Wow, some people

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  • Sherbear1109
    Sherbear1109 Posts: 155 Member
    Pfffffftt....... I would have walked out as soon as he made that comment. You deserve a real man.
  • KnM0107
    KnM0107 Posts: 355 Member
    Why is it still affecting you? You broke up with him, stop letting him get to you.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    Then I got to thinking about all this other stuff. I mean, telling me I'll be a knockout once I lose the weight is kind of degrading.
    You don't think that's true? He's saying that you're pretty but overweight. The rest of the stuff he was doing was pretty sad but I don't think you can fault him for that one. Sure it's sort of stupid to say but it's not degrading.
  • rebetha82
    rebetha82 Posts: 125 Member
    I wonder if kicking him out of your life could count as weight loss :) Well done!
  • lessismoreohio
    lessismoreohio Posts: 910 Member
    He sounds to me like a bully. You are likely better off without him.
  • NetflixAndChocolate
    NetflixAndChocolate Posts: 57 Member
    IMO you were a knockout the day you decided to to change for yourself. Self motivation is attractive. A guy told me something damm near similar, and for a while I was like 'I'll try for him' .

    In short you didnt over react, he was a ****. You are perfect however you want to be.
  • kgeyser
    kgeyser Posts: 22,505 Member
    OP, you should spend as much time thinking about him now that the relationship is over as he spent thinking about you during the relationship.

    Ok, time's up. Let's get donuts!
  • smedlund
    smedlund Posts: 117 Member
    OP, you should spend as much time thinking about him now that the relationship is over as he spent thinking about you during the relationship.

    Ok, time's up. Let's get donuts!

    Yup! I'm over it. Moving on. Besides, I had someone waiting in the wings. :laugh: Life goes on! Now, about that donut..
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    So, I was dating this guy. I asked him why he was attracted to me
    why oh why oh why would you ever ask a guy a question like this if you arent prepared to hear something effed up in return?

    i didnt even read the rest of the OP, because you were pretty much asking to hear nonsense considering the question
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Is it just me that would not need to ask a question like why are you attractive to me?

    I agree with the above ^^
  • shadowthecat971
    shadowthecat971 Posts: 5
    Doesn't sound like you overreacted at all. :I Sounds like the dude needs a new perspective on life.
  • smedlund
    smedlund Posts: 117 Member

    why oh why oh why would you ever ask a guy a question like this if you arent prepared to hear something effed up in return?

    Yes, yes, yes, dumb on my part. I appreciated his honesty. To be fair, he did ask me why I was attracted to him and I was curious to the same.

    To be honest, if there weren't all the other red flags, I probably would have ignored this comment.

    Anyway, since breaking up with him, I have become much happier. I'm glad to move on. Life is too short.

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