Long time maintainers how do you do it

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  • CoffeeNBooze
    CoffeeNBooze Posts: 966 Member
    I changed the way I thought about food. I would just eat before like it was a hobby, as if it was something to do. Now I only eat when I'm hungry and I don't eat when I'm not. That's not so easy for everyone. It's something I've learned with time. I'm always trying to have a better relationship with food. I haven't tracked calories regularly for years; that would honestly drive me insane. Find what works for you.
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  • FitPhillygirl
    FitPhillygirl Posts: 7,124 Member
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    Bump - I want to know how and if they track calories or weight anymore... among other secrets...

    I no longer count calories since I have successfully kept the 30 pounds that I lost off for the last 3 years. I eat healthy and make good choices like eating Greek yogurt for an evening snack instead of chips. I do Stronglifts at the gym 2 to 3 days a week and 30 minute HIIT workouts in the evening a few nights a week. I do weigh myself weekly to see if I need to make any changes to my diet or exercise schedule. If I lose a pound like I did last week I'll do one less HIIT workout the following week. Also, visiting the community forums here on MFP and chatting with friends here has really been a big help with maintaining as well.
  • lalapurpledog
    lalapurpledog Posts: 28 Member
    Bookmarking so I can come back and read later! Great responses so far!
  • trina1049
    trina1049 Posts: 593 Member
    edited February 2015
    I'm just a few pounds from maintenance and very excited about this new adventure I'll begin soon. There's some wonderful advice here about successful maintenance. I hope others add to it. I feel like I've a plan for the next phase of staying healthy.

    Thanks everyone.
  • FitnessTrainer69
    FitnessTrainer69 Posts: 283 Member
    When I first started, I never "tracked" food. I just made what I thought would be the best choices for food. lots of meat, veggies and limited carbs spread out at least 6 times a day. I also worked out at least 4-5 times a week. I still do almost the exact same now, only I measure my foods to try an achieve a goal that requires a lot of attention and dedication. By this I mean staying lean while trying to add muscle/surplus. As for the workout, it changes every time I stall or plateau. I have kept 80lbs off for the past 3 years :)~
  • xMrBunglex
    xMrBunglex Posts: 1,121 Member
    I started almost 7 years ago at 240 lbs. I've lost 70 lbs total, and have been maintaining +/- 5 lbs for about 5 years now.

    I'll echo what many have said above - I really changed the way I look at food. Also, after trying many different ways to moderate/control/regulate alcohol, I gave it up 3 years ago. (I'm 45, so I had a nice long career, ha ha.)

    But the main thing is, I still log & track religiously. (I'm on an 80-day streak right now.) I weigh myself every Thursday morning. I work out 30-45 minutes 5-6 days a week. (Spartacus workout DVDs are AWESOME.) I allow myself 1 cheat meal a week, and I take full advantage of it. Notice, I said cheat MEAL. Not cheat DAY, or cheat WEEKEND. 1 meal!

    Every single time I slack off on logging & reporting, after a week or two I gain. It's inevitable. I may slack over holidays, or on vacation, but rest assured immediately after I start up again and go long.

    I'm in the best shape that I've been in since my mid 20s. It doesn't feel like work, or feel like I'm depriving myself. It just feels GREAT.

  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    Breezy3 wrote: »
    I lost 120 lbs in April 2014 and it has been close to a year that I have been maintaining. Maintaining for me has been continuing to keep track of everything I eat by charting on here and using my fitbit to track calories in vs calories out because of my activities/exercise. I do a lot of walking and so chose to stay active in that way. It is easy to do and fun so it continues to be the main way I stay active which allows me to indulge in fun stuff on a fairly regular basis. As long as I am under and right on, I will not gain weight. I personally prefer to be under to be on the safe side. I have successfully maintained my weight over these 10 months!

    Well done!
  • bornforbattles
    bornforbattles Posts: 63 Member
    There is no secret to success. You only get out of it what you put in. Cooking food and staying on a meal plan is a huge help, the gym also helps. Don't rely on an easy answer or a quick fix. Do the *kitten* work and earn it
  • KickboxDiva
    KickboxDiva Posts: 142 Member
    I lost 60 lbs in 2006 and kept if off in a 10 lb range until 2013. My best friend is my workout/diet partner. As our diets became more lax we continued to enjoy an active lifestyle together. We could still go out to eat, have drinks, and bake the occasional cupcakes together and maintain the loss. In 2013 we started a business together and we quit regularly working out. Both of us gained almost all of it back in less than a year. We are both back at it and this time it was much harder being 10 years older but I can say with out a doubt its all about being active and being mindful of food choices. I see a quote often and I intend to live by it this time. Never skip a Monday, don't go more than 3 days without a workout, and minimum 3 times per week. My diet will naturally stay in maintenance if I work out. Denial is the worst.
  • mattnics
    mattnics Posts: 32 Member
    edited February 2015
    Lost 100lbs 5 years ago (265 down to 165). Since then the lowest I've been is 155 and the highest is 180. I haven't stayed to any strict diet or workout regime, I just know I shouldn't be stuffing my face too late at night, and if I see my weight getting into the 170 range I'll try to cut back a little and do a little exercise to get back into my comfortable range (I'll also notice shirts getting tighter and face gets bloated so I'm uncomfortable day-to-day if I gain too much).

