Would you be pissed?

dodier01

so my hubby is telling me i shouldn't be mad or upset but I am..

He just came home from work, comes in the house, I'm making supper (he knows I was making supper) he looks at me while laughin and says I just went to McDonalds so i wont be eating.

I'm mad caus he knew I was making supper why go and eat out?

Am I over reacting?

anemoneflynn

Dude, I'd be mad. I mean, it's not a good idea to end the day angry, but I'd definitely be upset. Realize you're upset, that he was freaking insensitive; and then realize that it's not the end of the world. At least, not this once. :-D Hopefully he'll apologize!

Higglyjiggly64

He knew you were making supper, he's a jerk. But it's a small thing, but let him know it was inconsiderate. If he doesn't want to eat what you're making then he should tell you so you can adjust the portions. Then kiss and make up.

erikblock

Mildly annoyed, sure....but it doesn't strike me as anything to hold a grudge about. Put the food in the fridge for tomorrow and spend some time with your husband. Life is short.

(Just my 2 cents.)

missy1970eb

Go chuck it in his lap and tell him he can eat it anyway lol

louiepoof

No, you are not overreacting--especially if he knew you were cooking! I'd be very upset and tempted to not fix supper for anyone but myself for the next few days!!!!

FearAnLoathing

no I wouldnt at all.

squeaktones

i can understand how you feel. men and women have two differant trains of thought on things though. you are just a little more thoughtful than he is. think of it this way though. you are going to have a nice healthy meal and he had something this is going bloated and sluggish. i think you are getting the better end of the deal.

deeharley

My husband does this to me occasionally. Mostly, I'm just pissed that he didn't bring me and the kids some. Yeah, be angry for a while, then let it go.

Maybe some night soon, eat before he gets home, then tell him you assumed he was going to McDonald's. haha

DisneyAddictRW

Since he knew I was cooking I'd be fustrated. It would pass but I'd probably playfully pick on him through out the night for fun but he'd know it was just playful fun.

kat65

I'd be pissed off too. He's a guy, though, and guys don't think things through before they do it. They just do it. We'd at least call and ask if they wanted something too. And, when they said they were making dinner either order something small so we weren't starving or feel guilty and not eat there. But, that's us and not them. So, on that note, I'd let it go. Besides, it's his loss. McDonalds over a homecooked meal. There's no comparison!!!

bbygrl5

I don't think you're overreacting. Tell him you'll save his portion of the leftovers for the UPS guy tomorrow, lmao... :devil:

yeah don't say that *grin*

Hailz1986

Just don't ever bother to cook for him, let him see how it works the other way round.

bahrainbel_2

i honestly wouldn't give a ****, it' only dinner!

jstalittlecrzy

Tomorrow eat early, finishing off tonights supper.
When he gets home looking for supper tell him "Sorry, I ate at McDonalds"
And yes, I would be pissed

ShandiH

I don't think you're overreacting. I think it's incredibly inconsiderate that he goes out to eat while your cooking dinner (and he knew you were). Hello? Couldn't he call and say "Thanks honey for cooking dinner. But, I'm really hungry so, how long until dinner is ready? " He didn't need to go all-out and have a huge meal right before dinner.

alazarus

As much as I'd like to be like, "You go girl!" with everyone else-- I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. If it's not a regular thing, I'd just laugh and forget about it-- everyone gets their fast food cravings once in a while, and it's better than him lying about it or eating twice. But if it is a regular thing, then just stop cooking for him. Don't sweat the small stuff!

bugnbeansmom

My husband does this to me occasionally. Mostly, I'm just pissed that he didn't bring me and the kids some. Yeah, be angry for a while, then let it go.

Maybe some night soon, eat before he gets home, then tell him you assumed he was going to McDonald's. haha

OMG! LMBO! You should totally do that!

SeaShell33

I would be mad for a minute, but then think I have more left overs for myself tomorrow, so less cooking for me! thanks husband

erica14304

I guess I would be a little annoyed, but at least he ate the McDonald's outside of the house and didn't bring it home tempting you.

kriswigg

Yeah, I'd be mad, but I'd also ask him why he went to McDonald's when he knew you were cooking dinner. Maybe he didn't like what you were making, but didn't want to say so cause he thought he'd hurt your feelings. Granted, bad way to do it and he ended up with the same result, but like someone else said, guys don't think sometimes. I think I'd also tell him if he pulls that again, you'll just plan to cook for yourself from now on and he can fend for himself. As another post pointed out, you'll be trim and healthy, and he'll be bloated, tired and heavy from eating that fast-food crap! :bigsmile:

vickyg1

I don't think you're overreacting. Tell him you'll save his portion of the leftovers for the UPS guy tomorrow, lmao... :devil:

yeah don't say that *grin*

CLASSIC hahaahhaah

Higglyjiggly64

My husband does this to me occasionally. Mostly, I'm just pissed that he didn't bring me and the kids some. Yeah, be angry for a while, then let it go.

Maybe some night soon, eat before he gets home, then tell him you assumed he was going to McDonald's. haha

lmao! This is PERFECT!

rhonda1981

Yes it is ok to be upset...it would even be ok to express your frustration and then tell him to sleep on the couch...LOL...but with all fairness tell him how it made you feel and then move on.

diet45

Definitely be upset and I would definitely tell him. Love some of the ideas about not cooking or eating before he gets home one night.

dodier01

My husband does this to me occasionally. Mostly, I'm just pissed that he didn't bring me and the kids some. Yeah, be angry for a while, then let it go.

Maybe some night soon, eat before he gets home, then tell him you assumed he was going to McDonald's. haha

I LOVE this one!! lol. I will absolutely try to do this at some point... Hahaha!!

Thanks everyonefor the support!

Zaggytiddies

Just put his on a plate, stick it in the fridge and he can eat it tomorrow.

just4peachy

Mildly annoyed, sure....but it doesn't strike me as anything to hold a grudge about. Put the food in the fridge for tomorrow and spend some time with your husband. Life is short.

(Just my 2 cents.)

Mostly this, but make sure you TELL him how it made you feel. Guys don't think the same way we do and they have NO idea what we're thinking. He needs it spelled out.

dr1981

My husband does this to me occasionally. Mostly, I'm just pissed that he didn't bring me and the kids some. Yeah, be angry for a while, then let it go.

Maybe some night soon, eat before he gets home, then tell him you assumed he was going to McDonald's. haha

*Like*

ahsongbird

I very rarely cook so when i do i expect it to be eaten (unless i cant even stomache it haha) I would be upset but i wouldnt lash out at my husband I would expect major *kitten* kissing to occur though ( and i would get it :P )

MyBeautyIsSkinDeep

Girl iam mad for you!!! Dont let it mess your evening up tho, enjoy what you cook sit down and watch a little, or workout, and call it the night!!:noway: