Not sure where to post this... (rant warning)

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  • Just1forMe
    Just1forMe Posts: 624 Member
    Your progress is AMAZING and you should be so proud of yourself! My question would have to be: Why on earth are you "friends" with this girl?? Seriously. You need to surround yourself with people who actually consider your feelings and support you and aren't rude, self-destructive....goofs. (((Hugs!)))) YOU have nothing to cry about!
  • diviana
    diviana Posts: 53
    Sounds like some cleaning house is in order. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you and who appreciate THEMSELVES enough to not make fun of everyone else. If you aren't getting anything positive out of the friendship, move on. I know it's hard, I've lost 3 friends in the past 5 months. Lost, as in cut them loose. Don't need the drama, and I'm all the better for it.
  • CNYKrista
    CNYKrista Posts: 61
    People like this are shallow. Thanks for sharing and I am here to support all of you!!!
  • phinners
    phinners Posts: 524 Member
    Sometimes friends are much better off being 'de friended'.

    There is enough sh1te, stress, unhappiness and more sh1te in this world without us allowing so called friends to add to it. Dump her like a dose of the crabs!
  • kuhristeee
    kuhristeee Posts: 100 Member
    I'd just like to reiterate what everyone else has said basically. There's no reason to keep this person and their constant negativity in your life. Especially when it begins to weigh you down emotionally when you're trying to keep a positive mindset for your OWN well being. It's nothing but detrimental to your efforts, and you certainly don't want that! :) Be proud of everything you've accomplished, you deserve it! And let the haters fall by the wayside. Regardless of her 'reasons' for acting the way she does, there's more than likely nothing YOU could do to change it even if you wanted to.

    If it were me, I'd cut my losses and move on. There are many more good hearted, supportive people who deserve her spot in your life. :)
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