We are pleased to announce that as of March 4, 2025, an updated Rich Text Editor has been introduced in the MyFitnessPal Community. To learn more about the changes, please click here. We look forward to sharing this new feature with you!
Re-configuring my brain...and looking for pals!

Hell_Flower
Posts: 348 Member
Hello there!
So, I've been on MFP since March as gained a little weight over last winter and felt was time to change things up...long story short, have a history of eating...issues...shall we say. Which took over a little in summer and I have now lost (overall, I lost a little before I joing MFP) 42lbs, the very unhealthy way.
SO! I have removed the vast majority of my triggering friends and I am working on getting my head back in the game of being a functioning member of society again.
I'm almost at my goal weight of 108lbs, but I've moved it down so many times now that if I don't get to it, maybe I'll be ok with it.
What I want is not to be consumed by calories I can't eat, hammering the cardio, being moody and emotional, general b*tch to my lovely husband and a general recluse. I want to enjoy a weekend away with husband on our first anniversary next month and I want a promotion at work, which will not happen if I only feed my brain less than 500 calories a day.
So I'm looking for active MFP pals, friends who enjoy exercise, log regularly. Maybe some ladies who lift, as I am working on the head feck that it's ok to weigh more if it's lean muscle
.
My diary is closed for now, while I deal with getting my intake back up but I plan on re-opening it in the next couple of weeks. So any nosey people who will hold me accountable if I have a low intake day
My stats are age 26, 5ft 4, 114lbs, UK based and really rather pear shaped.
If anyone wants to be friends, please do friend me!
So, I've been on MFP since March as gained a little weight over last winter and felt was time to change things up...long story short, have a history of eating...issues...shall we say. Which took over a little in summer and I have now lost (overall, I lost a little before I joing MFP) 42lbs, the very unhealthy way.
SO! I have removed the vast majority of my triggering friends and I am working on getting my head back in the game of being a functioning member of society again.
I'm almost at my goal weight of 108lbs, but I've moved it down so many times now that if I don't get to it, maybe I'll be ok with it.
What I want is not to be consumed by calories I can't eat, hammering the cardio, being moody and emotional, general b*tch to my lovely husband and a general recluse. I want to enjoy a weekend away with husband on our first anniversary next month and I want a promotion at work, which will not happen if I only feed my brain less than 500 calories a day.
So I'm looking for active MFP pals, friends who enjoy exercise, log regularly. Maybe some ladies who lift, as I am working on the head feck that it's ok to weigh more if it's lean muscle

My diary is closed for now, while I deal with getting my intake back up but I plan on re-opening it in the next couple of weeks. So any nosey people who will hold me accountable if I have a low intake day

My stats are age 26, 5ft 4, 114lbs, UK based and really rather pear shaped.
If anyone wants to be friends, please do friend me!
0
Replies
-
Hi!
Sending you a Friend Request! I have a pretty similar story and am really trying to be active on here for once. I'm also 26 and very pear shaped!! haha0 -
Feel free to add me I'm on daily0
This discussion has been closed.
Categories
- All Categories
- 1.4M Health, Wellness and Goals
- 394.5K Introduce Yourself
- 44K Getting Started
- 260.5K Health and Weight Loss
- 176.1K Food and Nutrition
- 47.5K Recipes
- 232.7K Fitness and Exercise
- 444 Sleep, Mindfulness and Overall Wellness
- 6.5K Goal: Maintaining Weight
- 8.6K Goal: Gaining Weight and Body Building
- 153.1K Motivation and Support
- 8.1K Challenges
- 1.3K Debate Club
- 96.4K Chit-Chat
- 2.5K Fun and Games
- 4.1K MyFitnessPal Information
- 16 News and Announcements
- 1.3K Feature Suggestions and Ideas
- 2.8K MyFitnessPal Tech Support Questions