    It's easiest for me to try and eat real strict and healthy while at work, making sure I don't snack when I get out at all (3rd shifter), and then I splurge a little on my days off with my wife. I lose a few pounds during the work week, then usually gain it back over a weekend; I just keep the balance, and workout if it ever gets out of control.
  • keithcw_the_first
    keithcw_the_first Posts: 382 Member
    merisaOct3 wrote: »
    Bump. Great thread.

    Thanks for the responses thus far. Surprised (Not surprised?) at how many folks are saying they still log regularly.

    Could be like... confirmation bias.

    That is, the people out there who are maintaining but are not logging daily are less likely to be lurking on the MFP forums.
  • mel128
    mel128 Posts: 81 Member
    Matahairi wrote: »
    There is a great book I read called "Thin for Life". It gives great examples of how people maintained their weight loss over years. My best advice? Make MFP part of your life just like checking your email, voicemail, and bank balance, etc every day.

    What I tell my patients who want to lose weight and maintain is this:
    Think of tracking your intake and exercise is like tracking your checking account. Would you ever go to a store and swipe your debit card without ever knowing what your balance is to spend or what the price of the item your buying is? Eating without tracking is exactly this.

    Who would ever go to Best Buy and just start writing a check for the prettiest washer and dryer or fanciest computer just because you were "hungry to have one"? Blind eating is just like blind spending.

    Would any of us irresponsibly ask the question, "Hey when can I stop checking my balance at the bank? It's getting old seeing how much money I have or don't have every day . I just want to relax and spend freely and assume that I have unlimited funds available". Or how about, "Hey, I'm going on vacation for 2 weeks...can't I just blow a bunch of cash that I don't have and just worry about the overdraft fees later when I get home?"

    I would hope not.

    Your friendly Registered Dietitian

    Thanks for sharing..

  • Hissweetheart
    Hissweetheart Posts: 14 Member
    I've been maintaining for 5 years and I do periodically slip up. My comfort range is <150. In a perfect world, when I see myself getting closer, I start tracking again. Reality...I've been up to 161 and back down two or three times. That's when I log back on to MFP and focus on correcting the behaviors that have gone awry. I do notice that each time I start up again I gain a few more good habits because my desires change.

    I feel so much better, my physically and mentally, when I am within my range. It's almost like once I see myself getting up in weight I start chasing that high.
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  • canadjineh
    canadjineh Posts: 5,396 Member
    billieljaime wrote: »
    I have to continually be aware of the calories I consume and the physical activity I do. For Instance currently I know I am spending a year on third shift and that puts me in a pretty sedentary mode. i dont try to fight it, i am just trying to survive it. Third shift is stressful enough.

    Armed with this information, I eat less calories knowing I am burning less. Now I know when I go back to first shift I can eat more calories because I will move more.

    Going into second year of maintenance.

    I count calories everyday and have found a mode of exercise I enjoy, walking. It is not as exciting as a marathon and not high intensity, but I LOVE it and it has kept 100 lbs off me. On first shift I also try to lift weights as well. Muscle burns more calories and gives sexy definition overall :)

    Yes i track calories everyday almost every single day, I weigh in once or twice a month but mostly go by how my clothes feel. I give my self a girth of 128-133 lbs. I usually hover somewhere in 130-133. I give myself a clothing margin of a size 4/6. Size small/petite.

    The secret is logging your calories everyday and maintaining a routine you enjoy. You have to change your life overall. You never fully return to eating whatever you want when you want. You have to develop a plan for mindful eating habits and lifestyle changes or the weight comes back on, there is no other way around it.

    This is almost exactly me too. Except I burn more and get to eat more calories on third shift since that one is an 8 hour mainly foot patrol, with stair climbing included. Not 100lbs off for me though, just over 30. The overweight was a 4 year period in my 51 years when I got really sick and couldn't walk more than 2 blocks slowly and ate to self medicate (albeit non-junk foods). Clothing size 2/4 tall now.
    It's all about routine, and mindfulness in eating and exercise.
    Like a friend said, "It's hard to be fat, it's hard to be working on losing weight, and it's hard to be mindful in maintenance. Pick your hard."
  • fr3smyl
    fr3smyl Posts: 1,418 Member
    55044TeamJoy wrote: »
    The best advice I've ever heard: "Lift heavy things. Often."

