Getting periods back to be weight restored, what about guys?

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  • you come off as very angry and like you have something against me when you comment on ANY of my posts

    Because you're looking to be offended. Stop it.

    I can assure you, I am not...
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    I already said on my other thread that I am waiting to hear back from a therapist, in the meantime these answers keep pouring in.

    Don't like the answer. Don't ask the question.

    Obviously you have unhealthy perceptions as to your weight. There is no other advice anyone here can give you. So I don't understand why you are expecting anything different.

    Ok, all kidding aside, you come off as very angry and like you have something against me when you comment on ANY of my posts, so it is pretty annoying. If I already told everyone I am getting a therapist, why do they feel the need to comment AGAIN and tell me I need a therapist. That would be redundant. And they could figure that I got enough answers after 10 other people say to get a therapist, I say OK and do it, and then, again and again, someone else says 'get a therapist.' I get it. Why comment the same thing when you can see 10 other people recommended it and I took their advice?

    Because in all of your conversations, it's the thing that stands out the most. One can't help but keep coming back to it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but you've got a lot to work out & it's only natural for that to be reflected in your thoughts & by extension, how your posts read. So don't take it personally.

    You will want to discuss this with someone more capable of helping you work it out and in the meantime, do expect to hear more of 'speak to a professional'.

    We are just internet people.

    We will reflect back at you, the glaringly obvious but you easily side step it, leaving us with either one of 2 choices: silence or to tell you to speak to someone who can help you.

    You sound like a really nice girl, really, you do. Don't take it personally :drinker:

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  • I already said on my other thread that I am waiting to hear back from a therapist, in the meantime these answers keep pouring in.

    Don't like the answer. Don't ask the question.

    Obviously you have unhealthy perceptions as to your weight. There is no other advice anyone here can give you. So I don't understand why you are expecting anything different.

    Ok, all kidding aside, you come off as very angry and like you have something against me when you comment on ANY of my posts, so it is pretty annoying. If I already told everyone I am getting a therapist, why do they feel the need to comment AGAIN and tell me I need a therapist. That would be redundant. And they could figure that I got enough answers after 10 other people say to get a therapist, I say OK and do it, and then, again and again, someone else says 'get a therapist.' I get it. Why comment the same thing when you can see 10 other people recommended it and I took their advice?

    Because in all of your conversations, it's the thing that stands out the most. One can't help but keep coming back to it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but you've got a lot to work out & it's only natural for that to be reflected in your thoughts & by extension, how your posts read. So don't take it personally.

    You will want to discuss this with someone more capable of helping you work it out and in the meantime, do expect to hear more of 'speak to a professional'.

    We are just internet people.

    We will reflect back at you, the glaringly obvious but you easily side step it, leaving us with either one of 2 choices: silence or to tell you to speak to someone who can help you.

    You sound like a really nice girl, really, you do. Don't take it personally :drinker:

    edited for typos

    I understand :). It is just that certain people on here have a way of delivering it that is less helpful and more 'Holier than thou' attitude-y. Some people like to be all like: 'See a shrink' whereas others are more kind and say things like, 'It would probably be helpful for you to have someone to talk to.' And I know I will hear both online, I'm a big girl and I can handle it I guess, I just like to have the opportunity to defend myself against what is basically internet bullies and respond kindly to those who help.