So sick of starting over..... (VENT)

LaraRN

I'm sooooo VERY disappointed in myself!!!
I really started to feel like I had it this time - and now I've just had THE worst two days....
There goes the 5lbs I worked so *$#@?! hard to lose (
(DOUBLE DISGUSTED!)
Just sayin...

kykykenna

Probably sodium, hon........dont give up...it was just 2 days!!!!

forgetregret

I've been in the same position so many times! It f*cking sucks, but you just gotta get back on track and keep pushing.

LorinaLynn

You're not going to undo all your work in two days unless you ate an extra 17500 calories. You might have a little water retention if you've been eating foods with a lot of sodium. I once "gained" 8 pounds in one day from having a great big bowl of shrimp penne pesto. A few days of eating normal and drinking lots of water and it was gone.

Think of it as a detour. You made a wrong turn and might need to double back a little, but you caught yourself and you're still on the right road. You're not starting over.

tarmlin01

Don't beat yourself up... I set a goal and completely missed it... I was going to try to work out for one whole week. I did five minutes this week... Life can get in the way... Its not about how many times we mess up, its about how many times we get right back up and start all over again....

LaraRN

Wow, thanks a lot everyone...... Hearing these things really DOES help!
Cheers!

aippolito1

Oh honey, I'm right there with you! I was maintaining within about 3-5 lbs of water weight for a year... then I finally got up to a +10 lbs. Even if not all of it is fat, it's really discouraging to see it on the scale. Even my first week back actually counting calories, I've been over everyday... but it's a process. Keep working hard, you know you can get back to where you were...PLUS, just eating better makes you FEEL better so keep reminding yourself of that.

beckusjane

You may have already seen this message. I put it as a blog on my page. I truly think this helps when people feel like they are stuck and not sure what to do to continue. I dont want you to give up. I KNOW you can do this:) I also know there is strength in numbers so feel free to message me anytime if you are having issues throughout the day. I can check in daily with you if you would like:)

Just so you know, this may turn into a novel:) And dont go strictly by any of this. What works for one person may not work for someone else. We did a "Get Fit, Get Healthy" challenge at my work for 8 weeks. I lost about 22 lbs. and 5% of my body fat. We had to do certain things to get points for the challenge. These are the things we needed to do:

*64 oz. of water each day. This does not include coffee, juices or kool-aid. Now you can have 64 oz. + juices but you must drink 64 oz. When you do drink juices, they have to be 100% juice. Easy enough right? Grape juice, apple juice, orange juice. Tomato juice too but the sodium is ridiculous in it. I'm sure if you want some of that it would be ok for a change. Just dont make it your only juice.

*7 hours or more of sleep. This can be hard if you have small children or just a hectic schedule. If you are able to lie down for a nap during the day, you can count that, but it is much better if you can get 7 hrs straight.

*Eat breakfast within 2 hrs of waking up. This is a hard one. Some people just cant stand eating first thing in the morning. I usually grab something quick like an apple or a banana.

*5 servings of fruits/veggies a day. Pretty straight forward. Again this is where your juices come in. You can use 4 oz. of fruit juice as a serving of fruit. For the record, jelly beans are not a fruit even if they are fruit flavored.

* 210 minutes of cardio a week. Now you can get this walking, biking, swimming, yardwork (raking and push mowing count) snow shoveling is a BIG one but obviously it will be a few months til we can do that again and I dont mind a bit!! Now it doesnt matter how you break this down as long as you do a minimum of 10 minutes for any time you are counting it. You can do more than 210 minutes of course if your schedule allows.

*Toning with free weights or stretch bands 3 times a week for 10 minutes a piece. You can definitely do more than 3 times. That is only the minimum. Sometimes I will use my free weight and incorporate them into my aerobic routines.

That's it. Those are the simple rules I am following and the weight is coming off. You dont want it to fall off all at once. If it does, then you're doing something drastic and the chances of sticking with it are slim. Working it off slowly is the best ticket. Making small changes makes it easier to become lifestyle changes not temporary fixes.

Also, I tend to stay away from white flour. You can eat breads, potatoes and pasta in moderate amounts but it is much better for you if you eat whole wheat breads and pastas or sweet potatoes. Dont get worried about the fact that there are about as many carbs in whole wheat pasta as there is in the regular. It's better for you~trust me!!

Another trick that helps? If you have time, measure out a serving of your snacks. Use ziplock baggies and have them ready to grab and go. I usually have pretzels, animal crackers stuff like that ready so that I dont have to think about it. If I just try to sit with a bag of pretzels, pretty soon Ive eaten half the bag but if I have a true serving size packaged, I know when to stop.

If the idea of this process is overwhelming, dont try to change everything at once. Maybe work on 5 fruits/veggies and once you have that figured out, then try 64 oz of water. Keep adding a step to it til you are on your way to healthier choices.

Good luck. Hope this helps:)

Becca