This is why I'm marrying him ....

Boladefuego326
Boladefuego326 Posts: 143 Member
edited September 28 in Chit-Chat
Ok...I'm pretty sure you are all aware of my accident. It didnt allow me to work and caused alot of pain. My boyfriend...Drew...has been there to take care of me and drive me places. He's a Geek Squad Agent at Best Buy and doesn't make alot as is. He has his own apartment to pay for as well.



To pay for rent I tried to sell my cnon 60D but was scammed and sent it to Nigeria while I didnt get paid. I asked my dad (divorced) for some help with rent and he called me a liar, idiot and that he couldn't believe that one of his kids was that stupid. He would never right me a check under my name ever.



I cried for a long time about it and now that rent is due...Drew...pulled all the money he could that made up for my rent. HE GAVE ME JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING HE HAD! Just so I could pay my rent :'( He loves me that much that I feel bad for usuing it. I love him so much... He told me that if he had the money he'd marry me right now.



He said it's just pre-marriage issues that we can work together as a couple for. He's the best thing that has ever happened in my life and I thank god everyday for him. <3

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  • dumb_blondes_rock
    dumb_blondes_rock Posts: 1,568 Member
    if you aren't against it, move in together.,....it would cut your rent down in half lol
  • CassieLEO
    CassieLEO Posts: 757 Member
    He sounds like one amazing man!!! Your a lucky lady!!! My boyfriend is great like that too. If its in his power to help me, he will. Im super lucky too!
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    Wow. Awesome. Things like that happen for a reason. Helps one grow, and brought you two even closer together. Just a taste of what married life is like -- a constant give and take to help each other along the journey.
  • waverly9876
    waverly9876 Posts: 605 Member
    I am so happy u have a guy like that. I had 3 brain surgeries and was partially paralyzed. When I met my bf, I had been out of the hospital and rehabilitation for about 5 months, had hardly any hair and walked like I was 95 years old. He liked me for who I was. We now have been together for almost 3 years. We live together for almost 2. He also doesnt make tons of money. He is working his *kitten* off, saving what he can so he can propose to me. I love him so much and dont know what I would do without him. It shows u that there are good guys out there.
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    It shows u that there are good guys out there.
    Yeah, there's maybe two or three of us. Pretty exclusive club. :wink:
  • mallorybriann
    mallorybriann Posts: 1,380 Member
    LOL! Slim pickins! But us girls that are awesome... we are everywhere :) hahaha:tongue:
    ]Yeah, there's maybe two or three of us. Pretty exclusive club. :wink:
  • Learnin2LuvMe
    Learnin2LuvMe Posts: 465 Member
    Its amazing to have support like that. For someone to go out of his way for you,is truly special.N you are blessed!!! Good luck to the both of you:)
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    LOL! Slim pickins! But us girls that are awesome... we are everywhere :) hahaha:tongue:
    Agreed! My mother didn't raise no fool.
  • neelia
    neelia Posts: 750 Member
    I saw hit the courthouse and get hitched. Now.

    I also agree with the first poster- if you aren't against it, move in together.
  • spr_chkn
    spr_chkn Posts: 48
    He's a keeper :smooched:
  • Rubie81
    Rubie81 Posts: 720 Member
    That is really sweet! What a man!
  • NikkisNewStart
    NikkisNewStart Posts: 1,075 Member
    Agree with above poster... move in together and cut your bills in half! Geez Louise... it's 2011 and if you're not doing to please your parents... based on what you stated about your dad... well... enough said, especially if you're going to marry him. No brainer!
  • oxFaithxo
    oxFaithxo Posts: 160 Member
    OMG that is so sweet... yeah if you AND HIM arent opposed to it.

    So CUTE!
  • Boladefuego326
    Boladefuego326 Posts: 143 Member
    Agree with above poster... move in together and cut your bills in half! Geez Louise... it's 2011 and if you're not doing to please your parents... based on what you stated about your dad... well... enough said, especially if you're going to marry him. No brainer!

    we already looked at apartments and plan on moving in together OFFICIALLY in Sept :3 right now he basically lives with me. He will go to his apartment maybe once a week to see his roommate but the rest of the time he's already with me. :)
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