I want to start a family...

Er2dathrown

My husband and I would like to start trying to have a baby in about 4 months, but right now I still have around 100 pounds to lose to be at a healthy weight. I'm not sure how much of that can come off before November and I'm afraid a doctor would tell us not to have a baby until I'm at a healthy weight. Could I be keeping my husband and I from our dream? I feel so guilty. If anyone has any advice, I would greatly appreciate it.

36jessica

Hi! Having a family is a wonderful thing and I really do wish you the best. Still, there are risks with trying to carry a pregnancy if you're reallly overweight. It's very important that you're as healthy as possible. Maybe you should just postpone, NOT GIVE UP, your dream for just a little bit longer. Pregnancy is a great thing (I've been through 3) and you really deserve to live it to the fullest. Don't feel guilty because you health and your future baby's health need to be your primary concern. If you do decide to go ahead, though, please speak with a good doctor who will monitor you through your pregnancy helping you with a controlled diet that will give you and your baby all the right nutrition. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!:flowerforyou:

acaudill042106

Hi! Having a family is a wonderful thing and I really do wish you the best. Still, there are risks with trying to carry a pregnancy if you're reallly overweight. It's very important that you're as healthy as possible. Maybe you should just postpone, NOT GIVE UP, your dream for just a little bit longer. Pregnancy is a great thing (I've been through 3) and you really deserve to live it to the fullest. Don't feel guilty because you health and your future baby's health need to be your primary concern. If you do decide to go ahead, though, please speak with a good doctor who will monitor you through your pregnancy helping you with a controlled diet that will give you and your baby all the right nutrition. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!:flowerforyou:

This....exactly. AND....Good luck to you!