Supporting One Another/ Deleting members

L8dyJ

Thanks Roxanne & Nice to meet you :-)

L8dyJ

I love your weight goals. They are definately do-able. (did I just make up a word :-)

L8dyJ

Thanks Keisha. You are right and although I have a Facebook account, I don't even log into it but maybe once or twice per month just to check in with friends time to time. It's important to be here for each other when we have been trying to win this fight for a min and as I say, "trying to find our way back to sexy".

L8dyJ

Exactly :flowerforyou: You just never know....

L8dyJ

You will get there Just the simple fact that you are on here shows your efforts. Keep on movin

WarmDontBurn

I am a bad "friend".

So if my friends read this post I will say I am sorry now. I am not on FB because really I just don't care to have anyone know where I am when and what I am doing.

On here I rarely ask to be requested and if someone ask me to friend them I generally will...however I don't accept men...sorry.
I update and support when I can but it isn't my life's goal. I don't spend a lot of time on my home/profile page and often miss questions from friends. I try to do better but if I truly need support I come to the forums.

I am sorry I am a bad friend and will never feel sad if you delete me. NOW if you get deleted and don't feel I was right I encourage you to message me and say "Hey I am here, got deleted can we be friends again" chances are I will accept. I have deleted for people that have not logged in for 3 months +.

L8dyJ

Thanks so much AJ for taking the time to share your thoughts with me and I appreciate it because you hit every single point that I was trying to make.
In regards to that no responsive friend, oh well, their loss. I can't wrap my brain around that attitude because this is a support group and we all don't move at the same pace and I love the point about sometimes people are shy and it takes a while for them to even put themselves out there in the first place.

You seem like a great person so keep your head up and let's just keep it movin with the friends who hang in there with us. Those are the types of people we want around us anyways right

L8dyJ

I agree and I am a little guilty of getting caught up in the app on my galaxy tab because it just allows me to post my activity and I can't view what the other members are doing unless I physically grab my computer and log into my laptop. When I notice that, I make sure to offer extra support to my group.