    Like this.
  • Brelynn
    Brelynn Posts: 105 Member
    Some great ideas here - thanks for sharing. Want to keep coming back to this thread.
  • onyxgirl17
    onyxgirl17 Posts: 1,722 Member
    I keep a 5 pound range. Once I get down to 130 I stop or reduce logging. I still weigh myself every couple of weeks and watch portions. If I go above 135 I start logging again down to 130 lol.
  • celerytalk
    celerytalk Posts: 4 Member
    I weigh myself every week or two. I look at myself in the mirror every day and I know my body, I'm more in tune with it than I ever was when I was obese. I know when I put on a few lbs and I can take it off easily by eating less and eating cleaner. I've been around 120 for the past few years and I intend to stay that way :)
  • DedRepublic
    DedRepublic Posts: 348 Member
    Sabine_Stroehm wrote: »
    I'd like to hear from other folks who've maintained their weight loss for several years or so.
    What do you do to maintain?
    What sort of lifestyle changes did you make while losing or after that made it easier (or possible?) to maintain your loss?
    And, are you active/do you exercise regularly?

    What works for you?

    Thanks. It just seems with all the discussions about LOSING weight, hearing from some long time maintainers would be helpful. Since THAT is one of the biggest challenges.

    cheers

    I just decided I was never going to be "That Guy" again. Also, I deveoped new habits that became a lifestyle...like prepping my meals in advance.
  • Jubee13
    Jubee13 Posts: 132 Member
    celerytalk wrote: »
    I weigh myself every week or two. I look at myself in the mirror every day and I know my body, I'm more in tune with it than I ever was when I was obese. I know when I put on a few lbs and I can take it off easily by eating less and eating cleaner. I've been around 120 for the past few years and I intend to stay that way :)

    Just curious-do you still log? I've been maintaining for about 6 weeks, and I'm getting really tired of logging. I'm afraid if I don't I'll gain my weight back.
  • TheLongRunner
    TheLongRunner Posts: 688 Member
    MostlyWater wrote: »
    I tell someone the following, almost every day of my life - find an exercise that you not only love,. but that makes you feel alive. In addition, make friends with like-minded people, read fitness magazines, and self-help books.

    THIS!
  • lavaughan69
    lavaughan69 Posts: 459 Member
    Hi, I joined MFP a couple years ago and lost 52lbs which took me a year...slow and steady wins the race! I've maintained this weight loss for over a year. I tend to let myself enjoy vacations and events on weekends from time to time but tracked my food for the most part but recently this has gotten out of control and I found more often than not I was bothering to weigh or measure my food, I'd skip weigh in day and I found myself slipping into old patterns. And because I was eating more carbs/junk food I started to feel sluggish so to add insult to injury I stopped exercising because i felt so tired all the time. I'm now up 8-10 lbs. Not a devastating amount but enough to get back to logging my food and start walking again!
  • jackgerbz
    jackgerbz Posts: 1 Member
    Went from 196 to 154 a couple of years ago and now maintain by 1) exercising 4 - 6 days a week (45 minute circuit class 3 -4 days/week, 60-90 minutes cardio on off days), 2) eating sensibly and logging food and exercise, 3) avoiding elevators, escalators, etc. and always park at far end of parking lots.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I lost about 40 Lbs awhile back and I've been more or less maintaining for 2 years without logging. I did do a little bulk this past fall and winter to try to break some lifting plateaus, but they came off pretty easily and while it was a worthwhile experience I likely will never do one again.

    At any rate, I don't log...basically I exercise a lot of common sense and eat very well for the most part. I've always been big on food quality, so cooking with and eating primarily whole foods is no biggie...I eat really nutritiously and basically MFP helped me big time with portion control and understanding what a serving (even of something healthy) is.

    Beyond that, I exercise regularly with a combination of cardio and weight training. When I'm not actively training for a cycling event or something I have a good, roughly 50/50 split of cardio to weight room with a good helping of just general activity as gravy (i.e. family hikes and family rides, long afternoons at the zoo, etc). When I am training, I spend a lot more time in the saddle which inherently means I spend less time in the weight room and often this interferes with quality family recreational time so I try to keep it to a minimum.

