How did I miss the healing process??

Manda86

im so glad for you two, i really am.
Josh and i hit it off immediately just like you two seemed to have... And all i can say is that when you know, you know im sure everything will play out as it is supposed to in due time...

now. I dont know if yall knew this, but i used to be a voice major. So, premature or not, I am telling you right now, that i am singing in yalls wedding!!

Haha, I would be honored lovely Em. :happy:

Only thing I'm worried about is someone there that's lookin' hotter than the bride.. :grumble: lol... we may have to ug you up a bit, Em... can't have you putting me to shame.. lol

Nich0le

Manda......my doctor told me that with my family history and my irradic periods (I was lucky to have 2 a year) that my chances of having a baby without the assistance of fertility drugs or adoption was less than 5%.

I had just married my husband and I was so upset, he was adopted so the idea of adopting was good for him but I felt similar to you, I had always known I wanted to be a mommy.

Well, I quit following the doctors advice and taking the medicine that made me have a period. My husband and I moved to Hawaii for a year and I didn't use birth control and 8months later I found out I was pregnant. I couldn't believe it, no one thought I would carry it to term but I did and the baby was so happy that they had to induce labor and my daughter was there, healthy and beautiful.

I continued to have problems with my plumbing after her. We decided we wanted another so when she turned one we quit using birth control and no luck no luck no luck. Saw three doctors, all told me with the cysts they were seeing and family history that my daughter was a "fluke" and my chances of having a second were little if nothing at all. I was sad, figured I had my little girl and maybe now I would adopt. My daughter turned 3 and I turned up pregnant again!

I guess my point is that you should not give up hope. There are plenty of people in the world that try for years and years and decide to adopt, bring home their new baby and end up pregnant. There are people who give in and use fertility (I was personally opposed, but it is a personal choice) and end up with 4 all at once and there are those special moms who try and try and never have a baby and they adopt and take care of a baby that was in need of a mothers love adn that doesn't make them any less of a women or mother.

YOu can and will be a mom someday, just remember, birthing a baby doesn't automatically make you a mom, loving, caring and giving your all to a child is what makes you a mother!

Good luck, keep your head up high and your spirit strong adn whatever is in the cards for you will happen when it is supposed to happen and you will know the joy of true love at first sight when the baby that you are meant to be a mother too is put in your arms for the first time!

sgtinvincible

I just found a picture of me and Manda's future children.

Manda86

Baby J... hee hee

Fab140

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crying at work

I'm so glad I'm not the only one.:embarassed:

Me too......I think as the days go by, I want a child more and more.....I know waiting is the best idea right now with my and hubby's income....that and the hubby isn't real keen on kids right now (too big of one himself!!)

:flowerforyou: God bless, Manda! Hang in there!!

casey34472

That sounds exactly like my cousin. She now has two kids even though the doc's told her she wouldn't have any. I hope for the best for you doc's are not always right.

sgtinvincible

Fab140

Ow..........:indifferent:

KrisKabob

Wow, you two... even I have the warm-fuzzies!!! It's so amazing how I can feel the love between you two radiate even through simple Internet message boards! It's so awesome and I am so extactic for the two of you!

Manda, I believe that if you want to be a Mommy bad enough that it will happen. Like J and Em said being a Mom or a Dad is MUCH more than reproduction. My Father was a sperm donor, plain and simple. My Step-Dad is my Dad... I love him so much! And he came into my life when I was 20!!!

It's so amazing how things work out... I truly believe what you said about your heart healing. I imagine that some people don't realize how much our minds/heart controls our bodies, how they operate, and how one feels. It's nice that you have discovered this. I'm so happy for you and your great health!

You will have you wish some day... :flowerforyou:

Kris

Gorgeous

OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gorgeous

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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