Do you even like getting cheered on?

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  • DireWolfCurse
    DireWolfCurse Posts: 32 Member
    Hey girl. None of my real life peeps take my weight loss seriously either. I've just started training for a 5K again, because I made time for it, and my SO thinks because I'm running now that it's okay to keep wanting to eat at burger joints or fast food places. As for commenting, I think a lot of people don't want to take the time to feel obligated to do the same for others and post things on their profiles. Also, when you get some people who comment on everything you do, sometimes it feels weird. I'm not sure why.
  • Lyndonbearsmommy
    Lyndonbearsmommy Posts: 1,083 Member
    I'm pretty excitable about everything so I like all the compliments and kind words :)

    Me too. I think it's nice to encourage others, and generally think that those doing so are at least somewhat genuine, otherwise, why would they bother?

    You're adorable BTW OP, cute picture.
  • Missboss888
    Missboss888 Posts: 41 Member
    Thanks for your feedback guys. I guess it looks like some people like it some don't, so I'm still in the same predicament. People who don't like it can delete me. Lol. And yes. I feel like now that I work out my mom feels the need to call me over everyday for some homemade enchiladas and chicken tacos. My friends decide it's time to drink 3xs a week instead of twice, so I just keep my distance from everyone who isn't taking my weightloss serious.
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    Thanks for your feedback guys. I guess it looks like some people like it some don't, so I'm still in the same predicament. People who don't like it can delete me. Lol. And yes. I feel like now that I work out my mom feels the need to call me over everyday for some homemade enchiladas and chicken tacos. My friends decide it's time to drink 3xs a week instead of twice, so I just keep my distance from everyone who isn't taking my weightloss serious.

    Cool:wink:
  • Penthesilea514
    Penthesilea514 Posts: 1,189 Member
    I click the like so people know I'm still watching, and if they've been struggling, and start getting it right then, "Way to go!" is appropriate. If someone is taking time out of their day to acknowledge you, I don't consider it fake. I know my life is very busy between dieting, working out, resposibilities, and finding time for fun. A simple like should mean something, and some kind words even more. I appreciate them when I get them :)

    ^This
  • tracymayo1
    tracymayo1 Posts: 445 Member
    I like getting the comments and such on my feed. If nothing else, it just reminds me "someone is watching" and helps me steer clear when I am having naughty cravings in the evening and I dont have the calories to indulge left over.

    I will LIKE people's status when they have a good workout, or lose weight. I will normally LIKE when I see they are under their calorie goal for the day.

    I like to have people "encourage" me (because I am easily discouraged) so I like to think other do too!
  • CA_Underdog
    CA_Underdog Posts: 733 Member
    Thanks for your feedback guys. I guess it looks like some people like it some don't, so I'm still in the same predicament. People who don't like it can delete me
    Bingo! I am enthusiastic, too, about my friends' health! I've deleted a few friends and one delete me. I am okay with that! We are who we are, and may we each find the people we need for our successful journey. :)
  • Missboss888
    Missboss888 Posts: 41 Member
    Thank you Lyndon. :) I've requested you guys who said you like the encouragement. Hope ya don't mind :D
  • cuckoo_jenibeth
    cuckoo_jenibeth Posts: 1,434 Member
    I figure that I only have to worry about my sincerity, as I am only in control of myself. My encouragement is heartfelt, so I accept my friends as such. I also feel an accountability to these friends to be honest & open, so that helps me make wise decisions.
  • handyrunner
    handyrunner Posts: 32,662 Member
    I broke my ankle over the weekend...and got a great outpouring of support from my friends on here..something that i really appreciate, truely.
    I do like the comments.. I myself am a cronic "like" person...I dont comment as often as i should..but when i hit the like button..it is because I genuinly recognize that event and that I am glad for what they are doing and I wish them continued success. And that holds true whether I comment or not along with it.
  • vpadd
    vpadd Posts: 7
    I think its great. this should be a open forum for support and good vibes...our lives are already too full of negativity and feeling shammed for messing up..its nice to have people "in your corner" even if you have never met them. I say keep on with your likes and way to go's...it might just make someones day!
  • amolyneau
    amolyneau Posts: 14
    I love being cheered on. I think because there are very few people interested in living a healthy lifestyle (at least those that I personally know) I think when someone is legitimately impressed or happy to see you are succeeding, why not share it?.. Besides, something as simple as "Way to go!" or "Keep it up!" Might be the encouragement someone needs while having a rough day?..

    Anyway, if you're interested in a motivational friend to cheer you on, feel free to add me! :)
  • Chevy_Quest
    Chevy_Quest Posts: 2,012 Member
    I have to admit that I like it. The best way for people to get to know each other here is by the small comments here and there as well as the "likes". I always play with my news feed settings so that I only post bigger things.

    I try to be a "supportive" friend here. :smile:
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    I love cheering people on and being encouraged when I hit a wall, (which I do). The friends I've met on here keep me accountable, and I hope in return, I do the same for them!
  • SomeNights246
    SomeNights246 Posts: 807 Member
    The language of the internet is generally exaggerated, lol. Please note that I did not literally laugh out loud.

