Looking for friends and motivation

Gergens

Average 31 y/o dude. Just restarted at the gym.
Started by taking good care of my nutrition.
Been swimming, jogging, and cycling. I usually use my
bicycle as a mean of transportation. I am about to turn 32
and am very determined to come in fully to my 30s looking
smashing! Looking for friends in similar situation or just
looking for nice people to perk each other up and
get there together. I happen to be gay so any gay dudes
who wanna bud up and talk about this process.
I mention this for the vanity issue, I have very clear
sexuality has nothing to do with this, more like sex
as in male or female, but it's always nice to
talk to people who think or feel similar. Whoever's fine.
I am just looking for some nice motivation!