If they could see me now....

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  • RachVR6
    RachVR6 Posts: 3,688 Member
    It's okay, I learned a lot about how not to be a parent from him. :laugh: When I have kids, I'm going to teach them about nutrition and portions, and that you can't just throw pills at your problems!
  • Carrie6o6
    Carrie6o6 Posts: 1,443 Member

    I feel ya! My dad put me on appetite supressants and my stepmom made me take slimfast to school for lunch when I was 13!!!

    What the...???? :noway: :angry:

    He's one that I can't wait to see when I lose the weight, to show him he was wrong! He always told me I was gonna eat and eat until I was as big as a house like my Aunt Kate on my mom's side of the family. Such a pleasant guy he was....:grumble: :laugh:


    Oh wow! Mine just always told me that I would be 200lbs if I kept eating the way I did. My grandma would also tell me no guys would ever like me cause guys dont like the "big" girls. She would also give sweets and things to everyone else but me and tell me in front of everyone else that I "didnt" need them. :noway:
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member


    Oh wow! Mine just always told me that I would be 200lbs if I kept eating the way I did. My grandma would also tell me no guys would ever like me cause guys dont like the "big" girls. She would also give sweets and things to everyone else but me and tell me in front of everyone else that I "didnt" need them. :noway:

    Okay, now I'm getting mad at myself for starting this! :ohwell:

    That's terrible!! :noway: :flowerforyou:
  • Carrie6o6
    Carrie6o6 Posts: 1,443 Member


    Oh wow! Mine just always told me that I would be 200lbs if I kept eating the way I did. My grandma would also tell me no guys would ever like me cause guys dont like the "big" girls. She would also give sweets and things to everyone else but me and tell me in front of everyone else that I "didnt" need them. :noway:

    Okay, now I'm getting mad at myself for starting this! :ohwell:

    That's terrible!! :noway: :flowerforyou:

    hahaha Its alright thanks! I like it. Kinda helps vent!! They didnt mean to do me any harm. I went and talked to my grandma about it and how it made me feel. She was very sorry. She thought she was helping (im very close to my grandma so I know she meant well). The scars are still there, it does hurt at times.. but then I think "its alright, I am not going to be this size anymore!!" Plus all of my family is being very supportive of me. :smile:
  • RachVR6
    RachVR6 Posts: 3,688 Member
    hahaha Its alright thanks! I like it. Kinda helps vent!! They didnt mean to do me any harm. I went and talked to my grandma about it and how it made me feel. She was very sorry. She thought she was helping (im very close to my grandma so I know she meant well). The scars are still there, it does hurt at times.. but then I think "its alright, I am not going to be this size anymore!!" Plus all of my family is being very supportive of me. :smile:

    Ditto! These things help drive me. We all need to vent and recognize that though it may have been wrong for people to do these things, they often don't mean it to be that way. We've grown stronger and become better because of it! :happy:
  • kellch
    kellch Posts: 7,849 Member
    My abusive ex that called me a fat, ugly, @#$% every single day and told me how ugly I was and that I kept getting fatter and fatter and fatter. Then when I cried he'd say "go eat a cheeseburger b@#$%" YEAH YEAH LOOK AT ME NOW @#$%!#$ UMMMM JERKWAD :bigsmile: I'M SEXAY I'M SEXAY OH YEAH I'M SEXAY...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • RachVR6
    RachVR6 Posts: 3,688 Member
    YEAH YEAH LOOK AT ME NOW @#$%!#$ UMMMM JERKWAD :bigsmile: I'M SEXAY I'M SEXAY OH YEAH I'M SEXAY...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    :laugh: :flowerforyou:
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    My abusive ex that called me a fat, ugly, @#$% every single day and told me how ugly I was and that I kept getting fatter and fatter and fatter. Then when I cried he'd say "go eat a cheeseburger b@#$%" YEAH YEAH LOOK AT ME NOW @#$%!#$ UMMMM JERKWAD :bigsmile: I'M SEXAY I'M SEXAY OH YEAH I'M SEXAY...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Yeah...jerkwad!!!!! machinegunsmilie.gif
  • Carrie6o6
    Carrie6o6 Posts: 1,443 Member
    My abusive ex that called me a fat, ugly, @#$% every single day and told me how ugly I was and that I kept getting fatter and fatter and fatter. Then when I cried he'd say "go eat a cheeseburger b@#$%" YEAH YEAH LOOK AT ME NOW @#$%!#$ UMMMM JERKWAD :bigsmile: I'M SEXAY I'M SEXAY OH YEAH I'M SEXAY...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:


    Wooo hoo!! Good for you!! :bigsmile: :laugh:
  • kellch
    kellch Posts: 7,849 Member
    My abusive ex that called me a fat, ugly, @#$% every single day and told me how ugly I was and that I kept getting fatter and fatter and fatter. Then when I cried he'd say "go eat a cheeseburger b@#$%" YEAH YEAH LOOK AT ME NOW @#$%!#$ UMMMM JERKWAD :bigsmile: I'M SEXAY I'M SEXAY OH YEAH I'M SEXAY...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Yeah...jerkwad!!!!! machinegunsmilie.gif

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • ali106
    ali106 Posts: 3,754 Member
    let me break out my list................naaaa FORGET them if they are lucky and catch a glimpse of my greatness when I'm done w/ my goal....then LUCKY for them!!!...................if its because I find out where they work and then walk by until they finally come out so be it.....it will be FATE that does it and NOT me....:noway: :bigsmile: :ohwell: :drinker:
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    let me break out my list................naaaa FORGET them if they are lucky and catch a glimpse of my greatness when I'm done w/ my goal....then LUCKY for them!!!...................if its because I find out where they work and then walk by until they finally come out so be it.....it will be FATE that does it and NOT me....:noway: :bigsmile: :ohwell: :drinker:

    :laugh: :laugh:

    That's right! You just leave it in the hands of the big fella, girl!! :love:
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