Unleashing Your Red Hot Mama
SiltyPigeon
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A friend of mine sent me this article after I mentioned being nervous about wearing a bikini (in public!!) this weekend. I loved it so much, I just had to share with all my Red Hot Mamas on MFP!
Keys to Unleashing Your Red Hot Mama
It's not about reclaiming the Maiden, it's about embracing the Red Hot Mama!
Published on May 24, 2011 by Pamela Madsen in Shameless Woman
"It's no longer about trying to reclaim the Maiden - the power lies in embracing the Red Hot Mama!" a fabulous sexuality and birth educator named Nekole Malia Shapiro said this to me during a girl to girl talk over Skype last night.
Bam. Did she ever hit it on the head! For the woman over a certain age - and that age can be anywhere over 30 - so many of us are working to try and reclaim the Maiden or the young woman. What a waste of time! We chase the vanishing Maiden so many ways - from plastic surgery, lasers, diets, and super paneled underwear to how we choose to walk in the world.
The interesting part is that most of the hot sexual juice is being held by the Red Hot Mamas! The woman who has lived a chunk of life, and is no longer concerned with perfect. You know that I speak the truth - you have seen her haven't you? That woman of a certain age, tossing her hair and swinging her hips as she sashays down the street? She walks down the street with her eyes wide open, her smile soft on her lips and a willingness to not only see others - but for others to see herself. She is free.
Red Hot Mamas are no longer concerned with perfection - they know that is a game that no one can win. Instead Red Hot Mamas allow themselves to have a sense of inner abandon and are finally ready to give into their precious inner wildness. Please do not confuse Red Hot Mamas with Cougars. Cougars speak of being a sexual predictor of young men. A Red Hot Mama does not need to hunt - men are attracted to her!
Are you ready to step into your Red Hot Mama-ness? Here are a few tips to help you get in touch with your own steaming, loving, sexy self.
1. Get in touch with your morning ritual! Don't start by bemoaning the mirror! Red Hot Mamas glow from the inside out. Let's start with the shower! Wash yourself with soap, scrubs, and shampoo that turn you on! Allow yourself to really feel your own body under your hands while you go through your morning cleansing. Allow a little pleasure in. Feel your shapes, curves and flat planes and rolling hills. Consider playing some music in the morning for yourself to start your engines!
2. Get dressed in the morning for you. Who are you today? What will turn you on? Start with what is the closest to your skin. French women know all about lingerie! They start at a very young age. If you don't own some sexy pieces - go shopping! You can buy some hot sexy lingerie at some not so hot prices....trust me! The point is to point something close to your skin that reminds you that you are a Hot Sexy Mama all day long. If you wear skimpy panties - and a skirt or dress - the air touching your skin can be a fabulous reminder or your hot sexuality all day long. Even how you sit in sexy underwear can turn you into an embodied goddess. I can promise you that the sexy energy that you will build inside yourself will radiate out. Not only will you feel hot and sexy - but the world will smile right back!
3. Hot Sexy Mama's are not invisible. You can read a bit about my tips for becoming visible in this blog "Are You an Invisible Woman". Learn to be generous with your eyes! See people and they will see you. Hot Sexy Mamas see people and meet the world with their eyes wide open!
4. Hot Sexy Mama's are women who have learned how to tap into in their own inner resources of sexual energy. I call this living life as a Turned On Woman. You can read more about this here!
5. Dance, Dance, Dance! Dancing is a wonderful way to get in touch with your Red Hot Mama and begin to sort out getting in touch with your feminine. Try salsa, tango, burlesque and even pole dancing!
6. Look around you and use some of the resources that are available to support you on your journey!
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/shameless-woman/201105/keys-unleashing-your-red-hot-mama
Keys to Unleashing Your Red Hot Mama
It's not about reclaiming the Maiden, it's about embracing the Red Hot Mama!
