Seriously Psycho

Dreamerlove
Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
edited September 25 in Chit-Chat
My mom is seriously psycho!!! Does anyone else have a psycho mother? It sucks if you do, but it would make me feel better... =(

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  • Dreamerlove
    Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
    She is starting to make me have panic attacks!!!!
  • jen1516
    jen1516 Posts: 77 Member
    Yes. She walked out on me when I was 15. I'll be 33 in a few weeks and I saw her for the first time last year. I can gladly go another 18 years without seeing her. I won't go into details how truly crazy she is though. Too personal. Good luck to you.
  • color_me_skinny
    color_me_skinny Posts: 106
    yep. shes been in and out of mental hospitals for years. shes drug addicted, and a neglectful "mother"...if she can even be called such a thing.
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    I wouldn't use the word psycho... just super uper frustrating.
  • Dreamerlove
    Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
    Yes. She walked out on me when I was 15. I'll be 33 in a few weeks and I saw her for the first time last year. I can gladly go another 18 years without seeing her. I won't go into details how truly crazy she is though. Too personal. Good luck to you.

    Jenn I'm sorry! I knows that sucks, do you have kids now? I'm terrified I will end up like my mom even though I know she is wrong..you get my fear?
  • TiniTurtle
    TiniTurtle Posts: 595 Member
    ah Jess, mine is too! mostly just controlling & manipulative & a pain in the butt... i thought it'd get better once i'm married & out of the house, but if you're saying yours isn't, then i'm going to have to find a new way to cope :o/ they're our mothers, so we have to love them...
  • shaunarlr83
    shaunarlr83 Posts: 374 Member
    haha I tell my husband all of the time that my mom is off her rocker, I have had serious mama drama for a year and a half now and tomorrow is her birthday it will be a rough day for me because we no longer speak.
  • millesun
    millesun Posts: 209 Member
    Yep mine is psycho too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Dreamerlove
    Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
    ah Jess, mine is too! mostly just controlling & manipulative & a pain in the butt... i thought it'd get better once i'm married & out of the house, but if you're saying yours isn't, then i'm going to have to find a new way to cope :o/ they're our mothers, so we have to love them...


    Girl, your mom sounds like mine! She is soooo manipulative, and controlling!!! Like MASTER of manipulation (is that a word) I would love to see them dual..lol
  • jen1516
    jen1516 Posts: 77 Member
    Yes. She walked out on me when I was 15. I'll be 33 in a few weeks and I saw her for the first time last year. I can gladly go another 18 years without seeing her. I won't go into details how truly crazy she is though. Too personal. Good luck to you.

    Jenn I'm sorry! I knows that sucks, do you have kids now? I'm terrified I will end up like my mom even though I know she is wrong..you get my fear?

    Yes, I have 2 little boys ages 6 & 8. Sometimes I do see some of my mom in me and it terrifies me! Just got to stop and count to 10 and do my best to be the complete opposite of her.
  • SunLove8
    SunLove8 Posts: 693 Member
    My mom is seriously psycho!!! Does anyone else have a psycho mother? It sucks if you do, but it would make me feel better... =(

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The definition of "psycho" can mean many different things to many other people, but I think understand what you mean. I grew up with a mother who went throug A LOT of horriable things and ended up hurting those who she loved the most. All I can really say is that without knowing your situation is to hang on to those that are there for you and are positive AND know that YOU are not the problem or the reason she is "psycho". Having a great support system is key to getting through this. You are already obviously strong, so continue and you shall exceed. Don't let other's define you or in other words, take away who YOU are inside. You are going to get through this and maybe even be able to help someone else that is/has dealt with this issue. Again, I can't really "help" and give you the "right" advice without knowing your personal story; however, I do know that you CAN get through this and reaching out is the first best thing in helping yourself. Feel free to add/or message me if you would like.:flowerforyou:
  • Dreamerlove
    Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
    haha I tell my husband all of the time that my mom is off her rocker, I have had serious mama drama for a year and a half now and tomorrow is her birthday it will be a rough day for me because we no longer speak.


    I'm sorry tomorrow will be rough for you!! I understand, I actually would be fine not talking to my mom, but I LOVE my gma and little bro and of course my 18 yr old brother lives with her and my mom is very close to my gma. So I can't get away. I think I am going to start calling her by her first name, I KNOW that will be my way of getting my point across. I may start stealing your "she fell off her rocker" saying, kinda funny.
  • Dreamerlove
    Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
    My mom is seriously psycho!!! Does anyone else have a psycho mother? It sucks if you do, but it would make me feel better... =(

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The definition of "psycho" can mean many different things to many other people, but I think understand what you mean. I grew up with a mother who went throug A LOT of horriable things and ended up hurting those who she loved the most. All I can really say is that without knowing your situation is to hang on to those that are there for you and are positive AND know that YOU are not the problem or the reason she is "psycho". Having a great support system is key to getting through this. You are already obviously strong, so continue and you shall exceed. Don't let other's define you or in other words, take away who YOU are inside. You are going to get through this and maybe even be able to help someone else that is/has dealt with this issue. Again, I can't really "help" and give you the "right" advice without knowing your personal story; however, I do know that you CAN get through this and reaching out is the first best thing in helping yourself. Feel free to add/or message me if you would like.:flowerforyou:


    You are soooooo sweet!!! She is psycho as in very very very very controlling and manipulative, my poor step dad and bro are afraid to even have an opinion for themselves bc if they do she will GO OFF, and not just an angry off but like an she is soooo upset and will cry and cry and cry....I am the only one who won't take it, and I will say things she doesn't want to hear. Like she won't let my bro have ANY friends, won't let him DRIVE (he is 18) won't let him have a job. poor thing.
  • TiniTurtle
    TiniTurtle Posts: 595 Member
    haha I tell my husband all of the time that my mom is off her rocker, I have had serious mama drama for a year and a half now and tomorrow is her birthday it will be a rough day for me because we no longer speak.


    I'm sorry tomorrow will be rough for you!! I understand, I actually would be fine not talking to my mom, but I LOVE my gma and little bro and of course my 18 yr old brother lives with her and my mom is very close to my gma. So I can't get away. I think I am going to start calling her by her first name, I KNOW that will be my way of getting my point across. I may start stealing your "she fell off her rocker" saying, kinda funny.



    bahahaha when i'm mad i may start doing that too! it'd drive her crazy to call her by her first name! :o)
  • shaunarlr83
    shaunarlr83 Posts: 374 Member
    well unfortunately my grandparents have passed but my sister is only 18 and my little brother is only 12, by walking out of her house and refusing to go back I have lost my entire family, it really sucks but sometimes you have to make great sacrifices in order to live a happy life, my kids get to see her all of the time because she "friended" my ex and even moved him in next door to her. Missing out on seeing my brother and sister, and nieces and nephew grow is the absolute hardest, but I'm coping. It sucks because we were always so close : ( I hope you feel better knowing others are going through the same things you are, knowing I'm not alone is helping me : )
  • SunLove8
    SunLove8 Posts: 693 Member
    My mom is seriously psycho!!! Does anyone else have a psycho mother? It sucks if you do, but it would make me feel better... =(

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The definition of "psycho" can mean many different things to many other people, but I think understand what you mean. I grew up with a mother who went throug A LOT of horriable things and ended up hurting those who she loved the most. All I can really say is that without knowing your situation is to hang on to those that are there for you and are positive AND know that YOU are not the problem or the reason she is "psycho". Having a great support system is key to getting through this. You are already obviously strong, so continue and you shall exceed. Don't let other's define you or in other words, take away who YOU are inside. You are going to get through this and maybe even be able to help someone else that is/has dealt with this issue. Again, I can't really "help" and give you the "right" advice without knowing your personal story; however, I do know that you CAN get through this and reaching out is the first best thing in helping yourself. Feel free to add/or message me if you would like.:flowerforyou:


    You are soooooo sweet!!! She is psycho as in very very very very controlling and manipulative, my poor step dad and bro are afraid to even have an opinion for themselves bc if they do she will GO OFF, and not just an angry off but like an she is soooo upset and will cry and cry and cry....I am the only one who won't take it, and I will say things she doesn't want to hear. Like she won't let my bro have ANY friends, won't let him DRIVE (he is 18) won't let him have a job. poor thing.

    YOU are sooooo sweet :)
    Message me in a personal message and I'll let you know what I think. I have to be "professional" in my advice in a "compromising sitution" due to my career ,but I think I might be a good person to console in if you need to vent or want advice. :)
  • Dreamerlove
    Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
    She just sent me this really mean text out of nowhere, and I know she won't let me see my 18 year old brother not until she goes back to normal. I am actually ok but I hurt because I want to see him, and if he were to disobey her, he would be grounded for like a year, Im not lying! She already won't let him drive, won't let him get a job, won't let him see friends etc etc
  • TiniTurtle
    TiniTurtle Posts: 595 Member
    Jess, if she is like my mom- she'll get over it in a day or 2 & be NASTY until then. wait out the storm. :o(
  • Dreamerlove
    Dreamerlove Posts: 441 Member
    Jenn--maybe they are long lost sisters, lol
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    I usually keep this to myself, but mother has major issues. She's schizophrenic, hypochodriac, and very violent. I haven't spoken to her in 12 years, and plan on keeping it that way.

    She has stabbed me, pointed a rifle at me, ran over my dog, broken my nose, poisoned me, stolen and wrecked my car, rammed my car with hers, cited arrest warrants on me, she still sends me threatening letters, and has a Facebook page dedicated to insulting me.

    I'm sorry you are going through this. If you could possibley get in a counseling program with her, regardless of outcome, it would be for the best.

    I made it through a childhood with out too many problems, but she has destroyed my sissies life. PM me if there is anything you need to say, I will be happy to do what I can.
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