My first NSV well overdue :-)

timeforme23
timeforme23 Posts: 461
edited September 2024 in Success Stories
So I joined this website about a month and a half after my boyfriend of 4 years decided we needed to take a break. His idea of taking a break was ignoring me, reconnecting with his exs, and hanging out with the boys. The worst part . . I STUCK AROUND because when I confronted him about it he always had something nice to say. ANYWAYS after another awesome gym trip today I finally looked at myself and wondered "wtf is wrong with me"!? I went home and packed up everything he gave me over the years that reminded me of him, went to his house, dropped it off, told him I was done, to treat his next girlfriend a lot better, and drove off. I was so proud of myself, I should have done that months ago! Naturally hes stopped ignoring me and is now asking how to fix things . . too little too late. I found my self confidence. I miss me with self confidence :-)

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  • jennro7781
    jennro7781 Posts: 208
    WOOHOO!!!! Good for you girl!!! :)
  • MichelleMcWain
    MichelleMcWain Posts: 66 Member
    Good for you!
  • dragonbug300
    dragonbug300 Posts: 760 Member
    Good going! Way to get a sense of self-worth, my dear!
  • waverly9876
    waverly9876 Posts: 605 Member
    Wow! I am proud of you for sticking up for yourself. You deserve to be treated well. Before I met my bf, I would like guys that treated me like crap, ignored me, etc. I have found the best guy and you will too. U will meet someone who wont ignore you or treat you badly. GO YOU!!!
  • skinnyjeanzbound
    skinnyjeanzbound Posts: 3,932 Member
    That is awesome--you deserve better. It's all about how they treat you--this should be everyone's top priority when looking for a mate--it should supersede, looks, intelligence, money--nothing is more important. Happy for you that you found your confidence :flowerforyou:
  • deadmittens
    deadmittens Posts: 536 Member
    Congrats!
  • LovelySnugs
    LovelySnugs Posts: 389
    that is BY FAR the sexiest thing i've heard, seen, or read today. seriously. hot. way to go!
  • kacarter1017
    kacarter1017 Posts: 651 Member
    Good for you!! This is just the beginning of great things for you. Once you have confidence in yourself, the sky's the limit!
  • Heather75
    Heather75 Posts: 3,386 Member
    I LOVE this. You found your strength and your self-respect. Some people never do.
  • OnionCookie
    OnionCookie Posts: 272 Member
    Way to go. Someday you'll find a guy that deserves your awesomeness and he'll regret his actions. Awesome.
  • sarahsmom1
    sarahsmom1 Posts: 1,501 Member
    Good for you. You can do better and will
  • healthyjen342
    healthyjen342 Posts: 1,435 Member
    very Whitney in Waiting to Exhale-like!! YOU GO GIRL!
  • alexbowser
    alexbowser Posts: 322
    Amazing, you should be so proud of yourself.
  • timeforme23
    timeforme23 Posts: 461
    I love the support here, It makes me strive to be so much better. Thank you all!
  • abeautifulvoice
    abeautifulvoice Posts: 246
    Good for you!!
  • Steph_135
    Steph_135 Posts: 3,280 Member
    That's beautiful! :drinker:
  • 12by311
    12by311 Posts: 1,716 Member
    That's AWESOME! Love that light bulb! :)
  • szimba
    szimba Posts: 290 Member
    you go girl!!!!! :D
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