They ask, they complain, and then they don't listen.

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  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    A lot of people just like to hear the story. Most people who ask me are average-sized or thin. They congratulate me. Some will ask if I took this or that pill or tried some kind of diet. They like to talk about that stuff. So I ask how it worked for them, etc. I get nothing but encouragement and positive feedback there.

    The only person who tries to discourage me is my very fat friend. Pisses me off.

    I have stopped telling people my goal weight because they all say it's crazy and I'd be anorexic. When a bunch of reasonable people tell me the same thing, I have to consider it. I have to see when I get there how I look and feel. :)

    It's hard to set the finish line when you're so many miles away!
  • missdibs1
    missdibs1 Posts: 1,092 Member
    LOl I have felt your pain and lost a firend over a similair situation

    Stop beating your head against a wall is my advice