Published on May 24, 2011 by Pamela Madsen in Shameless Woman
"It's no longer about trying to reclaim the Maiden - the power lies in embracing the Red Hot Mama!" a fabulous sexuality and birth educator named Nekole Malia Shapiro said this to me during a girl to girl talk over Skype last night.
Bam. Did she ever hit it on the head! For the woman over a certain age - and that age can be anywhere over 30 - so many of us are working to try and reclaim the Maiden or the young woman. What a waste of time! We chase the vanishing Maiden so many ways - from plastic surgery, lasers, diets, and super paneled underwear to how we choose to walk in the world.
The interesting part is that most of the hot sexual juice is being held by the Red Hot Mamas! The woman who has lived a chunk of life, and is no longer concerned with perfect. You know that I speak the truth - you have seen her haven't you? That woman of a certain age, tossing her hair and swinging her hips as she sashays down the street? She walks down the street with her eyes wide open, her smile soft on her lips and a willingness to not only see others - but for others to see herself. She is free.
Red Hot Mamas are no longer concerned with perfection - they know that is a game that no one can win. Instead Red Hot Mamas allow themselves to have a sense of inner abandon and are finally ready to give into their precious inner wildness. Please do not confuse Red Hot Mamas with Cougars. Cougars speak of being a sexual predictor of young men. A Red Hot Mama does not need to hunt - men are attracted to her!
Are you ready to step into your Red Hot Mama-ness? Here are a few tips to help you get in touch with your own steaming, loving, sexy self.
1. Get in touch with your morning ritual! Don't start by bemoaning the mirror! Red Hot Mamas glow from the inside out. Let's start with the shower! Wash yourself with soap, scrubs, and shampoo that turn you on! Allow yourself to really feel your own body under your hands while you go through your morning cleansing. Allow a little pleasure in. Feel your shapes, curves and flat planes and rolling hills. Consider playing some music in the morning for yourself to start your engines!
2. Get dressed in the morning for you. Who are you today? What will turn you on? Start with what is the closest to your skin. French women know all about lingerie! They start at a very young age. If you don't own some sexy pieces - go shopping! You can buy some hot sexy lingerie at some not so hot prices....trust me! The point is to point something close to your skin that reminds you that you are a Hot Sexy Mama all day long. If you wear skimpy panties - and a skirt or dress - the air touching your skin can be a fabulous reminder or your hot sexuality all day long. Even how you sit in sexy underwear can turn you into an embodied goddess. I can promise you that the sexy energy that you will build inside yourself will radiate out. Not only will you feel hot and sexy - but the world will smile right back!
3. Hot Sexy Mama's are not invisible. You can read a bit about my tips for becoming visible in this blog "Are You an Invisible Woman". Learn to be generous with your eyes! See people and they will see you. Hot Sexy Mamas see people and meet the world with their eyes wide open!
4. Hot Sexy Mama's are women who have learned how to tap into in their own inner resources of sexual energy. I call this living life as a Turned On Woman. You can read more about this here!
5. Dance, Dance, Dance! Dancing is a wonderful way to get in touch with your Red Hot Mama and begin to sort out getting in touch with your feminine. Try salsa, tango, burlesque and even pole dancing!
6. Look around you and use some of the resources that are available to support you on your journey!
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/shameless-woman/201105/keys-unleashing-your-red-hot-mama
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This rocks!0
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I loved this!0
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Love this! Thanks for sharing
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LOVE IT!! Thanks for sharing!0
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thats awesome.0
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LOVE IT!!! Thanks for sharing0
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DAMN! That was perfect!!!!!! - PS: The underwear suggestion really works!!!!!!0
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thanks for sharing this
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So true, so true. I love the quote "As with any great masterpiece, I am a work in progress". I am going to learn to embrace my years of experience!!0
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So true, so true. I love the quote "As with any great masterpiece, I am a work in progress". I am going to learn to embrace my years of experience!!0
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This is great! I love it! Just do YOU!0
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FABULOUS! Thanks for sharing!! ;-)0
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