Friends

angievaughn
angievaughn Posts: 655 Member
edited September 2024 in Motivation and Support
I get friend request...and I have requested friends.......and the friend list can add up really fast!! I don't want to max out on friends....just want a great group of people to share this journey with!! I have some that post positive stuff for me all the time!!! I post all the time....when I am on the computer!!!

After a month of not logins from a friend....I delete them!! Is that wrong? Or is one month long enough to say that....."that friend is not for me"?

What do you think?? How long before you clean your friend list up????

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  • ladybug1620
    ladybug1620 Posts: 1,136 Member
    I do the same. Although if I see MFP post that "so and so hasn't logged on in 3 days" I try to send a quick message to see where they are.
  • Tomhusker
    Tomhusker Posts: 346 Member
    I do the same. Although if I see MFP post that "so and so hasn't logged on in 3 days" I try to send a quick message to see where they are.

    +1
  • angievaughn
    angievaughn Posts: 655 Member
    Oh...I don't do it after 3 days....because that could be just a long weekend!! I make sure it's a whole month before I do it!!!
  • richiedbond
    richiedbond Posts: 58
    I do the same thing. 30 days seems to be a good time frame.
  • VixFit2011
    VixFit2011 Posts: 663 Member
    I do the same. Although if I see MFP post that "so and so hasn't logged on in 3 days" I try to send a quick message to see where they are.


    I try to do this too. It's really hard to keep up with everybody regularly because there's so many posts and people but I do try along with all my other busy things I do.
  • tj5000
    tj5000 Posts: 69 Member
    Me too!
    A month or more, maybe they are not serious about this journey and have given up. A few days or whatever then maybe they are on holiday or working away etc so I give them the benefit of the doubt.
    I'm off on holiday in 3 weeks time for 10 days, hope I don't get deleted and come back to no friends!!! It is too expensive to log in from my phone abroad and I don't know how much it will cost to use a computer somewhere on my travels.
  • tlp8rb
    tlp8rb Posts: 556 Member
    And it's possible they've found a different online program that works better for them. I tried two others before I found MFP.
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