Well.. Not Sure what to do... Help

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  • devildog525
    devildog525 Posts: 46
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    No, we were not married at the time, we were engaged and she acted like she was fine with it until I got back, then things went south. That being said when I got off active duty I went into the reserves and then was deployed again like 2 years ago. I was right at my max weight and barely passed the Physical fitness requirements. Now Ive only got 1 year left in the reserves and no risk of getting deployed again.
  • Elbee1
    Elbee1 Posts: 2,063 Member
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    Forgot to say this earlier... Thank you for serving our country!
  • pinkgigi
    pinkgigi Posts: 693 Member
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    Even if she does not agree to marriage counselling, go yourself, it will be worth it.

    Sending hugs your way.

    GG
  • kristyann86
    kristyann86 Posts: 140 Member
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    wow. reading this breaks my heart. i definately agree with the other replies of insecurity issues. if you still love her (which sounds like you do, otherwise you prolly wouldn't have posted ) have you told her lately that you love her? or better yet "showed" her that you love her with the little things. sometimes i find that makes a huge difference. like holding hands, watching a movie together WITHOUT the cell phone or laptop, or flirting even. hope everything gets better!

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