Insecurity

RiiNaCHiiCK09

Its slowly destroying me...Im not just insecure about my looks but about who I am as a person as well. I'm losing the people I care about the most because of my obsession over it. I don't know why I can't seem to love myself. I know I look beautiful...I know I do...But its like that doesn't matter. It never seems to be enough for me. Not only do I not feel like enough physically, but mentally as well. I can never do anything right. I always annoy people with things I say, things I do...I think I'm being a "good" person, but then I find out I'm doing something wrong...I'm now obsessing over working out because its the one thing I feel like I can control. Is this motivation enough or even healthy?

CassieLEO

You really have a bunch of stuff going on right now. What about maybe talking to someone who can help you through this hard time in your life?

ybba12490

You really have a bunch of stuff going on right now. What about maybe talking to someone who can help you through this hard time in your life?

agree. don't want anyone to attack me for saying this but usually having control issues with workouts and eating are signs of an eating disorder, which can give you health problems/scares or even death. Hopefully you can get some of the issues resolved. You shouldn't base your worth (for lack of a better word) on other people. If you think you are being a good person, then you are! You just had a breakup and those are extremely hard, but it hasn't even been one night (I think?) of being single. It takes time to get over these things, maybe take a break for a while? or use this site as something to distract you, but try to steer clear of the controlling habits, please