    It's just how people generally communicate via text.

    Yeah. Since tone can be hard to read on the internet, using exclamation points or 'lol' helps. Otherwise someone saying 'Nice job' might look sarcastic.
  • Missboss888
    Missboss888 Posts: 41 Member
    I love using exclamation points :p
  • MisspelledMe
    MisspelledMe Posts: 33 Member
    I love it. Most of my support is online, either here or elsewhere. Every little bit of encouragement or assistance helps, and being able to give some of that in return is great. :)
  • RaggedyPond
    RaggedyPond Posts: 1,487 Member
    I could care less either way. I don't do this thing for gratification. It's nice but doesn't bother me. I congratulate others though.
  • kenc1971
    kenc1971 Posts: 107 Member
    Getting cheered on is awesome, I just wish that my neighbors would get the hint when my theme music starts blasting, and the pyros go off when I step out of my house in the morning. Maybe Michael Buffer can help me out. Until then, I'll get whatever cheers/encouragement I get here, and give 'em back.
  • Listeninguponyou
    Listeninguponyou Posts: 507 Member
    I actually really enjoy it. It keeps me motivated. When people tell me that I had a good morning run or congratulate me when I lose 1 lb for the week it's easier to keep going. Like someone else said on here, I don't really have anyone cheering me on in real life so when MFP friends do I feel better about this!

    I don't see a reason not to love it, it's pure motivation for you to reach your goals. I don't think I could of lost 21lb without it.

    :smile:
  • jellybeansmamma
    jellybeansmamma Posts: 122 Member
    I love getting cheered on, and I like cheering others on :) It's good to have somewhere to talk about weightloss, food etc and have other people interested in it to talk to.
  • lunalee84
    lunalee84 Posts: 372 Member
    While I don't have friends to cheer on yet, I think its nice. There is not enough support for people trying to make better choices- so why not be that person.
  • chadya07
    chadya07 Posts: 627 Member
    i like even more when people actually talk to me... you know. like... have conversations, act silly. call each other a spleen, whatever randomness is around to talk about. or about weight loss. i like sharing tips and recipes and getting them shared at me.

    but i also appreciate a good thumbs up when i do something that was not easy for me. or when it was. basically i like it when people aknowledge the work i do. yay for external validation!
  • maiko_91
    maiko_91 Posts: 10 Member
    I guess if people keep posting their progress as little as it may seem, and no notices or says anything it may appear as if no one cares or that what they're doing is of no significance. Although it doesn't seem like much that 'like' may just keep someone going. Not that we do this for the likes but it gives a gente the recognition that all humans seek in some way.
  • reneb28
    reneb28 Posts: 13 Member
    I don't really have anyone to talk to in "real" life, I think everyone around me is tired of hearing what I eat , how great my work out was or that I lost 2 lbs. I just recently found how to read the forums and find other people on here. So yeah some encouragement would be nice! Also I don't like sharing these things on my other social media sites..
  • cicisiam
    cicisiam Posts: 491 Member
    NO
  • nykismile
    nykismile Posts: 198
    I absolutely love being encouraged onward, maybe even a little too much.

    It makes up for the fact that people in real life tell me to stop.
  • picnic2day
    picnic2day Posts: 63 Member
    I'll be honest, if it was real life it'd drive me batty, but I guess I've joined this site to get a little encouragement from a distance :smile:
  • baoyaoren
    baoyaoren Posts: 11 Member
    I am completely new here, but what I noticed over the years in online communities is that a lot of people interact based on a 'I treat you like I wish to be treated' maxime*. That by itself isn't bad, but it can lead to situations where both people give the other the treatment they wish to receive, and neither actually receives the treatment they want. I think online it's harder to communicate that you're not comfortable with how somebody reacts to something you did, even though you are sure they're meaning well.
    And after a while they decide they don't like the other person.

    Tthat's kind of sad, because the other person might be very nice and might have become a good friend, and it's also sad because you wasted all the time trying to hint at how you wish to be treated.
    So, I think naturally people will start to find those who want to be treated like them, and build a circle of similar friends. But I think it's easier and you can make friends with more diverse people if you just talk about your intentions and ask if you're doing the right thing.

    I think that helps preventing 'I had good intentions!' situations. (In my language there is a saying, 'gut gemeint ist das Gegenteil von gut gemacht', 'well meant is the opposite of well done', meaning that when people have to rely on their intentions to explain why they did something, it means they are trying to justify why they screwed up.)


    *makes you wonder about trolls.


    ETA: I myself, nope. I have a hard time accepting compliments and beat myself up when people show me support and I think I'm disappointing them IRL, and it's only slightly better online.
  • xoxchelaxox08
    xoxchelaxox08 Posts: 5 Member
    I don't have "real" friends to help motivate me, but I personally see the likes and comments as support and motivation whether they're fake or not! It makes me feel good inside that people are "cheering" me on! Everyone needs a support system, and besides me boyfriend, I rely on my MFP friends :)

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