Dating advice

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  • merzback
    merzback Posts: 453 Member
    Let him go- he sounds like a jerk who doesn't deserve your attention unless he contacts you at this point and has a really good excuse. Even if he went to Paris, why couldn't he at least email? Just be glad you didn't sleep with him. :) I agree with koosdel- on the positive side- just ONE wasted date!
  • samcee
    samcee Posts: 307
    On the positive side, it only took one date for you to discover what kind of guy he is. Much better this way.

    So true!! Thats a good way of looking at it.

    Thanks for the comments and support guys! Really appreciate it xx
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    On the positive side, it only took one date for you to discover what kind of guy he is. Much better this way.

    So true!! Thats a good way of looking at it.

    Thanks for the comments and support guys! Really appreciate it xx

    glad u only wasted one date on him and not a whole month or year. men are cowards i dont knw why if they were born with balls not use them to tell the truth and just be straight up. not that hard.
  • EricJonrosh
    EricJonrosh Posts: 823 Member
    On the positive side, it only took one date for you to discover what kind of guy he is. Much better this way.

    So true!! Thats a good way of looking at it.

    Thanks for the comments and support guys! Really appreciate it xx

    I just talked to someone followed "The One" to South Carolina, moved in, gave him all the free whoopie he wanted, only to be verbally abused and told she never meant a thing to him, all over a two year period. Consider yourself very lucky!
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    On the positive side, it only took one date for you to discover what kind of guy he is. Much better this way.

    So true!! Thats a good way of looking at it.

    Thanks for the comments and support guys! Really appreciate it xx

    I just talked to someone followed "The One" to South Carolina, moved in, gave him all the free whoopie he wanted, only to be verbally abused and told she never meant a thing to him, all over a two year period. Consider yourself very lucky!

    and this is why I woudl NEVER move for ANYBODY!

    i would seriously have to cut his manhood off! wtf is wrong with men? i think men like this must have some serious self esteem issues to have to treat someone like that just so they can feel superior and in control.
  • samcee
    samcee Posts: 307
    Thanks nolachick. You are so strong! I love the power and confidence some of you girls here have, I need to be more like that.
    On the positive side, it only took one date for you to discover what kind of guy he is. Much better this way.

    So true!! Thats a good way of looking at it.

    Thanks for the comments and support guys! Really appreciate it xx

    I just talked to someone followed "The One" to South Carolina, moved in, gave him all the free whoopie he wanted, only to be verbally abused and told she never meant a thing to him, all over a two year period. Consider yourself very lucky!

    Agh, what a a*hole! I've been there and foolishly done that. Wasted 5 years of my youth but I didn't move away for him until the last two years. I also turned down really good work opportunities to move too. Learned it the hard way and will never do it again!! It just makes me feel like us girls really need to have a plan B and be able to protect ourselves. A cousin of mine wasted 7 years of her life which is even worst!

    I feel okay about the date not working out but it does scare me sometimes just how fickle men and relationships are. How do you know when to invest and when to hold back some?
  • EricJonrosh
    EricJonrosh Posts: 823 Member
    On the positive side, it only took one date for you to discover what kind of guy he is. Much better this way.

    So true!! Thats a good way of looking at it.

    Thanks for the comments and support guys! Really appreciate it xx

    I just talked to someone followed "The One" to South Carolina, moved in, gave him all the free whoopie he wanted, only to be verbally abused and told she never meant a thing to him, all over a two year period. Consider yourself very lucky!

    and this is why I woudl NEVER move for ANYBODY!

    Yea, I recall her saying the same thing. =o]
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    On the positive side, it only took one date for you to discover what kind of guy he is. Much better this way.

    So true!! Thats a good way of looking at it.

    Thanks for the comments and support guys! Really appreciate it xx

    I just talked to someone followed "The One" to South Carolina, moved in, gave him all the free whoopie he wanted, only to be verbally abused and told she never meant a thing to him, all over a two year period. Consider yourself very lucky!

    and this is why I woudl NEVER move for ANYBODY!

    Yea, I recall her saying the same thing. =o]

    Trust me, I was in a 6yr long relationship, 2 of which was long distance - he offered to pay for everything if i moved and I would NOT budge. So unless i'm actually married and have a family and need to move for a better career opportunity or something - not doing it
  • DowntimeDesigns
    DowntimeDesigns Posts: 134 Member
    If he doesn't have the respect for you to respond, then he's not worth your time...

    Guys like that give us all a bad name,
  • pinkgigi
    pinkgigi Posts: 693 Member
    I had a similar experience recently, you seriously need to read the book "He's just not that into you", quite an eye-opener, written by a player for women who are always wondering what's going on with men.

    GG
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