what do u require??
mishelnkiki
Posts: 775 Member
so some coworkers and i were discussing this on break... what do u REQUIRE of the person u are dating, trying to date, talking to, sleeping with... watever. the person of the opposite sex.. or same sex i suppose. ok ok u get my drift.
ive seen lots of posts on personality traits, and lots on physical attributes, but what do u require??
example... must have job!
-must have vehicle
-must not live with mom, or his bm and or gf and their 8 kids.
-must not do drugs.
ok theres mine... wat are urs? i was super shocked to hear what some of my coworkers said...
one said must not have hairy feet. i almost died laughing!
ive seen lots of posts on personality traits, and lots on physical attributes, but what do u require??
example... must have job!
-must have vehicle
-must not live with mom, or his bm and or gf and their 8 kids.
-must not do drugs.
ok theres mine... wat are urs? i was super shocked to hear what some of my coworkers said...
one said must not have hairy feet. i almost died laughing!
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Must be able to deal with my madness......I found one that could♥0
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Since I have been married forever, I require being left alone as much as possible!!!!!!
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Must have a good relationship with his family, must want a family, must be ambitious, and must be able to communicate with me. Must NOT smoke.0
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Want somebody self sufficient.
Doesn't need to be with me; wants to be with me.
Calls me out on my Bullsh*t.
Nice rack.0 -
independent.
smart.
funny.
must have a job.0 -
Must have good personal hygine
Must not complain
Must be able to cook
Must own own car
Must have lots of money
Must NOT have too much baggage
Must not talk about ones self too much
Must be able to use washing machine
Must be sexualy attractive to me
Must make an effort with me
Must help me with all my problems
Must be able to make me laugh
Must not question me even when wrong
Must not be smug when I am
ok ok I am joking I have found her already and she pretty much does most of that0 -
Intelligent
Fun to be with
Independent
And can handle me ha ha0 -
LOL... i was about to say... good luck with that. ha!Must have good personal hygine
Must not complain
Must be able to cook
Must own own car
Must have lots of money
Must NOT have too much baggage
Must not talk about ones self too much
Must be able to use washing machine
Must be sexualy attractive to me
Must make an effort with me
Must help me with all my problems
Must be able to make me laugh
Must not question me even when wrong
Must not be smug when I am
ok ok I am joking I have found her already and she pretty much does most of that0 -
he must be/have:
self pride fantastic hygene honest logical desire to do right $$$ fun happy think i'm wonderful!
:flowerforyou: i found my mr right on the www 10 yrs ago!0 -
BRAINS! You don't have to be a member of mesa but I've just met way too many people who are one neuron short of a synapse. I'm also done with women who have a standing que of ex-boyfriends or whatever who are now just "friends" however are more than willing to get back together after they annoy the new guy out of the picture.
Beyond that a good personality, stable emotional build, and a firm grasp on reality are awesome. I don't argue but I do tend to have strong opinions and really don't have the patience to coddle someone every step of the way. If you ask for my opinion please be sure you actually want it. If you're overly sensitive, can't take a joke, or can't handle honest, please don't apply.
That and she'd have to be able to deal with my line of work.0 -
I usually do not reply to this things, but it is Friday and what the hell. I have a list of things I require that I require of a paramore and I do not think I will ever meet anyone due to my probably unrealistic expectations.
No snuggling, after making love please get on your side of the bed and let me rest damn it!
Must be educated and earn a decent living
Must be independant and not be a," mommy's girl"
Must not be an a**hole
I can't stand people that talk about theor past all the time, grow up and move on
Must be my sparring partner for Tae Kwon Do and Jiu Jitsu
Must be in shape and give a shat about her appearance
Must not be a,"man women" (those chicks that wear jeans and t shirts and refuse anything feminine).
I want a women that would be a good parent to my daughter
I want as little communication as possible, we will schedule times to chat, not during my damn $54.99 UFC pay per view!
The girl I date must likje yoga, eastern philosopy, martial arts, music, and not allow me to do my thing
My paramore will not funk up my man cave with girlie shat, I have the home decorated in a post modern flare, leave it alone
Leave me alone and let me play my bass guitar in peace!
Actually, I don't think anyone could put with me, that is why I am single and lovin' it!0 -
i read the very first line and was already like... seriously! LOL. sparring partner.. LOVE it.. lets go baby! i love jeans and teeshirts! but i can still pull off the fem quite well when needed... serious country girl here hun! yoga... HATE it... DESPISE it. will do it only bc tony tells me i have to! KB.. how are we gonna go to vegas now??? BTW...im still waitin on that dayum ring!I usually do not reply to this things, but it is Friday and what the hell. I have a list of things I require that I require of a paramore and I do not think I will ever meet anyone due to my probably unrealistic expectations.
No snuggling, after making love please get on your side of the bed and let me rest damn it!
