Wow, some people
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It amazes me the *kitten* some people put up with in relationships... :noway:0
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Sounds like you are better off without him. I truly believe there is someone for everyone out there.
At the same time.....
I would hate to try dating in my 40's; while my 62 yr. old Mom has been married 4 x and always seems to be looking for #5.
May just be the whole married for 20 yrs. thing though.
Good luck with getting healthier and finding someone special in your future.0 -
Be proud of your decision to dump this jerk!0
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You did good kicking his *kitten* to the curb!0
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Thanks all! Yes, there were a lot of red flags. I feel better for getting rid of him. I would rather figure this out sooner rather than later. TIme for me to reflect and work on myself.0
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Congrats on dumping a real jerk!0
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OMG! I just read the first few lines and thought How horrible that comment was! he sounds like a real douche and doesn't deserve you! Guys are supposed to respect, cherish and protect women. Good on you for getting rid of him!!0
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Don't know if it's true or not, but males and females are somewhat attracted to people who may resemble their parents both in looks and character. Psych professor talked to me about it once. I kinda believe him. My DW is like my mom was at the same age.
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I once read a book on this theory
and for those of you who swear you'll never marry anyone similar to your parents, the book explains how you tend to push your husband or wife to behave that way because it's what you're used to. For example: a woman that says she will never marry a man that drinks too much, like her father, tries to marry a man that doesn't drink, but in subtle ways over time gets him started. I can't remember the title, but it was very interesting how people pick their partners.0 -
You're already a knockout for respecting yourself enough to get rid of that mess.0
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My 1st husband liked to tell me how much weight I needed to lose, also liked to tell me how stupid I was, among a list of things I could go on about, he was heavier than me by far, long story short, our marriage didn't last very long. (and no he was nothing like my father)0
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Pfffffftt....... I would have walked out as soon as he made that comment. You deserve a real man.0
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Why is it still affecting you? You broke up with him, stop letting him get to you.0
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Then I got to thinking about all this other stuff. I mean, telling me I'll be a knockout once I lose the weight is kind of degrading.0
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I wonder if kicking him out of your life could count as weight loss Well done!0
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He sounds to me like a bully. You are likely better off without him.0
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IMO you were a knockout the day you decided to to change for yourself. Self motivation is attractive. A guy told me something damm near similar, and for a while I was like 'I'll try for him' .
In short you didnt over react, he was a ****. You are perfect however you want to be.0 -
OP, you should spend as much time thinking about him now that the relationship is over as he spent thinking about you during the relationship.
Ok, time's up. Let's get donuts!0 -
OP, you should spend as much time thinking about him now that the relationship is over as he spent thinking about you during the relationship.
Ok, time's up. Let's get donuts!
Yup! I'm over it. Moving on. Besides, I had someone waiting in the wings. :laugh: Life goes on! Now, about that donut..0 -
So, I was dating this guy. I asked him why he was attracted to me
i didnt even read the rest of the OP, because you were pretty much asking to hear nonsense considering the question0 -
Is it just me that would not need to ask a question like why are you attractive to me?
I agree with the above ^^0
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