Getting really frustrated

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  • chillyrodent
    chillyrodent Posts: 21
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    Should your boyfriend lose a little weight, too? If so, your efforts may feel threatening to his status quo. Part of his brain (that he doesn't even realize exists) is telling him that if you lose weight, you will be hotter, will dump his fat butt, and will make other choices for yourself. It's not surprising that he is trying to sabotage your efforts (and sabotage is exactly what it is).

    I'm NOT suggesting you drop your efforts, or that you let him get away with this unacceptable behavior. Just knowing what could be going through his head may help you. You might just call him on it, or do whatever you need to, but this knowledge is for YOU.

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