I'm smaller!

stressd1mom
stressd1mom Posts: 151 Member
edited September 2024 in Chit-Chat
Okay, so I'm not a mean spirited person, I like most everyone. However, there is this one lady that I definitely DO NOT like. She is not a nice person at all. She does not live a very nice lifestyle but all of that is beside the point. The point is a few years ago at a company function we were on this dinner boat. I was smaller than I am even now & she says as loud as she can 'I DIDN'T KNOW YOU WERE PREGNANT AGAIN!' I wasn't. Well I just ran into her at the grocery store & she is way bigger than I was even when I first started. I didn't ask her if SHE was pregnant. It made me feel kind of good though.

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  • ChantalGG
    ChantalGG Posts: 2,404 Member
    You should have asked if she just had a baby at least! lol
    I was getting looks at my belly before i started on here, one of the many reasons i need to lose weight. And my cousin jokingly asked if i was at easter. i didnt find it funny.
  • sister_bear
    sister_bear Posts: 529 Member
    Good for you.

    Yes, the "how far along are you?" questions have caused many sleepless nights for me. And no one EVER looks embarrassed when I tell them I'm not pregnant. *sigh*

    Kudos for being the 'bigger' person about this. :laugh: :wink:
  • Heather75
    Heather75 Posts: 3,386 Member
    Glad you took the high road. Well done!
  • LilChickPea
    LilChickPea Posts: 122 Member
    :laugh: That must have totally felt good! What goes around comes around!
  • One time I had an old lady try to convince me that I was pregnant when I told her I wasn't. Her exact words were, "Are you sure, honey? You look like you may be coming along there. You might need to go to the doctor if you're not sure." Trust me, lady... I'm sure!
  • Ashlea_M
    Ashlea_M Posts: 165 Member
    A stranger once stopped me in a store and asked me if I was having a boy or a girl- I was definitely not pregnant and I was about 20kg lighter than I am now! It was so embarrassing because she was completely convinced I was pregnant to the point of not even asking if I was or not! lol I know exactly how you feel :)
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