As long as i'm losing

My larger goal is to be back in shape by christmas which given my progress doesn't seem like much of a stretch. However I'm having dinner with my ex in a week who hasn't seen me since I started dieting. I hope she notices the 10kg I have lost so far. Unfortunately the guy at work who called me fat boy every day was fired last week so I won't get his approval but i'll survive.

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  • nykismile
    nykismile Posts: 198
    However I'm having dinner with my ex in a week who hasn't seen me since I started dieting. I hope she notices the 10kg I have lost so far.

    Believe me, she'll notice. I'm hoping to get a similar reaction if I ever end up running into my ex again. It's a twisted pleasure :)
  • mxmkenney
    mxmkenney Posts: 486 Member
    I hope to reach my goal by Christmas too. I am about half way with a few bumps in the road, but it is totally doable. Like nykismile said, she'll notice. Good luck on the rest of your weight loss journey and make her sorry she's your ex!
  • caracrawford1
    caracrawford1 Posts: 657 Member
    Fat boy is what he called you? Every day? Well karmas a b*tch :)
  • ghosthackexe
    ghosthackexe Posts: 181 Member
    Unfortunately I haven't had the pleasure of running into my ex since I lost weight but if I do I'll be laughing so hard on the inside. I'm sure your dinner will go well she'll definitely notice since its much more easy to notice when you haven't seen someone in a while vs seeing them everyday so I hope it hits her like a truck as far as that guy you work with I agree with caracrawford Karma's a *****
  • smarieallen85
    smarieallen85 Posts: 535 Member
    My larger goal is to be back in shape by christmas which given my progress doesn't seem like much of a stretch. However I'm having dinner with my ex in a week who hasn't seen me since I started dieting. I hope she notices the 10kg I have lost so far. Unfortunately the guy at work who called me fat boy every day was fired last week so I won't get his approval but i'll survive.

    Holy crap! Yeah she'll notice.
  • oblair
    oblair Posts: 57 Member
    My ex was my dream girl at school who I randomly ran in to last time I got in shape. She didn't remember me but said she thought I was too good looking for her. We dated for six months but things didn't work out. She like almost all of my exes is one of my best friends now. I do this weird thing of treating women like people.
  • oblair
    oblair Posts: 57 Member
    I just turned the full length mirror back around. I hope it doesnt disappoint me.
  • nykismile
    nykismile Posts: 198
    My ex was trying to sleep with my hot, skinny best friend ... while I was in the hospital for an eating disorder. Sure, it sucked, but if I saw him again, I don't necessarily want to be thinner than I was then. I just want to seem healthier, stronger, and most importantly happier. I just want to seem successful and happy without him.
  • logg1e
    logg1e Posts: 1,208 Member
    ...I hope it hits her like a truck

    Why? We don't know anything about the circumstances of their separation or current friendship.
  • moijo6
    moijo6 Posts: 121
    My ex was my dream girl at school who I randomly ran in to last time I got in shape. She didn't remember me but said she thought I was too good looking for her. We dated for six months but things didn't work out. She like almost all of my exes is one of my best friends now. I do this weird thing of treating women like people.

    Sometimes your just better off as friends, its good your mature enough to be able to be friends still.

    Does it matter what she thinks really? You should do this for yourself, its about you feeling comfortable in your own skin and happy with yourself.
  • 115s
    115s Posts: 344 Member
    LOL @ people giving advice on relationships they don't know anything about, specially when such wasn't even asked for.


    ANYWAY. Darn that he was fired, would have been nice to rub in his face. Hope it works out for you!
  • drepublic
    drepublic Posts: 180 Member
    I hope you are doing this more for yourself than the approvals of others. Though after I got results I would intentionally stand near people who used to spite me...lol. Just have a plan for after Christmas.

    Robert