Throwing your weight around and being a bully.

maverickyanda

- Being a bully isn't the right thing, the healthy thing, the Christian thing, or even the adult thing to do.

- Just because you're bigger, doesn't mean you know more. You hid behind your weight when you were fat, but you can't do it now.

- Same if you're smaller.

- Same if you have senority.

- People here (usually) aren't stupid. Don't talk around poeple. Don't insinuate. Don't poke fun at poeple without saying their names - we get you. We can read. Don't act like giggly schoolgirls at the lockers during passtime.

- Don't create 10 new threads to drag on some drama.

- Don't rag on other's people's accomplishments!! Don't! It's a terribly mean thing to do. Some people are a size zero, some people (cough) are small chested (love what the Lord gave ya!) and some people are a size 22.

Pretty soon, we're gonna get really personal and start ragging on parenting skills and boyfriends and who knows what.

All that being said:

Stop OMG-ing everything I say. If I say "ew" because I think Carmen Electra is, well, ew...don't plot to have me removed from MFP.

Stop ragging on me for being 110 lbs. Sorry. Well - no...I'm not. AND DO NOT ASSUME that I look great naked (dude, don't even think about it), do NOT ASSUME that I lose weight by not eating (do you not read my cookie threads?!), do NOT TELL PEOPLE that I exercise like mad (ooooh I am still seething over that lie) and starve myself. That's just nasty and I RESENT THAT and take GREAT OFFENSE.

I take offense because that is not ME and I also give other people advice/tips/recipes/etc and I don't want them thinking that I snort coke and spin every day or something!!

Stop ragging on me for plastic surgery. If you don't agree with it, fine. Then stop dyeing your hair/getting your nails done/buying firming creams/Spanx. Just keep it to YOURSELF. I went from 173 to 98 lbs (complications of pregnancy) - what do YOU think, folks?


And---

I was in the ICU six months ago, about to slip into a coma and planning my own funeral. I had an allergic reaction and several organs crashed. I nearly died. I seriously think sometimes life would have been easier if I had. True story! That's how I spent my Thanksgiving. My brain was starting to swell and by some miracle I survived. I wasn't supposed to wake up and I did.

I also gained weight while my liver and kidneys were sorting themselves out (I know all about metabolism, thanks) and that's not very fun at all...so that's how I came to be here.

I like it here. I like recipes and logging my food (major help when I can see a breakdown of protein, carbs, cals, etc) and some of the folks.

What I don't like is very nasty people just trying to make me feel bad about my body. I don't like it when I sort of had that ah I hate my life if I brain had kept swelling feeling---!

So just ****in stop it.

To all of you that were supportive after the drama yesterday - thanks.
To all of you that felt the need to be mean and send messages - no thanks. Get over yourselves.

AAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL that being said...I'm moving along now and not dealing with it anymore.

maverickyanda

- Being a bully isn't the right thing, the healthy thing, the Christian thing, or even the adult thing to do.

- Just because you're bigger, doesn't mean you know more. You hid behind your weight when you were fat, but you can't do it now.

- Same if you're smaller.

- Same if you have senority.

- People here (usually) aren't stupid. Don't talk around poeple. Don't insinuate. Don't poke fun at poeple without saying their names - we get you. We can read. Don't act like giggly schoolgirls at the lockers during passtime.

- Don't create 10 new threads to drag on some drama.

- Don't rag on other's people's accomplishments!! Don't! It's a terribly mean thing to do. Some people are a size zero, some people (cough) are small chested (love what the Lord gave ya!) and some people are a size 22.

Pretty soon, we're gonna get really personal and start ragging on parenting skills and boyfriends and who knows what.

All that being said:

Stop OMG-ing everything I say. If I say "ew" because I think Carmen Electra is, well, ew...don't plot to have me removed from MFP.

Stop ragging on me for being 110 lbs. Sorry. Well - no...I'm not. AND DO NOT ASSUME that I look great naked (dude, don't even think about it), do NOT ASSUME that I lose weight by not eating (do you not read my cookie threads?!), do NOT TELL PEOPLE that I exercise like mad (ooooh I am still seething over that lie) and starve myself. That's just nasty and I RESENT THAT and take GREAT OFFENSE.

I take offense because that is not ME and I also give other people advice/tips/recipes/etc and I don't want them thinking that I snort coke and spin every day or something!!

Stop ragging on me for plastic surgery. If you don't agree with it, fine. Then stop dyeing your hair/getting your nails done/buying firming creams/Spanx. Just keep it to YOURSELF. I went from 173 to 98 lbs (complications of pregnancy) - what do YOU think, folks?


And---

I was in the ICU six months ago, about to slip into a coma and planning my own funeral. I had an allergic reaction and several organs crashed. I nearly died. I seriously think sometimes life would have been easier if I had. True story! That's how I spent my Thanksgiving. My brain was starting to swell and by some miracle I survived. I wasn't supposed to wake up and I did.

I also gained weight while my liver and kidneys were sorting themselves out (I know all about metabolism, thanks) and that's not very fun at all...so that's how I came to be here.

I like it here. I like recipes and logging my food (major help when I can see a breakdown of protein, carbs, cals, etc) and some of the folks.

What I don't like is very nasty people just trying to make me feel bad about my body. I don't like it when I sort of had that ah I hate my life if I brain had kept swelling feeling---!

So just ****in stop it.

To all of you that were supportive after the drama yesterday - thanks.
To all of you that felt the need to be mean and send messages - no thanks. Get over yourselves.

AAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL that being said...I'm moving along now and not dealing with it anymore.