Must be educated and earn a decent living
Must be independant and not be a," mommy's girl"
Must not be an a**hole
I can't stand people that talk about theor past all the time, grow up and move on
Must be my sparring partner for Tae Kwon Do and Jiu Jitsu
Must be in shape and give a shat about her appearance
Must not be a,"man women" (those chicks that wear jeans and t shirts and refuse anything feminine).
I want a women that would be a good parent to my daughter
I want as little communication as possible, we will schedule times to chat, not during my damn $54.99 UFC pay per view!
The girl I date must likje yoga, eastern philosopy, martial arts, music, and not allow me to do my thing
My paramore will not funk up my man cave with girlie shat, I have the home decorated in a post modern flare, leave it alone
Leave me alone and let me play my bass guitar in peace!
Actually, I don't think anyone could put with me, that is why I am single and lovin' it!0 -
Bigger house, better job, newer car!! lol0
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OMG. the list is way too long.
must WANT me.. is the first thing that comes to mind. I love that my husband is constantly complimenting me, flirting with me.
Must be employed in a stable job, or be actively working toward something reliable.
Musn't smoke or be addicted to alcohol or drugs
Must be emotionally and physically faithful
Must "get" me--just have that connection where you can understand each other
Must be fairly intelligent, and not be intimidated if I'm smarter in some areas
Must be willing to be part of a family
Must be able to deal with (or preferably enjoy) my neurosis
Must be compatible in the bedroom (or out)!0 -
K. I. S. S. (keep it simple stupid)
Boobies, Compatible personality (this covers a lot), Drug and Disease free0 -
I require a person to be:
1) Smart as or smarter than me (not difficult)
2) Funny or at least think I am funny (a little more difficult)
3) Be attracted to me (strangely the most difficult :laugh: )
As for race, creed, appearance, age, etc., I have been all over the board
Doesn't seem like high standards, but I am surprised how many folks do get weeded out 0 -
Must have:
confidence
intelligence
appetite for pleasure/life
a sense of humor
MUST, without question, recognize the importance of family.
MUST also be very in tune with who HE is, and know what he wants and needs from a person.0 -
must be awesome......... of course0
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MUST have kids... cuz i most def am NOT having anymore!0
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must be independant
must make me smile
must be intelligent
must be spontaneuous
must be passionate
MUST be able to give me space
okie dokie there it is lol.. shortened version hehe0 -
MUST have kids... cuz i most def am NOT having anymore!
What if he doesn't want any kids? Is that better or worse?0 -
must be taller than me
must have nice teeth
my parents and brother MUST love you
must be willing to drive me around a lot (I hate driving)
must take care of me and put up with my crazy outbursts as a girl
but i already found him and he fits all these plus more!
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worse! i have two kids. so therefore, if they dont want children, then they arent the one for me!MUST have kids... cuz i most def am NOT having anymore!
What if he doesn't want any kids? Is that better or worse?0 -
couldnt agree more! not many men meet that qualification... 6ft tall. ugh. lol.must be taller than me0 -
Must understand:
- distribution of weight and how it affects traction
- sifo
- the gas pedal is not an on off switch
- cool cars don't make cool people
- fast cars don't make fast drivers
- illegal street racing is childish and irresponsible
- race lines
- I'm going to the rally. No matter what.
Left foot braking and drivers > cars preferred but not required.
No manufactured hybrids! Not even a Tesla.0 -
couldnt agree more! not many men meet that qualification... 6ft tall. ugh. lol.must be taller than me
Your 6Ft tall, *drops into best cheesy Joey Tribbiani voice* " How U Doin'?"
j/k: I am too old. 0 -
LOL. yes i am... and how old is too old?? i like older men. HA!
couldnt agree more! not many men meet that qualification... 6ft tall. ugh. lol.must be taller than me
Your 6Ft tall, *drops into best cheesy Joey Tribbiani voice* " How U Doin'?"
j/k: I am too old.0 -
Must understand:
- distribution of weight and how it affects traction
- sifo
- the gas pedal is not an on off switch
- cool cars don't make cool people
- fast cars don't make fast drivers
- illegal street racing is childish and irresponsible
- race lines
- I'm going to the rally. No matter what.
Left foot braking and drivers > cars preferred but not required.
No manufactured hybrids! Not even a Tesla.
HILARIOUS! and this is part of the reason that i love u! too funny!0 -
Looking at what I like best about my wife its:
Intelligent - must be able to hold a conversation about something deeper than X Factor or Corrie.
Drive - must want to succeed and willing to put in 110% into things
Sense of humour - must be broadly similar to my own, I like things like Curb, Always Sunny, Arrested Development
Take turns - I've plenty of friends were the relationship is onsided, I've no interest in that, each should support the other
Kids come first - my kids are the joint most important thing to me (along with my wife)
Like dogs - my dogs are the third most important thing to me, you gotta love 'em
Understand that I need regular space0 -
gotta love long walks on the beach and sushi....
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