll say "WOW!!! you look great!"

    Just pretend that it's an everyday remark and say:

    "Yes... I know."

    And then add.

    "And you... well... how you keeping?"

    Don't compliment him lol and feel great for it!!!

    Hey, my wife always says:

    "It's a good job you ain't a woman - you'd be a REAL *****" lol - and I take that as a compliment!!!

    :laugh:

    Again - WELL DONE on the weight loss!!!
  • Wiitabax
    Wiitabax Posts: 284
    "It's a good job you ain't a woman - you'd be a REAL *****" lol - and I take that as a compliment!!!

    :laugh:

    Again - WELL DONE on the weight loss!!!

    And the edited word...

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    Damn these forum expletive filters!!!

    :laugh:
  • Wiitabax
    Wiitabax Posts: 284
    DAMN!!! Just read your other comment - ah well, save my suggestion til next time - or hand it to someone else to use!

    :laugh:
  • DeBlue
    DeBlue Posts: 254 Member
    Live has its little delicious moments! When it comes to motivation, all's fair - congrats!


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  • I'll admit that I have much the same thoughts. I don't want to be with my ex again, but I wouldn't mind her looking at me and thinking damn he looks good... :-P
  • JaydeSkye
    JaydeSkye Posts: 282 Member
    Make sure you drop in a line about how your NEW boyfriend has perfect abs, a perfect butt and a perfect personality and how perfectly you two fit together. hahhaaa. that's what I would do.
  • I feel you! I can't wait for the day as well! Good luck!
  • Jennplus2
    Jennplus2 Posts: 984 Member
    I have been there girl! It feels nice when they want you back...

    But remember how he hurt you and ask yourself... if you gained the weight back how would he treat you?
    I would say don't answer his calls! And you know he will call!
    Don't feel bad about last night though, but just think really hard about how much he hurt you before you get back with him.
    I made that mistake before and after about 6 weeks it was back to the same old slime. Good luck to you!
  • not evil at all :) i don't know a single woman who wouldn't do the same thing...good luck and i hope it works
  • BADGIRLstl
    BADGIRLstl Posts: 473 Member
    Just think....you got rid of him, and the extra weight too.... Have fun girl! Be prepared, because his going to be all over you!
  • peachyolives
    peachyolives Posts: 46 Member
    That's great - Live it up! I would and probably will do the same thing at some point, haha. Always fun to know somebody wants you that treated you badly or threw you away.

    Have fun!
  • BADGIRLstl
    BADGIRLstl Posts: 473 Member
    Awww darn I was too late. I should have read first. But I new he wasn't going to turn down a sexy mamma..... glad you had fun!
  • AWESOME! Knock'em dead! You deserve it! :)
  • sbilyeu75
    sbilyeu75 Posts: 567 Member
    Ahhhh. The best revenge is living well.
  • HappyRN
    HappyRN Posts: 27 Member
    That is not evil! Glad you are feeling good about yourself. Rock that meeting!
  • Knock his socks off and walk away with a generous smile....lol... It's a girl thing.
  • jackshortstack
    jackshortstack Posts: 19 Member
    Best revenge EVER!!! I am thrilled for you!
  • get it, girl. =)
  • saimabhaidani
    saimabhaidani Posts: 145 Member
    Just because you have adapted a HEALTHY LIFESTYLE now, doesnt mean that you cant go back and enjoy a delicious hot fudge sundae once in a while, the important thing is to NOT get attached to it. HAVE IT, ENJOY IT AND MOVE ON!!!!!!!!

    Nuff' Said!
  • Show those goods off!!!
  • KarenBorter
    KarenBorter Posts: 1,157 Member
    I have to tell you one of the things that kept depressing me more and more was knowing I was putting on weight and the thought of running into my ex TERRIFIED ME. I didn't want him to point and say "hah, she looks horrible now" ... vain? Absolutely! But now I am LESS THEN when I dated him ... I have no fear.

    Good for you girl ... it isn't evil it's vindication!
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