always had a weight problem

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Hi, my name is Stacey. I am 34 years old and a single mother to a great little 5 year old little boy. I have always had a weight problem, even as a child. I was the baby of five children, with the next one up being 12 years older, so I was quite spoiled. My parents pretty much let me eat whatever I wanted and do whatever I wanted. Though I had many friends throughout school, I was picked on and was very self-conscience about my looks. I always hovered between 160 and 180, being only 5'4" that was quite a bit. After high school my boyfriend dumped me and that was the first time I lost a significant amount of weight. I dropped down to 140lbs. I did that by going to clubs on the weekends and dancing all night long, lol. Then I got married and gained it all back and then some, i ballooned to 200 lbs. One day my mother remarked on how big I was and she helped me out by buying me a membership at Golds Gym. I went for a while but lost interest. Then a few years later after my father had passed away and my marriage was going downhill I decided I needed to get my butt in gear, so I hit the gym again and got down to around 150lbs. I then met my next husband and got pregnant. I gained 60 lbs with the pregnancy, bringing me up to 210 lbs, but I quickly lost most of it from nursing bringing me down to about 165. After my second marriage dissolved and I started dating the MOST wonderful man in the world, he made me really want to start changing my life for the better, so I quit smoking and you know what happened next!!! I gained 20 lbs. Well it's been 2 years since I gained that weight and I am finally committed to taking it off for good! My boyfriend is very supportive and we have both started eating better. So far I have lost almost 15lbs and a main part of that is because I have become addicted to Zumba, lol. I also walk twice a day and do other various workouts when I don't have Zumba like Tae-Bo, Active2 for wii, and other workout dvd's. I want to be able to enjoy the awesome life that I have now with the love of my life and my son and I want to be healthy doing it. I look forward to interacting with everybody on here.

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  • 57gemini
    57gemini Posts: 18 Member
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    Awesome!!! I want to try Zumba, I hear it's great. Keep it up. :smile:
  • Onesnap
    Onesnap Posts: 2,819 Member
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    Welcome to the program. Best free program out there. I love the app for my phone as well!
  • Onesnap
    Onesnap Posts: 2,819 Member
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    Tried Zumba for the first time this week. I'm adding it to my weekly routine!!
  • sinceresmile
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    Zumba is GREAT! It's a great way to work out... and it doesn't even feel like you're actually working because you're having so much fun. I have also had issues controlling my weight. This January, I was the heaviest I've ever been which was 206. As of today, I am 187.8 and I can't remember the last time I was in the 180s. Keep it up and don't give up! It's going to be hard... but in the long run, it will be worth it.
  • Ash32b
    Ash32b Posts: 9
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    I love Zumba!! Have you tried the Zumba game for the Wii??
  • tuscaroragal
    tuscaroragal Posts: 78 Member
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    Wow...I can completely relate to the up and down of the weight that goes along with the relationships! LOL I've battled for a long time with gaining and losing weight. I'm determined this time that I am going to lose it for good and not gain it back! I hear zumba is awesome..I haven't tried it myself, but I have a routine that works for me. I've lost 18 pounds so far, and I'm not sure what I'm capable of! We'll see! Good luck to you and welcome to myfitnesspal! :) Keep up the good work....
  • SheliaN1960
    SheliaN1960 Posts: 454 Member
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    Welcome to the most awesome place for support, motivation and friends that have the same issues on an everday basis as you! If you would like to friend me I will be glad to back and support you in anyway that I can! Best wishes on your new journey!!!
  • mustangurl
    mustangurl Posts: 104 Member
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    Thank you everybody! It does make it much easier when you have a support group ;) I wish everyone on here the best of luck. As for Zumba, those of you who haven't tried it, you should at least once especially if you LOVE to dance like I do!!!! I have an awesome instructor who is quickly becoming a friend. We actually just started a weight loss challenge last night so that is going to make it even more fun!!!!