    My family and I are all pretty active. My wife and I do both have desk jobs, but we try to make time as a family for recreational activity that involves moving...not necessarily deliberate "exercise"...but moving. As an example, we all enjoy hikes in the mountains...these aren't particularly grueling as my kiddos are 3 and 5 but it gets us all out of the house and doing something. We also like hitching up the trailers to our bikes and taking a ride to the zoo...we have a nice multi-use trail that basically starts in a little park near our neighborhood and takes you all the way to the zoo and beyond along the Rio Grande...it's a beautiful ride and we get in a good 12 miles each way and a few hours of walking around the zoo. We also live on about an acre so we all pitch in outside to help keep the property in order. I also try to get my dog out pretty regularly for walks around the neighborhood. This all keeps us pretty active and sets a good example for our kids who are already beginning to understand the value of exercise as well as general activity.

    We don't spend a whole heck of a lot of time in front of the t.v....in fact, we just downgraded our satellite to basic and the only reason we didn't drop it altogether is because there's no other way for us to get our regular channels like ABC, CBS, etc. Most of our free time is spent doing stuff and lounging around time is usually outside on our large patio and outdoor living area where the kids can romp and we can watch and wish we were kids again.

    I monitor my weight regularly and weigh in a few times per week to make sure things are in check. I also still use my food scale quite a bit, particularly for calorie dense items for which I have difficulty eyeballing like nuts and dried spaghetti.

    TL/DR: basically I live a lifestyle that involves a lot of healthy, nutritious foods and quite a bit of activity and very little lounging about doing nothing.
  • melimomTARDIS
    melimomTARDIS Posts: 1,941 Member
    I have been maintaining since June of last year. I am definitely not doing maintenance perfectly, and still make mistakes. But I haven't regained the weight I lost, so I must be doing something right.

    - I joined an IRL weight loss/weight maintaining support group. I go every week.

    - I weigh myself once a week, no matter what

    - if my weight hikes up out of my range, I reduce my intake until I get back into range

    -I eat a simple diet, lots of similar meals. (Ie-breakfast is always 1 cup of cereal,an english muffin, or a pancake)

    -my clothes are form fitting. A 5lb gain shows.

    -three 30 minute workouts a week (mild stuff, like walking, swimming, yoga...) for overall health.

    - I work hard to overcome my binge eating. I have worked on it, and will continue to work on it.
  • feisty_bucket
    feisty_bucket Posts: 1,047 Member
    Sabine_Stroehm wrote: »
    What do you do to maintain?
    What sort of lifestyle changes did you make while losing or after that made it easier (or possible?) to maintain your loss?
    And, are you active/do you exercise regularly?

    I've maintained, within a 10-pound range, for about 30 years. I've gone over when deliberately bulking, but otherwise sitting in that same spot.

    I was a fat kid, and the changes I did to lose the fat initially and then stay there:
    1. my mom keeps the house stocked with junk food, and I would mindlessly eat it. Became aware of my fatness and chilled on the junk. I didn't know anything much about nutrition and wasn't tracking, it was just obvious stuff like multiple, giant bowls of ice cream and tons of cookies.
    2. started exercising daily. In highschool, I started by actually putting in effort in Physical Ed. class. Then running in my neighborhood and biking, and then got some basic weights and lifted them.

    Anyways, it works. Pretty sure I could maintain forever by avoiding obvious overeating and continuing to exercise. Nowadays though, I'm more serious about details and am calorie cycling so I've gotta track.

    The only time my weight's started to creep back up is when I've gone to visit my folks for extended periods and fall into young-me patterns of eating crap at their home. But after recognizing the problem, I don't do that any more either.

    So, advice:
    1. don't stuff yourself with obvious junk
    2. exercise daily. Walking an hour is baseline, also lift weights every other day. Lifting weights is the fountain of youth. I strongly believe every man, woman, and child should be lifting.

    Mostly, pay attention to what's happening. You have to consider yourself a "fit person" and a fit person does certain things that other people do not.
  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    I lost 30lb as a member of MFP by following a moderate level calorie intake. It took me a year to lose my weight and I've kept it off for over 2 years. The way I did it was to gradually change my attitude towards food. I stopped imbuing food with a personality (good, bad, legal, illegal, cheating, binging, etc.). I also incorporated not only activities of daily living to my life (walking instead of taking the train, for example), but I added regular physical fitness activities as well.

    I was a yo yo dieter with a morbid fear of getting fat even though I regularly had to lose 20lb. When the last time happened that I gained 30lb, it was a wake-up call to me. I was really tired of the diet/regain cycle. The lifestyle changes I've made and continue to follow assure me that I've broken that pattern.

    My advice, for what it's worth:
    1) seek help to get a handle on the underlying issues
    2) commit to making a daily effort to live a healthy life
    3) Stop judging.

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