WHY WAIT UNTIL I LOSE WEIGHT TO LOVE MYSELF!!!!

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  • bdjweed
    bdjweed Posts: 1
    What a great attitude and life mindset! Bravisimo!
  • shai74
    shai74 Posts: 512 Member
    I've never been able to "love" myself - because of my weight. Don't think I ever will. Nice thought though. I've always said I get by on my intellect and winning personality. I will never accept I'm attractive, and in fact resented and distrusted my husband the whole 10 years we were married. WTF is WRONG with him that he finds ME attractive?

    I'm not shy, I come across as confident, I can relate to everyone. But I'd also say I'm aloof to a degree, because of my weight. I'm "different" to everyone else. Always have been. I'm tall, taller than most of the females I know, and certainly I weigh more, even now. I feel "big". I think even at goal I'll feel "big". When I was 14 and under 70kg I felt "big" compared to my peers. At 40 I don't think that will ever change.

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