partner's weight?

PrincessLacey

to girls: do you perfer skinny,medium or big guys? (or girls on girls if your lesbo)

to guys: do you perfer skinny,medium or big girls? (or guys on guys if your gay)

why I'm asking this is because i have a few friends and their all in agreement that medium is perfect like girls through 150-190 and guys through 150-220 (i personally don't mind bigger but not past like 250) but what is everyone else's view?

PeachyKeene

Definately medium for me because that is what my husband is.

sexygenius

I like bigger guys, not necessarily, just big, I like bear hugs
and girls I like around my height, and i hate to say this..but I like them smaller than me...I just find thinner girls more attractive..I deffinately like curves though

so I guess guys I like big, and girls medium, or little larger or smaller is good too...im BIG

Ashley_Panda

My husband is a big guy and he's hot stuff.

NoAdditives

I like bigger, muscular guys, like my husband.

Celo24

My wife is 5'3, 120 and I love her like that. She's not rail skinny but she looks like a very athletic girl which is the look that I dig.

Kelleinna

I don't like guys *too* skinny, but I don't like them *too* big either. So somewhere in the middle of the road, yes. Muscular, but not necessarily ripped (too much muscle looks icky). And a little bit of padding is okay... lol.

skinnylizzard

My guy has gone over 200lbs now. I don't mind it but I wouldn't want him to weigh any more than he does. He used to be really buff, but I found that was too hard and not snuggly.

SimonsGirl

i like medium, muscular legs and arms!

taso42_DELETED

I like athletic or a little meat on the bones. Too skinny makes me think weak and fragile. Plus a little muscle definition and/or some curves is way hotter than skin & bones.

Awineburg

I think I'd prefer "Football built" guys.... Not too skinny because I might break them in half, and not too big because I might get squished. Like someone said before, bear hugs are nice

melissatacker

I like big muscular guys the ones you know can protect you and make you feel safe ...I'm 5'8 so they gotta be at least my height or taller.

erickirb

I tend to like fit athletic type girls. Not with a ripped 6 pack, but a little definition is great.

lilRicki

I like my man freakishly tall and large...the bigger (not fatter) the better...I'm about to marry a large man lol

HeidiMightyRawr

I like big muscular guys, not really ripped with no fat on them, but not where all their weight is fat. Just big, strong and huggable

Goal_Seeker_1988

My man is 5'6" which is an inch shorter than I am. He is 200lbs and use to weight 150. He has a stomach and is medium built. I love him to death, I wouldn't want him to be any bigger than he is now. But if that would ever happen, I'd still love him just the same.

Awineburg

My man is 5'6" which is an inch shorter than I am. He is 200lbs and use to weight 150. He has a stomach and is medium built. I love him to death, I wouldn't want him to be any bigger than he is now. But if that would ever happen, I'd still love him just the same.

awww that is so cute!! True love

NotAllWhoWanderAreLost

I guess i am drawn to a semi-athletic (active) guy. Not "ripped"--- although that is nice to look at, i would feel like a blobby failure by comparison lol! One with a killer smile, a down-to-earth attitude and a mischeivlous twinkle to his eye on occasion. Oh, and taller than 5'11" would be nice since i am 5'10" ... but since i am married, this is really a non-issue! LOL! :ohwell:

Jovialation

My bf is 5'10" and weighs like 140. Hes as skinny as skinny can be practically and I adoooorrrre him that way. Scrawny guys are the best. Especially with a tiny bit of muscle in the forearms and legs...and with the hip bones touchable.

My bf has dated me when I was 90 pounds and at my highest weight since Ive known him and loves me just the same...altho now that Im working on weight loss hes told me to PLEASE not get down to 90 pounds again, lol

WillPillageYourVillageForFood

My husband's weight has run from 140 to 250 and right now he's hovering somewhere around the 210 mark. I have loved him through thick and thin. Doesn't really matter to me what he weighs I still think he's the most incredible guy out there.

appleshells

my husband is 6'2 and I am 5ft! He is a big big guy and I love it. He gained about 40 pounds since we have been together and I am still crazy about him. Rawr, hot stuff.

However, he prefers me about 25 pounds smaller than I am now.

Tralee1111

My guy is 6'2" and I am 5'10" which is perfect. We dated back in 1983, split and reunited this year. Yeah, we're both not as thin as we were back in the day, but we love each other just the same. He's trying to lose weight with me.

Even if he still remained the same or gained, I'd love him no matter what. He says the same thing to me, but deep down I want to look better for him He's a sweetie.

Mustang_Susie

I'm 5'8" and hubby is 6'5".
I love his height and wearing heels with him!!

ColeyCannoli

My boy is 6'2" 150-160, and he is proud to say that he's gained nearly 15lbs in the last year :P He is just a naturally tall skinny skinny guy and I love him like that! I think he looks great with a bit more meat on him now but I'd love him as much at 130 as I would at 300. In general though I think a good healthy look is always better then an extreme in either direction.

kimber607

I think guys have a warped sense of what a girl might weigh
guess I would be deemed unattractive by the 150-190 standard...LOL..oh well
It always amazes me guys here say they don't like skinny and they like curvy..i think it all depends on how/where u carry your weight...any weight can be attractive

I prefer a medium guy, def wouldn't want anyone thinner or smaller than I am

kerriBB37

My boyfriend is PERFECT in my eyes. I agree with loving bear hugs and being able to wear heels. He is 6'3" and has dropped from 275 to 255 over the last month or so. . He plays every sport there is and I love that about him too! Athleticism is a turn-on. I could never date a man that was smaller than me. EEK!

stephanielynn76

My husband is muscular and just a few inches taller than me. He is perfect! I don't like skinny guys at all. I am 5'7"-ish with long arms. If I can wrap my arms all the way around a guy and touch my own shoulders... ugh... too skinny... makes me feel less feminine. I also prefer men slightly taller than me. I guess even though I'm thin, I've never been petite or tiny therefore I want a man that is a bit taller, thicker, and stronger... a defender and protector. I am tough and feisty. If I can kick your butt, you aren't man enough. LOL

fitnesspirateninja

In general though I think a good healthy look is always better then an extreme in either direction.

Agreed!

anubis609

I'm more attracted to females with small - medium frames. But it all depends on how well they can work it.

miatyler

I like my girls to be the same size or bigger than me (built for comfort)

I like my men to be way bigger than me. My husband is built like a bear, I feel safe and protected when I am with him.

BullDozier

It always amazes me guys here say they don't like skinny and they like curvy..i think it all depends on how/where u carry your weight...any weight can be attractive

I definitely agree with this. While my defauly is that I like an "athletic" but not muscular figure, I have seen beauty in women of various sizes.

I'd probably say what the scale says is the least predictive way for me to predict if I'll find a woman attractive. The waist to hip ratio is much more important (an hourglass figure of any size is always attractive) but most predictive is attitude and confidence. A big, friendly smile always gets me.